Why are so many MGTOW men so 'Angry' at women? (Men Going Their Own Way)?
I understand that Radical Extreme Feminism might have caused many a guy to just 'GIVE UP' trying to find a woman for a partner these days, but what's up with all of this anger and hatred? I mean, If I had a pair of shoes that was painful to wear then I would simply stop trying to wear them, I wouldn't build up an internal hatred towards them, so why do men develop a hatred towards women that they find painful in a similar way?
Why are men attracted to independent women, but they get angry when they learn that independent women do not submit easily?
Submit? Submit to what exactly and in what context are you using the words “independent” and “submit”.I ask because in this day and age men and women have this mass confusion over what we should and shouldn’t “be”. We pride ourselves on having certain personality traits and we try to reinforce those. However sometimes we screw it up.If by independent you mean a woman who knows what she wants then goes and gets it then great.If you mean a woman who knows what she wants but causes arguments for the sake of reinforcing her ideal version of herself then no. That is just being a pain in the behind.Independent is being able to look after yourself but also being able to ask for and accept help when required. You don’t know how to fix a tap? You call in a plumber or ask a friend who can to give you a hand.Guys get angry when you mess the about for the hell of it.Independent women set their goal posts then work towards that. Women faking it keep changing the goal posts around for the hell of it. That annoys the hell out of many men as they have their goals set then they move just because? Because of what and then the woman states its because she is an independent woman? That is not independent behaviour… that is needy for attention behaviour. And its is something I have seen a heck of a lot of women who describe themselves as independent do… It is REALLY common.Having said this. There is another REALLY common thing going on and that is some men just want to assert their dominance and authority by being controlling. They feel that “their woman” is a possession, a thing to do with as they please. This is NOT as masculine thing to do. It needs to be avoided at all costs as it just gets worse.My advise is thus. Find someone you can talk to. Find someone that you do not feel the need to be assertive or independent around. Find someone who doesn’t feel the need to control you. Find someone you can relax and just be yourself with, someone who encourages you and who enhances your life. Find someone you respect. Treat them as a human being and respect them (if they deserve it) back. Keep your dating aspirations fixed and work towards that. Be very clear about what you want from men.You will still have to work your way through a few that do not meet your criteria but you will find one eventually if you stick to your guns.
Why do some men get so angry when a woman stands up for herself? Then they try to belittle her for doing so.
My husband, Richard, recently indicated that I think I’m so tough, but I can’t back it up. So, doesn’t matter if we’re in the kitchen, living room, whatever, lately I’ve taken to splashing him with my ice-cold bottled water, from his baseball cap, down his shoulder and chest, then wait and see if he wants more. We keep our fridge very cold, and he ends up walking outside, kind of gasping, but laughing, while combing his hair. Luckily, it’s eighty degrees out. Last time, I said, ”You’re not lookin’ to get baptized again!” He answered that it was more like the way they hit Linda Blair with the water in the movie.
Why are so many young men frustrated with women?
I am a mature man and I was the same when I was young. But I wasn't frustrated with women at all. I found it extremely frustrating trying to understand what women wanted from a man. One woman would say this and another would want that, and yet, another couldn't make up here mind to become happy. Some women don't want to be happy with a man. They just want to control him or change him into some famous macho movie star. I never pretend to behave like a macho man nor did I ever treat women like dirt. I was a very quiet well spoken young man who didn't play silly games to get my way. Yet, no matter what I had done to get to know someone it never worked out. The more I tried to have a good healthy relationship with a nice women, the more I got resented and berated. That's what made me so frustrated. However, I am a better person for it regardless of whether I had a bad relationship. I now realize that it was the result of lack of social skills, my level of emotional intelligence, and the inability to express myself as a man. Most men are afraid of being intimate with women because of the fear of feeling vulnerable, and not labeled a homosexual, loser, or even a coward. Also, I believe that most young men today don't have good role models anymore. There is no support and guidance in society. There are far too many deadbeats, jerks, and sleezebags who use women as a sex object. Blame all those violent male orientated action movies that depict young men as tough beer drinking louts, who use their fists ( not brains or reason) to fight against authority, or anyone that stands in their way. Some just pick a fight with anyone they perceive to be weak just to prove that they are men. This occurs in most gang related movies.
Why do women always blame men?
Simple, because women are taught by feminists to be independant of, and angry at men. If women were to admit their faults to men, they would become vulnerable, (in their dilusional minds). Feminists teach women to deny the intelligence, and invaluable need of men. Women who admit men can be right and women wrong are promoting the opposite.
Why do men get mad at women after ejaculating?
After sex with women, i have a tendency to get really angry at the woman... sometimes i even kick her out. I'm told that I'm not the only one, most guys also get a bit mad after ejaculation - and it's towards the woman.
Why do husbands get angry when their wives do not give them sex?
I am one of those husbands who have gotten angry when denied sex.And I will share with you why. I will probably get a lot of hate for this but I will state my truth.Too often women use sex as a way to manipulate men and treat them like dogs which is sad. If you are a good boy you get a treat, if you do something your wife doesn’t like, you can forget about it. This is the attitude I dislike.Men are usually taught to hide their emotions since they are young and sex with a loved one is a way to connect with the person we love.When sex is used as a tool to train your man like a dog, it backfires because your man is smarter than a dog and will really figure out that they have a highly conditional, manipulative relationship where love, touch and affection are denied them for reasons that may not entirely be obvious to them.I was not angry because I felt entitled to my first wife’s body. Being entitled means that I think I have a right to do what I want whenever I want. There was always consent and any man knows that they can only control their actions not their partners decisions. In other words it is the woman’s choice, men have zero power here.When I got married for me it was an agreement between us that we would try our best to fulfill each other’s physical and emotional needs. That we would care about each other and do our best to help each other. Yes showing love and affection and having sexual relations are a huge part of this.I felt angry for being denied one of my main outlets for showing love and affection. But most of all I felt lonely and unloved.What still upsets me is the double standard women have for men. If I was a woman who stated that my man had denied me love and sexual relations, there would be many women saying that my man should “man up” go to his doctor to be checked out for medical issues and perhaps psychological issues. Maybe even go get a prescription filled if he needed help.Shouldn’t women be held to the same standard? I certainly believe so.
Why do men and women fight differently?
First off, I do agree with your observation. That said, I believe the female reaction is more "natural" (as a conflict defines the opponent as "the enemy", the status of which has no particular reason to change after the conflict), while the male reaction needs to be explained. Male-to-male conflict is often governed by an unspoken, rule-based concept of fairness that gets ingrained into us pretty early on. The best example of this is the commonly known prohibition against low blows in a physical fight. Or, in the course of a "normal" fistfight, no kicking, biting, hair pulling, scratching, etc. The rationale that underlies these rules is that it is actually pretty easy for one male to grievously harm/maim/kill another in a no-holds-barred conflict. Hence conflict is formalized into a form of game/competition, in which unspoken rules of "fairness" are adhered to in a method of limiting the risk of damage to an acceptable point. Almost as a force-of-habit, this structure extends to non-physical conflicts as well. For example, a guy who just had a bad verbal fight with another guy would not be as inclined as one might think to go and key the other guy's car even if there was a reasonable chance of getting away with it. It's "just not right". Adherence to these unspoken rules is what allows men to respect each other after a conflict. At least on some level, no matter how bad the conflict was, the other guy is honorable as long as he was fair (as defined by adherence to the unspoken rules).
When a man whom you have feelings for is angry at you does it mean that he hates you?
Absolutely not. It means he cares enough to have feelings about you. From a woman's point of view, the most important aspect of a man is that he be absolutely gone on her. Any sensible woman knows that the time will come when she's got the flu, she's pregnant out to HERE, the other kids are leaking at both ends, the house is hip-deep in diapers, and she's too sick to do anything about it at all. If he's really smitten with her, he'll stick around and help her through it instead of running off.That said, every man knows that a woman can give him the joys of heaven right here on earth, but very few realize that she can make him no happier than he makes her.It's so simple to make a man happy that my wife can explain it in under a minute. Note, I didn't say "easy." It's simple to walk from Maine to California - put one foot in front of the other, repeat until you get there - but it's far from easy.There's no simple formula a man can use to keep a woman happy. If, however, he opens his heart to her as sincerely, as deeply, as widely, as patiently, as attentively, as often, and as gladly as he expects her to open herself to him, they will come to belong to each other over time. Once they belong to each other, each of them can give the other a taste of the joys of heaven, right here on earth.If you want to move things along, you could look at what my wife told me before she'd date me and while we were dating. What she said made me want very much to marry her. What My Wife Told Me Before We Were MarriedIt worked - we've been married since 1971.