Why do guys tend to hide their emotions?
Some men don't want to appear weak, maybe in front of their partner or friends. That's true of women I know as well.On the whole men don't hide their emotions they just don't display them, there is good reason for this. It solves nothing, displays of emotion do nothing but confuse the situation and make things worse. Just like most men don't want to go to therapy as it solves nothing. For example, when I was serving in Iraq during the time saddam was captured, we got incoming every day for weeks and a lot of us got hurt badly, more of them got hurt worse though.Now I want you to tell me, if I went to therapy and expressed myself and cried over it, what would that solve other than to drag up things I don't want to think about or talk about, what would it change. Would it change friends getting hurt or me doing my job. No so why waste time going over things that can't be changedNow you might say that it would help me to get perspective on what happened, well I have plenty of perspective I was there I lived through it.You can say it might help me to deal with current issues in my life, I doubt it I'm not in the army anymore and nobody is trying to kill me.On another note, men don't have the hormones running through our bodies that women do, well not in the same quantites anyway, we have the greater amount of testosterone which is a mood stabiliser when it's in its natural form, for men anyway. This happens during puberty we start to get massive amounts of this hormone flood our bodies this leads to mood swings and often fighting because of its very nature, but as we mature it stabilises and we learn to cope with it so we often go from placid and calm to very angry and violent and back again if we have to. On the whole though this does lead men to a place where we learn that emotions running unchecked are dangerous for us and other people so we learn to check them.It's really that simple, has more to do with growing up and less to do with other men thinking your weak for crying. Although there was a time when that was the case it isn't so much now.It's often something I hear more from feminists as though that's why men need feminism but it actually isn't when the truth is that men going over old wounds that change or solve nothing practical makes men feel worse not better, unchecked emotions are dangerous for the man and other people so we check them. It's really that simple. When other people tell you otherwise you really shouldn't believe them.
Cried In front of my ex. What do I do?
Ok, so Im 20 and my ex girlfriend 18, have been broken up for about one and a half years. We only went out for 3 months and i fell in love with her (i know that'ss not ****). but ever since we started talking again it has been awesomem. We've been talkin, hangin out, foolin around for about 4 months every week or two, I always **** **** up and of course once again i did, We were all **** faced at a party and im tjealousous type (every girl I have ever liked since I lost my virginity has ****** one of my friends) and shes the real flirty type...long story short I ended up pulling her aside and throughout a long conversation, apparentlytly i cried. Now i was completely blacked out and it sucks bad because I feel like a huge pussy and I know its bad to cry in front of women. Now im hella imbarresed because I haven't beed dating her for over a here and we arnt together now either. Now the next day we wake up and she has sex with me for the first time since we were together!Shes crazy (literally has bipolar) next two days every thing was fine, we texted a couple times and it was all cool, Then I guess i texted her like 3 times and she said i was annoying. So I told her not to flatter herself, I was blacked out that night (because i assumed she was partly refering to that night) and she was annoying and i will quit annoying her. She said get a difference excuse. and that was a week and a half ago. Last time I told her I didnt wanna see her ever again, she called me after 2 weeks begging to hang out. But in that situation I wasnt week and didnt cry in front of her. Its been over a week now and still nothing, Any Ideas? and dont say quit being a pussy. thats ny plan. but Am i screwed for cryin?
Why does a girl tend to pull her pants up in front of you?
Men have a lewd eye when they are staring a full-clothes woman, they can imagined girl somehow nakedThat’s why a woman felt so insecure when walking behind of men and pull up her pants so the curve of hip doesn't show much when do that
Why do korean put their hand in front their mouth everytime they laugh?
Korean etiquette is influenced by Confucianism, which teaches that public displays of emotion should be repressed. It's obviously been watered down a lot over the years, but you can see many women still adhering to this instinct. In addition, there are also women who would cover their mouth as they are self-conscious of their teeth.
Why do some cats cross their front paws when they're resting and others don't?
haha my little man does that, I think its precious. And I agree, it certainly must be a royalty complex :)
I cried in front of my girlfriend. Is it okay?
If it’s not okay for you to cry in front of your girlfriend, I would highly recommend finding a new girlfriend.Now, I know just from personal experience that I am somewhat more open with my emotions, and that I certainly do not classify as “typical” for men.But I find myself with tears in my eyes on a regular basis.The other night, my wife and I had “Grey’s Anatomy” on Netflix, and there was an absolutely beautiful rendition of “Total Eclipse Of The Heart” on in the background of Kepner’s wedding. Just the beauty of the song was enough to find two tears tracking down my cheek.Music has always had a special place in my heart, and I’ve found myself with tears in my eyes while listening to hip-hop (Eminem’s “25 to Life”), metalcore (August Burns Red’s “Eleventh Hour”), and many other different kinds of music. Music has always been able to touch my heart in a way that very few other things have been able to do.But let’s say you’re a more typical male, and you almost never cry, at least not where anyone can see you.If that’s the case, and you did end up crying in front of your girlfriend, something quite serious must have been going on for you to find yourself in that situation.She should be understanding of that, and not judge you or hold your free show of emotion against you. Really, she should be proud of you for being able to show your emotions honestly in front of her, but that might be asking too much of some women.I’m lucky enough to have a wife who understands that I’m a big bag of emotions, and she’s always been understanding and respectful of the fact that I’m a bit more sensitive to certain things than other men might be, while at the same time, more able to handle other situations amicably because of that fact.Don’t be embarrassed. Don’t be ashamed. You cried, which is something that is healthy and even necessary at times. If your girlfriend has anything negative to say about it, I would seriously consider finding a new girlfriend.
Is asking a girl out in front of her friends wise?
Theres this girl at school, who I don't know well, but I do know that she likes me and knows I like her. My friend told her. Anyway, wherever I see her, which is only in lunch and in a music club, she is surrounded by friends. If I were to go up to her, and say hi, and formally introduce myself with her friends arround, would that be bad. If it is, how should I get her to talk privately. Its kind of wierd if you think about it, when someone tells someone they don't know well, they'd like to talk to them in private. Thanks in advance.
Do Scorpio girls shy and smile secretly when they are in front of their crush?
Do Scorpio girls shy and smile secretly when they are in front of their crush and if suddenly their crush says something intimate about her like "You take too much time while showering" etc. Earlier this girl was very direct and used to talk in a friendly way but now she sometimes feels like shy and talk less and pretends to be delicate in front of me.Does she likes me?
How do you act when your crush is around you?
When your crush is around you:1. You become a total crazy mad weirdo. Your mind stops producing any useful thoughts. All day long you may be speaking like hell that even your vocal chords request you to zip up your tounge but when he is around, you simply dwell into energy saving mode. You don't know what to do, what to say, it is just insane how weird things get.2. Staring at him becomes your favorite pastime. Actually you love doing it. Often you catch yourself staring at him and when he looks back, you become ultra conscious, you go like, Oh shit..oh shit..I got caught..!!!3. If he notices you, compliments you, then you feel like as if you have attained the highest peak of happiness. You tend to do a mini dance in your head, and a bumping dance inside your house on the beat of, Oh yes..Oh yes..he noticed me, I look pretty..I look pretty..hey baby I like that..!!!!4. You will be eager to talk to him.You want to know every damn thing about him. From his tooth brush to his favorite movie, every freaking thing of his excites you. You want to know,whether he likes you, whether he finds you interesting,whether he is seeing someone else, what is his type and the list never ends. So, basically you wish to know everything and anything about him.5. The question,"Are you single?"freaks the hell out of you. You are like,"Dude, from my mind,heart, eyes, nose, ears, liver, pancreas small intestine..I am totally commited to him, but in reality, it is complicated..I don't know what to do". You somehow want to be available for him but unavailable for others..!!!