Why do women expect men or their boyfriend to just know what's wrong?
DO NOT say "what have I done wrong" because that will almost always be followed by "You should know what you've done wrong" and then the argument will seem to never cease to end! My advice is to apologize sincerely and profusely, even if you have done nothing wrong. We women always want the guy to apologize first and why, I still do not know. I also think that if it is a big argument and she is seriously mad at you, some presents will help. Flowers, jewellery. If she's not angry at you and she's just feeling down, give her lots of cuddles and little kisses. Ask her, "What's wrong?" and say, "You can talk to me". Don't say "It's going to be okay" unless it feels appropriate because she might respond with "No it's not going to be okay!" We girls just want attention, to be honest and if we don't feel like we're the ones in the center, we'll freak. Though, ahem, don't ever say this to a girl's face because we will deny it :P
Ladies: Why can't women ACCEPT men for who they are?
It seems to me that you are trying to justify the fact that YOU are the one having a difficult time dating women. Or maybe you’re seeking help… As a woman, I wish I could find a man with “looks, personality, humor, good attitude/behavior, financial status, emotional stability, etc” as you put it. Still, I would not care about a man having looks but no personality or sense of humour. I’d rather date a hunchback who makes me laugh. In fact, I think looks is way down the ladder, as men are concerned, as long as they’re not fat and neglecting themselves. A woman just needs a man who will be a nice guy who’s into her. He will be there for her and protect her. If he’s not farting all the time, that’ll be even better. I don’t agree with you that all a woman has to do is being beautiful (my goodness, that is kinda of mean for all the other ones not meeting your criteria). A woman still has to be nice and it really helps if she knows how to cook and clean. Really, be honest, have you ever tried to hold on to a b*tchy, stuck up woman? Just keep it simple. I don’t know what you look like, but your question tells me a little about your personality, your sense of humour and your emotional state, so I’m hoping for you that you’re filthy rich.
Why can't feminists accept that fact that women aren't as physically strong as men are?
Face it: there are some jobs that men can do better than women. These would be: lifting heavy objects fighting jobs that require enormous physical strength and endurance. Now, I'm not saying that women CAN'T do any of these, but I am saying that men, in general, are stronger and more suitable for these types of jobs. So, why should an employer hire a woman to be a cement mixer over a man? wouldn't any sane person hire the man? Don't give me any junk about how women have been "socially programmed" Just answer the question and explain to me, using scientific fact, how women are physically more capable than men and then tell me why someone can't hire a person who he thinks is most suitable for the job.
Why don't women fall in love with guys who really care for them?
Read this carefully. It might answer your question.A guy I knew from high school happened to be a “nice guy”. I never was interested in him but did believe he would land a girl just as sweet as him someday. He was so sweet. He and I would talk occasionally. He seemed like an approachable guy who wouldn’t behave like a butt hole like some others I knew. He would help out people a lot and was kind. Sometimes I would think how someone like him could be single. He wasn’t a go-getter type when it comes to girls.This guy never showed any interest in me and went on to date some girls in college. We did not get to meet face-to-face after high school. I once noticed him grinning when a bunch of his friends they made misogynistic jokes on my girl friends. Soon after college, he texted me once and showed interest in me. I was shocked. I never really saw him as anything more than a nice friend. That was all. But alas!I had to respond whether I accepted his advances or not. I rejected him. I was asked for a reason. I told him that I only saw him as a nice friend. He was heart-broken (I believe). He asked me again and again. I denied him each time. Then he asked me the reason as well. I told him with full honesty that I did not like him that way. He once texted me. “The girls; they all tell me that I am a very nice guy.” I was like, “Me too. But that doesn't make me attracted to you romantically.” He is still waiting for me to say yes, even after I specifically told him that I wasn’t interested in him.Did you guys notice it? Did you notice why I outright denied this nice guy?There was the misogynistic take. Any guy, not matter how sweet, if he is misogynistic on the inside, there’s no point.He kept using his sweetness to get me. I don’t like guys just because they are sweet. I have certain criteria which guys need to fit if they want me to perceive them as attractive guys. Some of which include a passion to travel, not being a chauvinist and admit mistakes when he’s wrong, not blindly following someone when he knows they are wrong, chivalry and similar interests as me. He didn’t fit all the categories.Just because you’re a nice guy, doesn’t mean that girls should feel lucky if you like them. Being sweet is a good thing. But if that’s all you’ve got, then your pool of selection will be limited. There is more to life than just sweetness.
Emotionless men?? Is it something we need to accept?
Yep, men are different to women. When men worry, their coping strategy is to go into their "cave" You konw, when they go quiet and don't want to talk about what's bothering them? That's when they're sorting stuff out in their heads. The problem is, women cope in an entirely different way. In order for women to feel better, we need to talk. We don't want solutions to the problems we have (most of the time there aren't any solutions, we just feel down) We just need to go on and on about it until we're so fed up of talking about it, its no longer worth worrying about. You shouldn't have to accept this though. Women often accomodate men by leaving them alone when they have a problem. We understand they need to be left alone. Men can't seem to do this for us though. They think how they worry is how everyone worries and they don't understand why us women need to natter so much. A simple solution would be to say to him "I know you don't like my moods, but when I'm moody, its cos I want to talk about it. You don't have to offer me solutions to my problems, I'm not wanting you to fix anything, I just need to blabber on to you and for you to say uh huh and oh, that's awful now and then. I will get out of my mood quicker that way" You need to stress that you don't want him to offer solutions. That's what makes men mad. They think because you're upset, its their fault and you want them to fix it. Silly men :-D
Pantyhose are women going to accept it?
Women how many of you would be ok with having your man wearing pantyhose . under jeans to bed etc etc. So many men already do this. How would you feel if leggs decided to mark them as Pantyhose for him and her ? They Already make the sizes why to you think the size range goes so big and tall? I admit my husband is wearing them ( in private ) and it is great fun and very sensual ! How do you feel??
Why does it seem like women don't like a good man?
I am a woman. This is my idea of a good man: someone who’s respectful to me, honest and trustworthy, who’s mostly nice and kind with those around him, for no other reason that he thinks that’s a good thing to be and it comes natural to him.Why the hell would I not like someone like that? Why the hell would anyone not like someone like that?If I’d have to have a relationship with a man, for sure I want it to be with a GOOD man. At least my definition of a good man.There are men who think they are good men and are shocked when women reject them. They end up thinking that it is because they were being “too good” and women want bad guys. Pretty often these self proclaimed “good guys” are manipulative, hypocritical, think women should repay favours with sex, and have generally a poor understanding of relationships. An abusive ex of mine once told me -since I had decided to leave him- that obviously what I wanted was a fuckboy, someone who just wanted to fuck me, not someone who really cared about me and loved me -like him.You think women don’t like good men? I can’t speak for all women in the world, but still…think again.
Why do men not open up?
When guys interract with each other, there is almost never any discussion about feelings. Men generally are not worried about how they feel, or how they make each other feel. Why? because if one guy hurts another guy's feelings, the problem is generally resolved with a fight, with a dominant male coming out on top. Talking about feelings generall puts you at the bottom of this sort of interaction. Some guys go so far as to define feelings as the sensory inputs that come from something touching their skin. "feelings" as discussed by women are then generally defined as "wussie stuff." But here's another interesting point. Some people say that women offer sex to get love, and men offer love to get sex. This is not exactly a true or fair statement, and in most cases, when a person actually does this, they end up lying about how they feel, or faking orgasms. All the same, it is pretty clear that guys say they are interested in women who will have sex with them, and women say they are interested in guys who will share their feelings. Unfortunately, this is a lie in both cases. Oh, yeah, a guy will be interested in having sex with a woman who is offering just that, but she won't get anything else. In fact, a woman who just offers sex is called a lot of unpleasant things. Well, maybe girls will be interested in sharing their feelings with a guy who is offering just that... but will he be getting anything else? Most likely he'll be called a lot of unpleasant things. When a guy says he want's to see your knockers, do you show them? Not every time, huh? So why is it that you expect a guy to just open up every time you want to look at his soul? I suspect that a lot of people think that their souls are a little bit more personal than their skin.