Guys! Why do married men flirt with single women?
Why is it that married men find it necessary to hit on me all the time? I am friendly and polite, but somehow it gets interpreted the wrong way all the time. Like I have a regular customer (i am in retail sales) and that is obviously married (has a ring) was somewhat flirty before, but today he came in and was exceptionally friendly and was not wearing the ring. This is not the first married guy that has ever done this either, this happens all the time. I am not flirty back and have no intentions of dating married people, so what's up with this?!?!
Why are single men hitting on married women?
Why are single menhitting on married women?? what are reasons? come on people tell me the truth about all of this.. why.. do other men take other men's wifes..?????
Why do guys like to hit on married women?
Ok so my spouse is very independent, and often we end up going out without each other like 60% of the time. Before anyone judges me, realise that just because you and everyone you know are accustomed to going out with their signficnant other the majority of the time, doesn't mean that people who do not are wrong. Ok. So we go out without each other, I would say, around 60% of the time. most of the time, I tell him when I'm going out, and I invite him. He thinks it weird I do this, and thinks I should go out with whomeever I want, whenever I want because we just don't cheat on eahc other. Well, I'm a little less independent than him, and I LOVE him to go out with me. I would say, I'd like him to go out with me more like 70% of the time. Right now it's around 30-40% as I previously stated. Part of the reason is because whenever I go out without him, like with coworkers or with girlfriends, men try to pick me up. I have a lot of more casual male friends who've never met him (because he doesn't go out with me a lot) who try to flirt with me and pick me up. They think it's fun to be "the guy on the side." I don't really understand why this is a motivation for guys. And it's making me feel pissed that my man is not there to protect me against these creeps. The guys who don't know me are the most forward, and I say I am married, and some are still persistant because they see me out without him. My male friends are a little more subtle... they subtly flirt. I mean, some of these guys are married themselves! But still, I dont trust them because one of these days what if they take advantage of me when I'm drunk. I don't know why guys like to hit on girls who are taken. Also, I'm kind of pissed off that they do because I just want to go out and not be bothered... I wish my man would go with me more, but I can't change that because he's way too independent. He doesn't cheat on me, or go to strip clubs or anything, he just goes out with his guy friends and talks about business to all hours of the night. I find business talk boring more than after the first 30 minutes or so. Any ideas, thoughts or suggestions?
Why do married men hit on single women??
I dated this guy back in college. We started talking as friends recently, and I found out he is married. I told him I was really happy for him. A few days went by, and he asked to meet me for coffee. The conversation started to escalate, so I just stopped talking with him. I thought we could've been friends like we used to be, but I don't think he is willing to be just friends. Why do some married men think that single women are so desperate we'd take any guy?? married or not??
Why do married women fall in love with single men?
Married women fall in love with single men for the following reasons. 1. The single men are much-more-handsome than their husbands who look like bullfrogs. A woman’s spouse may look like a mouse, and her single amorist may look like a superb peacock. 2. The single guys are rich, or richer than their women’s husbands. 3. Even if a single guy is not-so-rich, he can talk very-well to women. 4. The single men are younger (and more-virile) than the old frogs. 5. The single guys understand the women much-better. They treat such women excellently. 6. They don’t hit the women. Many married women are beaten up by their husbands. The single men soothe the women; they help the women’s minds and souls to recover from the mental and physical abuses. 7. Some women just want varieties. A married woman may get bored of her spouse, even if he is a good man. 8. Some husbands are impotent. Even Viagra, or a trip to the Niagara-Falls, will not yield fertile results.
Married Men hitting on Married Women?
It used to be a bad thing if a married man hit on a married lady. Now it seems that ladies are flattered and think its cute - and talk about it like - he is such a flirt (in a fun, positive tone). No longer is the man looked at as bad. To be fair, some men even look at a flirty men as heroes. My wife has been hit on several times by people close to home. She doesn't seem to mind. I've evolved to expect that behavior and tolerate it (I have no choice), though I dont like it. What really bothers me is the way my wife (and other women?) get over it. She acts as though there was nothing wrong with it - and continues the same friendship. This keeps a guy going - either to hit on her again or someone else. There seems to be no shame. I know I'm too sensitive - but does this bother anyone else?
Why are married women hitting on me?
it seems as though people are under the impression I'm attractive. Let me clarify another point. I'm not physically attractive! I'm fat (232 now, I was close to 240 at the time) and not very physically attractive (admittedly not unlike most men, but still). There is no reason I can think of for my appearance to have anything to do with the situation.
Why do these married men keep hitting on me????
In the past year 3 married men have seriously hit on me to the point I have to tell them to knock it off. However in this same time ZERO single men have been this bold with me. What the heck is up with this? First married man...alright I flirted with him so I could see why it happened but we didn't do anything and I finally told him to stop. Second married man.. I don't even really like this guy. He is a dork that just keeps hanging around my friend and I at work. I'm not rude to him but I don't think I flirt with him either. I had to tell him to stop too. Third married man... an old friend that out of the blue has decided to say things to me he never has in all the years of our friendship (even though years ago we used to flirt we haven't in a long time). Where are the single guys and why can't one of them pay me this much attention? What am I doing that keeps attracting married guys instead of single ones? Please help me out here-I want my own man- not someone else's!