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Why Do I Have A Fear Of Abandonment Or Is It Just Obsession With The People I Love

What's the difference between love,a crush,and an obsession?

Love is a warm and healthy attachment based on deep affection, kinship, or fondness of that being. A crush is considered to be juvenile and temporary and not becoming true love. An obsession of any sort are usually considered unhealthy. Obsessions are mental, which means they are thought-based, and are typically about something unreasonable. If something occupies the mind consistently and frequently and causes problems with work, social life, or anything else, help should be sought.

What is the difference between love and obsession?

love: u want the best for the person & u just want them to be happy, even if it means ur not part of their life (ie. u'll let him/her go if he/she doesnt wanna be wth u) or even if it means u have to make compromises (eg. moving to a new country)

obsession: u want the person to be urs & urs only. u want him/her by ur side 24/7. u dont like that they have other people in their lives even if that makes them happy. u hope to cut them off from other people. u want them to be solely dependent on u.

essentially, the difference is that in the former u put his/her needs before urs, in the latter u put ur needs before his/her's

What is the difference between love and obsession?

There's a huge difference between the two. Love is concerned with another not yourself and so your wrapped up in what you can do for that other person. And obsession is when you are wrapped up in something because of what it does for you.

Is there a name for fear of people leaving me?

i've always been afraid of losing people i really care about not as in die but as in they leave me. i'm like this with everybody like when i meet people i think "i wonder how long it will be until we aren't friends anymore" this scares me all the time. it doesn't consume my life and it isn't all i think about but it's definitely there. i've always had trouble keeping friends. people say i'm very funny and attractive but people never seem to stay they meet me stay for a while and move on. like sometimes i miss being completely alone and not having anyone else and noone could ever leave me because i'd have noone to miss. blaaa i hate this feeling and i'm a very happy guy it's just this one thing. well anyways all i need is a name for it. even just a wikipedia page anything that'll help cuz i hate this feeling :P

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