Why Do Certain Women Hate "Masculine Men"?
It just seems weird to meet to hate a man just because he is masculine. I've talked to my friends about this and almost all of them have some sort of seething hatred towards jock type guys who are tall, muscular, and into sports and things. How can women make such a sweeping generalization about guys just because they are genetically blessed in being tall and having broad shoulders and like a certain thing like sports or "manly" activities like hunting or fishing, etc. You never even talked to these guys, why do you have such hatred towards them, they could be the nicest guys ever. Yet these women insist that all masculine guys are evil.
How come some black women hate to see black men with a white woman...?
its jealousy, and low self confidence. if your happy with your self, then you should not be worried about any other person relationship. i notice this too, as a matter of fact i asked this question, but the other way around, because i thought it was most common with black men going after white women. to get to the point, the only type of woman who has a problem with black men and white women are the ones that not happy with them self, don't have a man, or is unhappy in their current relationship, because they think that for some odd reason if that white woman is that with that brother, then that brother would be with them, which i find funny cause they probably give that brother no play, or never even thought bout him, until he got him a white girlfriend..one word...jealousy
I'm a female, but I hate women?
I could make a list of generalizations about each gender, but the main thing for myself is, when at work, men will typically leave you alone. In life, if you are not interested in a man, they move on with their life. However, with women (especially being a female myself), they will pretend to be your friend and literally stalk you with gossip in a workplace environment. If I don't trust a girl or think she is jealous of me, you can't escape them when you want to be the bigger person and keep a distance. If you start to hear them sh*t talking and confront them, they will just play the victim, because they have no idea how to deal with confrontation. So basically, women are manipulative and are stalkers when they are jealous. They resort to behavior like pretending they are concerned, when they are throwing you under the bus to look better, and it is creepy and violating when you would like to be left alone. I find men more trustworthy because they do not compete with me, and they always respect my boundaries. Women can be snakes and find a way to get into your business. Am I wrong?
Why is it acceptable for some feminists to make generalisations about men but it's not acceptable for men to do the same about women?
Because historical generalizations made about women (i.e. they are weak, irrational, child-like, etc.) by male theologians, politicians, physicians, scientists, and philosophers were all used as justifications for denying women access to vote, pursue education, publish, work outside of the home (for white women), and most tragically, as reasons to commit acts of violence against them.Feminists who make generalizations about men are talking about patterns of behavior displayed by men and these are not used to deny them anything — unless you consider the denial of access to women’s bodies as offensive. Feminist generalizations about men are most often about the well-documented and historical exercise of power by men over women.In addition, it’s not that the problem is generalizing. Christians make generalizations about men and women all the time (men want to be respected; women want to be loved). We have to be able to generalize in order to understand, but when those generalizations are used to deny access to basic rights or advocate abuse, that’s when they become a problem.
Why do most men apparently hate women so much?
I think the historical exclusion of women in arts, education,etc gave way to a culture driven by male/masculine ideals. Many men hate women or merely tolerate them because the culture dictates that women can only acceptably exist in VERY limited roles and positions. Men are constanly policing women not just because they feel some level of dominance over all women but because in their eyes we're constly screwing up by not staying in the lines. We're not trying hard enough to look good because thats what women do. We're not trying to be soft or nurturing enough because thats how women are. You're not trying hard enough to be chaste and virtuous because thats what women are. Dont get me wrong, men do have some harmful ideals they try to live up to and fail but its mostly to do with self expression rather than restrictive autonomy. They're just permitted to move more freely as humans.
Do women hate men who have emotion needs?
Not to generalize, but if women hate anything it’s men who are unaware of and lie about their emotional needs. Everybody has emotional needs. That’s the most human of human things we human. We all want to be cared for and supported by people we can trust. Those of us that can be honest about that fact and what those things are are able to garner a great deal of love, respect, and admiration.
Why are some Asian American women racist toward Asian men?
Why are some Asian American Women racist toward(s) Asian men (and prefer men of other races)? Originally tagged by the asker as a “Dating and Relationships” topic.Romantic preference can sometimes be correlated with bigotry but every person has their own reasons and biases regarding who they involve themselves with sexually. Dating history alone cannot stand as evidence towards racism. Conversely, you cannot accuse a person of being a supremacist for only dating within their own ethnicity. In 2015 a popular article circulated that stated single Manhattan women were single because of uppity bias against dating men without college educations. It’s a sensational tagline against classist values, however it’s over simplified sludge. Why is the onus put on the woman? Relationships are not one sided, if an educated woman with a steady paycheck is intimidating to a person, there are problems on both ends. If you want someone to give you a chance, ask for it - nicely.It IS racist to dismiss an entire race because you believe the entire peoples embody traits that you find distasteful in a partner. There is no rational reason to exclude an entire race of people from the dating pool - you’d have to ask the individual women (in this instance) themselves. Generalizing racists and their reasons is akin to generalizing all Asian men, you can guess at what someone is like, but you don’t really know them until you take the time to get to know them. If you are an Asian man who has experienced racism, comfort yourself in knowing that you dodged a bullet (phew!).Lastly, I’d like to add, I’ve heard this sentiment “racist b****” muttered under the breath and spoken aloud by rebuffed men. It is sometimes followed by, “I bet she’s a lesbian…” To that I say, “Maybe she’s open to *Insert ethnicity* men, she’s just not that into YOU.”
Why do some people say "all men are trash" when they clearly aren't referring to all men?
There’s been WORLDWIDE movement and phenomenon of the often used Twitter hashtag #MenAreTrash. But are Men really trash??? There's definitely backing and prominent proof that shows the trashiness of men, but to continue to use a hashtag that essentially bashes men doesn't set one up to be open to attract the good men in their life that women interact with. Constantly saying this term attracts more trash into your life because it essentially becomes a negative affirmation to yourself. Constantly using the terms is similar to saying “I’m broke” or “I have no money”. If you use these terms to describe your situation and is part of your self talk how can you expect your mindset to be open toward becoming financially wealthy and independentUnderstand that the hashtag is meant to bring attention to the injustices that women face and suffer at the hands of men, but here's definitely a better way to say the term that address and brings light to the issue without bashing menFor instance “He bought dinner, and now he thinks he’s entitled to fuck me. Men are trash.”I think most people would agree that it’s awful to assume that buying dinner for someone means you have purchased their body for the night and they’re now obliged to have sex with you. But this is an incredibly common attitude that needs to be identified and changed.The phrase “men are trash” is not politically correct and is not intended to be. It’s intended to challenge the long-held assumption that men are the default setting, and to draw attention to some of the ways in which certain aspects of common social behavior in men is problematic. HOWEVER, in a similar fashion the term BLACK LIVES MATTER brings attention to the injustice killings of unarmed black men without bashing police officers. I’m sure there’s a better term to address and bring light to the issueVideo goes into more detail