Why do i feel so empty and worthless?
Positive thinking is so important in life. Have hope and pray about your life. Know that God can help you live a better life if you want Him to help you. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: "Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen." I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group as a good way to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
I feel worthless?
You don't need to be interesting, or have talent to be a good person, and help others. Mother Teresa was greatly revered, but not at all intelligent. See self esteem, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on page 38. Consider volunteering, even from home, at first, to provide a solid basis in reality for the daily affirmations: "I am a good person, who is valued by my community, because I (insert activity here)". Pages 47, and 2 also refer. If outside the home, you will meet good, positive people. See memory improvement, on page 41: use the supplements, and eat healthily, in accordance with your "nutritional type", at http://www.mercola.com TASKBAR Do these things, and you will improve, markedly, and soon! See shyness, in section 9. You don't have to say anything to a guy you like, just look directly at him from fairly close up, smile, and wink. HE WILL GET THE MESSAGE!!! (It's possible he may already be in a relationship, or gay, or celibate, or depressed, etc., but you will increase your chances exponentially: Practice in the mirror: read Your Yahoo: Reuters, Oddly Enough, and choose several topics: "Did you hear about the cat that get's on a bus, and gets off, at the next stop?" Memorise a few; write others down, and jog you memory, in a toilet break. Ask him what he's doing on the weekend. If he says "nothing much", ask him if he'd like to see a movie with you. If he's busy: what about next weekend? If he asks: "What would you like to do?" reply "You"). Conversation often dies down, in a relationship, after a while, anyway. Work on those social skills; theyr'e like muscles: use them, or lose them!
Why do I feel so worthless and sad?
Why do I feel so worthless and sad?You feel like that because your gap between your reality and your expectations is too wide.In addition to that you managed to devoid that gap of all who you are besides being a learner.Take a good, thorough look at yourself, learning excluded, and figure out who you really are, and those feelings of worthlessness and sadness will vanish.I see that in your details you exaggerated a little (“I take a Millenium just to figure it out”) on the negative side of things.While you’re taking a look at the whole you, try to avoid that negativity bias, or you’ll end up deeper in the hole than you are right now.Just go with a good, honest look at yourself, write things down, good and bad things.Yes, there will be some bad things, because nothing in life is unicorns and rainbows, but the good stuff can outweigh the bad.
Why am I so worthless?
Why..? I've been having depression for 8 months now, don't tell me to see a doctor or a therapist. I don't want my parents to know. Whenever I talk to my parents, they always yell at me. I always think to myself, "Why am I such a failure as a daughter?" Do I really cause that much trouble for my parents? Maybe if I died then they would have less problems. I've thought about suicide for a couple of months now, I've always felt like overdosing on some of my dads pills. But whenever I hold the bottle, I feel afraid. There's so much I want to do in life, but at the same time I feel like dying. Why? Because I don't want to live life with such heavy problems. My family hates me and blames everything on me. My friends ignore me now. I lost the most important people in my life. My friends Vivian and Vincent. They are the best. But I lost them, because of my stupidity. I blame everything on myself. I'm worthless and stupid. I just found out I have a eating disorder too. I can't sleep at night, I toss and turn. I can't even get my sleeping schedule back for school. My insecurities ruined half of my life. Many of my friends ask me why I have such a perfect life. Perfect life? Do you see what Im in right now? I have SO many problems you can't even imagine. When I try and turn to a friend, its either they don't care, they laugh or they ignore me. That's why I can't trust ANYBODY anymore. Not even my parents or close friends. I pushed my friends away. My parents misunderstand me. They always ask me why i'm always on the computer, and they told me that its not gonna be their fault if I die by using the computer too much. It doesn't make sense, I know. But they don't understand. I'm on the computer because I want to escape my problems. I watch Anime to relax my mind. I don't even talk that much in real life anymore. If I do, I would be boring af. I'm slowly changing into another person. I listen to depressing songs now. I can't concentrate anymore. I'm scared about what will happen to my grades this upcoming year. I want to call a depression hotline but I'm too scared. I can't enjoy everything I used to love doing like Singing, drawing and hanging out with friends. When i'm free on the weekends, instead of going out to hang, I would just sleep the whole day. Whats wrong with me? Why am I worthless? Why can't people understand how I feel? I want to die, everyone's life would be so much easier without me. No one loves me. I'd be better off dead.
Why do i feel so pathetic and worthless?
Learn to recognize when you feel sorry for yourself. Realize that feeling pathetic and worthless is huge waste of energy and time on you and on others. Do something for or help someone less fortunate than yourself. [It could be as simple as texting to donate to Haiti relief, or helping a friend through her problem] This will not only make you more aware of your self worth, but you will feel proud and accomplished. You can't feel self worth and self pity at the same time, right? List things in your head that you feel grateful for, and keep those thoughts close by. Don't forget about those things when you are feeling bad. Identify someone in your life who has stayed by you on your best day and worst day. Find a way to thank them or show them you appreciated that. If your problem is something you know a lot of other people have, look for a support group whether it is one person, or an after school discussion group. These people will not only share their pain, but they'll probably be discussing hopes and dreams for the future. If you can feel more comfortable in this type of group, you'll have the courage to speak up, and you'll attract someone who shares the same wish- to get beyond this problem. Make an effort to find someone who can help you, or maybe you can help them. Be a friend.
Why am I so worthless and useless?
Uh whats your body size. Ok, if I saw you an your a cool person to talk to I wouldn't mind hanging out with you or getting to know you, thats if you have a alright looking face an an alright looking body and a reallying good personality then I would take my time to get to know you. Thats the truths . If you talk about ur issued thats a big turn off an annoying. If your stock up an being kind rude an you know your not cute , then yeah, its that. If your cute you should date the low rate type a you normal would date. You'll find someone would treat you right for sure. Dont be scared on giving it a try.
Why am I so worthless and useless?
Um I dont know how old you are but maybe you put off a vibe like your easy or something you know, ( just from how you describe it) honestly if a guy wants to have sex and you dont do it and he leaves you should feel good about your self that you werent like these other girls and give in at the drop of a hat. Dont feel bad for NOT having sex lol really just focus on you and let that special guy your looking for come to you. I doubt your useless and if your in your teens all a guy wants to do in their teens is have sex so even if u did have sex he'd just leave you alone after awhile... dont feel bad its good your not easy
Why do I feel down randomly?
You lack the necessary motivation every human needs to be constantly active. that’s why the topic of motivation is a very vital one.I tell you, no pills or magic can do the work for.You just have to start the Auto-Motivation exercise, which I’m about to start stressing a lot on my site. I got the idea of this Auto-Motivation because me too sometimes i feel exactly like you do.Some days mine is even worst!I’m okay, well fed, have enough money, friends and pretty chics and so forth but i will still feel down.Luckily enough for me i started to gather some particles of Auto-Motivation. of course one of the particles that i got on my way to Auto-Motivation is the famous man in failure know as “James Altucher”I read his rant about failure and laugh a lot at his unearthly jokes after that i got a playlist of motivating songs. and sometimes i go for comedy. Thank God now a days Nigeria is getting filled with brilliant stand-Up comedians that will surely make you laugh,I had other things that got my mood back to normal apart from the ones i mentioned above.but at least together they are going to make up my Auto-Motivation exercise that’s going to effectively uplifts the spirit of some of us that constantly lack motivation to do the most important things in our lives.
Why I am so useless and worthless?
Listen to yourself man. You're not even talking. The people who have been hurtful to you such as old friends, your mom, and whoever else, is talking for you. Think about it. Would you just randomly think up suicide and everything negative about yourself? of course not. What they've said has hit a spot in your mind that has made you firmly believe these things, so you are simply repeating everything they have said about you. You, the true you, does not want to die. You want to live, you want to succeed, you want to have friends and have a good normal life, nice car house and job, and everything else everyone wants. You have to realize this. You have to realize you are not talking and that it is those who have harmed you that are talking. You don't deserve to feel that way, no one does. Again though you must believe that this is not you because it is not! For the longest time i have been telling myself all the same things and have been so close to suicide. I've attempted suicide 3 times, been put in a psychiatric hospital 3 times, on so many meds i can't even count, and just ruined myself because of it. I finally realized though this is not me. I am this way because i was holding onto things of the past such as abuse from the people around me and things i haev done that cannot change. It was not me though. I was simply believing those that were talking for me. It is time for you to get everything out once and for all. Vent all your frustrations and "f*ck yous" out once and for all. Start over. Pretend you have not met anyone and were just put on this earth. Start over fresh. Go and apply for jobs or just go down to the football field of your school and pick up a game with some people. Go run the track, play games, draw, or anything. Write a book. Start your life again. This is YOUR life not theirs, you need to listen to your voice and not theirs. Good luck and im here if you need me.
Why do I always feel worthless and useless? What can I do?
This guy in the picture looks awesome, doesn’t he ? You know why ? Because he’s confident.Here’s your problem : you have low self-esteem. It means that you don’t value yourself enough. That’s why you feel worthless. You don’t realize how valuable you are so you underestimate yourself often.Here’s how you can build your self-estem :_Don’t be a people pleaserIn short, stop trying to please everyone. You are a human being with emotions and needs. Learn to put yourself first. You also deserve to be loved, apreciated, and treated with respect. So stop trying to please everyone. Do what you want even if it’s hard at first.To do : Put yourself first_Say NoLearn to say no. If you don’t want to do something then don’t. Your opinion matters as much as others’. (this is similar to the first point)To do : Never force yourself to do something to please others_Learn a useful skillIt could be programming, a new language, history, litterature, sports, business, anything. Commit to master something new. This will make the feeling of worthlessness disapear since you’re doing something useful, meaningful and productive.Wear clothes that fit you wellWell fitting clothes make you feel more confident.Correct your flaws, don’t dwell on themIf you tend to beat yourself up because you di this or that, stop it. You’re destroying your self-esteem. Look at it in a more productive manner. Look at your flaws and ask yourself ‘How can I improve ?” Always seek immprovement and don’t be a victim.To do : Find your flaws and correct themI think it will also be useful to learn how to build confidence. You should have a combinaision of high confidence AND self-esteem.