Why do i hate myself so much suddenly?
Everyone has given you good advice already so I don't know how much more I can offer other than to say I've followed your questions and I think you try very hard at whatever you attempt. Maybe too hard. You said in another question today that you think you may be OCD. Do you really know what that entails? It's things like compulsive washing your hands over and over and over...turning a light off and then turning the switch back on just to turn it off again just to be sure the light is off. Sorry, didn't mean to answer the other question here. But that came to mind reading your question. It sounds like you're a perfectionist when it comes to yourself. You expect yourself to be better than everybody else and better than you were yesterday or the day before. Not one of us is that good. You're so young; don't bog yourself down with unrealistic expectations. Because you're trying so hard you're probably making those small mistakes. Your coach isn't shaking his head because you're dumb or bad at the sport, but because he can see you're not yourself and that you're overcompensating for previous mistakes. It's not healthy to go home and scream and cry for 3 hours. Part of that is hormones and being a normal 14 year old "drama queen" . That's not meant in a derogatory way--that's just how teenage girls are, full of drama worthy of a soap opera. You say you have a great family. Are you having these tirades so they'll ask about them and you can revert to being a little girl and getting comfort without having to ask for it? Sometimes at 14 it's hard to tell someone you need a hug or a "Mom and me" moment. From earlier comments in your Q & A's (I added you a long time ago to my list so I've kept up with you and how you're doing) I think you're normal in most respects. I do have to wonder if you're taking too much on. I question if you're depressed, but if you are, then that's part of being a teenager. If you think it's getting serious, talk to your family and tell them you need help. Don't let it get to the point where you do something dumb like cutting. If you want to talk, let me know and I'll e-mail you if you send me yours and I'll try to help you. For now, take a deep breath and tell yourself that today WASN'T the worst day of your life.
I suddenly HATE my cat. Why is this?
Damn, take a pill and chill out. Sounds to me like like you have a real good cat. If your female and at the age I think you may be, it may be the whole hormonal imbalance thing. Just relax and enjoy Kitty.
Why do all my friends suddenly hate me?
Ok so I'm 13 and I'm starting 8th grade in a month and I'm scared that I'm not going to have any friends. So once school ended, I learned that one of my best friends tianna actually hates me.I was pretty upset but I was slowly getting over it. Just a couple days ago I had hung out with my best friend Reem for the whole weekend up at my grandmothers lake house.while we were there she talked a lot about my old friend Nolan who was acting up and being annoying lately and kinda convinced me that he was a bad person.so when I got back I texted Nolan and he just wanted to explain things to me in person so I met up with him today and he told me that tianna and Reem called him one day to ask him to get rid of me because they didn't want me to hang out with them.I asked Reem about it later and she freaked out on me for being friends with Nolan again.she called me dumb and clueless and I got really mad at her and told her that all she was good for was sucking dick.I immediately felt bad about saying that but I also didn't want to apologize bc I was still mad .then my friend Hailoana turned on me bc of what I said and then they added me into a group chat of people I didn't even know and they all attacked me and called me a rude slut and annoying ***** and I got horrible anxiety and I started shaking and crying and I threw up. They then kicked me out of the chat and then added in Nolan and attacked him.she blocked me so I can't apologize.but idk if its even worth it. idk what to do
I hate cold sores!!! All of a sudden I am getting them like mad. Is there a doctor/specialist who can help?
have you tried denavir cream as well? If used properly, it will clear them up quickly and I prefer the topical as opposed to systemic treatment... for about 30.00 US you can get enough cream to treat about 3 breakouts... Both of the above answers are correct... you may need to de- stress your life a bit. Also work on prevention. Drink lots of water, use a lipbalm with spf and sunscreen on your face. Chapped lips and long exposure to sunlight without sunscreen is a common trigger. Also,take B complex supplements with emphasis on the B12 and folic acid. If you can find topical Zinc, that is supposed to help. Other words of advice: eat yogurt, I don't know why this works, but it seems to.Take Vit C and Calcium supplements as well. Sometimes having low Calcium levels can trigger them as well. Good luck and I hope this helps. Also, cold sores are caused by a virus, so once you got it, you got it..It is not like a bacterial infection that you can take an antibiotic for and be done with it... the best you can do at this point is pevetative treatment. Another thing that you can do is if you know something stressful is coming up like a wedding or holiday, go ahead and start denavir cream whenever you feel een the tiniest bit of chapping happening, sometimes that helps as well. Good luck!
Why am I so angry all of a sudden?
It seems like being a teenager has totally turned me upside down and inside out. I'm all of a sudden so angry with everyone and I absolutely hate the world. I can't stand my dad, and although my mother acts like a fascist dictator, I prefer her over him. I'm not doing very well in school which really ticks me off and I get very upset with my grades. (I have tried to fix this. It's working... slowly). Everyone is so... annoying, and I often find myself seeking solitude than spending time with family, however my mother nags me when i don't spend time with them and starts punishing me for seeking some peace and quiet. Despite the total lack of privacy that has me screeching at them every waking moment, they never bother to ask how I feel about certain situations and pile on immense amounts of responsibility around the house on top of the responsibility I have with managing my studies. I just feel so angry and upset with everyone for silly, trivial things. Why am I so angry? Can this be a depression? And how in the hell did you survive being a teenager?
Why do I suddenly get angry/irritated/annoyed for no reason?
wow! I was just googling about what was wrong with me and thats y i clicked on your question. i have been having the same problem. ever since i started junior high 4 years ago, my positive attitude on life has begun to fade away. seeing as how im 16 with a weight of 205 lbs., I never really cared about my appearence until people started to treat me differently. like I wasn't even human. I began to become emetionally depressed. I even stooped so low as to start calling myself fat, so i wouldn't feel hurt when others said it. that was 6 months ago. these past couple of days, i've felt like taking my belt and hanging myself. but the three things that kept me going, even in my darkest hours, was this: 1. Things can always be worse. If life's treating you rough, just thing about all the joys in life. What good stuff do YOU have that nobody else does? 2. What would my family do without me? If I'm thinking suicidal thoughts, I just imagine how dramatic it would be for my mom waking up in the morning to find her only son, dead, hanging from the cieling. 3. Life has more to offer. Just think of all the fun and exciting things that the future holds. Seeing awesome movies, growing up, driving, being married! Life is full of adventures, why end it short?
Why does my budgie hate me all of a sudden and not come out of his cage?
You say he & then you say they. If it is they, they may be in breeding season...that will pass in a month or so & he/they will be back to normal. What's changed recently? Often changes in the household routine will upset birds & it may take a while for them to get settled down again. Are you giving it/them less attention than before? Got any new pets? Have you changed anything about your appearance? Almost anything can upset some birds & if you have a pair, if one is upset, they usually get the other one upset too. Just be patient & keep working with it/them. Good luck...
Why do we feel angry when someone wakes us suddenly from sleep?
A2A: Why do we feel angry when someone wakes us suddenly?Actually, you will find that we don’t always feel like that. And certainly not all of us.The reaction to disturbed sleep comes deep from within the person’s psychology. For example, a mother awakened by her baby’s cry does not feel angry. Tired or irritated, maybe, but not angry.But before that, it is much associated to how we are being awakened. Much depends on the vocal patterns of the person waking us up.You know, we can hear from long before we actually wake up enough to process what we are hearing. So much of the voice of disturbing person goes in the brain before we gain sense enough to react. Therefore, in what tone are they calling us to wake up determines what would be the reaction.Suddenly waking up always makes the body to give us a small dose of adrenaline, since from prehistoric time sudden wakeups were genetically associated with sharp claws and long teeth in the dark. Now it is associated mostly with cute mischievous little sisters or annoyed mothers. So that surge of energy has to go somewhere.When someone wakes up by calling your name in urgent, tense tones, that energy will go into preparing your body for an oncoming battle, and you will shoot upright with a startled “What, what, what happened?”But if the same person is using either a bored voice or a commanding voice, that tone will be processed as annoyance, not emergency. So you are more likely to blurt out, “Fuck you.” Or punch the clock. And then roll over and keep snoring.Beyond that, if you’re in a position of power, (or if you think so), then any wakeup calls will be treated with some degree of annoyance, regardless of the vocal pattern.
My boyfriend is so touchy all of a sudden why? Also why was my brother so mad?
This is my friend's account.My boyfriend is being to touchy feely all of a sudden.I hate it.He just can't keep his hands off me. Also I was at his house last night doing homework and studying and he didn't want to study with me he wanted to make out.He came up to me and was like I don't care about chemistry and started kissing my neck and kissing me.I liked it at first but then I was like okay let's get back to studying.Then he grabbed my butt and said don't you want to have fun? I pushed him away and was like seriously I need to pass this test.We kind of got into a fight.I was yelling he was yelling and I cried.As soon as I started crying he hugged me and said he was sorry but I still left My bro said you're home early what's up? I went in my room crying and he followed me and hugged me.I told him and he got so mad.I don't think I've ever seen him that mad.He said no guy will make you cry.I definitely need to talk to this kid.Brother is 21.