Why do my parents hate me so much?
I'm so sorry :( Do you have any other family? Maybe if you're really good with other parents (like your best friends parents) they could take you in? No child should have to suffer as much as you are, that's just awful :(
Why do my parents hate me?
Wow, I don't know.. I can't even think of what to say. That's mean! Talk to them and ask them.. I'm sorry, do you have any relatives or friends? Someone that might help you out? I can't think of anything positive to say, I wouldn't stay there, but that's me. I would stay with family or a friend. I am not sure how old you are to understand how to help you. But maybe talk to someone at school and just see what can be done. Your parents shouldn't do that to you.
Why do my parents act like they hate me?
That is an interesting question. Let me ask you some more questions. What is your age? In what ways do they act like they hate you? How long has this been going on?Your parents may actually love you enough to put restrictions on your life to keep you safe and out of trouble. They may give you chores and responsibilities at home to help you mature and develop a strong work ethic. Our parents raised us this way, and I won’t repeat what I said at the time about my mother, as she steadfastly kept raising us this way. At the time, I hated it, and could not see a purpose for it at all. I’m smiling as I write this, because now I do see why we were raised this way. It was love, not hate, that was their motivation. I just couldn’t see the big picture.On the other side of the coin, they may not like you very much, sad to say. Some parents have mental health issues and are so narcissistic that they think only of themselves. I wasn’t raised this way, but I’ve seen it with some of the kids I’ve taught over the years. In that case, you need to grieve your loss, for it is a huge loss. But then you move on and be the person you were put on this earth to be: wonderful, caring, loving, dedicated, hard-working— you get to define the person you will be. If this is the case, I would try to be close with some adults in your life you can look up to, whether they be relatives, neighbors, teachers, or someone else. I wish you all the best.
Why do my parents hate me?
My first guess is that they don’t but I don’t know your situation and why you think they do. I know many children feel that their parents hate them. Some times that might be true. Most of the time it is more that the children feel that they are hated because they don’t like how their parents treat them but the parents are doing what they believe is best for their children. This often might not be the case but far more often than not there isn’t hatred there.My advise is to use some help lines for youths that are available to you. Talk to some councelors that can walk through the issues you are having and provide some specific advice and probably some other resources you can utilize to deal with and resolve your situation.
I hate my parents so much. What should I do?
This is an exercise that might help you clarify why you hate your parents.Take a big sheet of paper and draw a line vertically down the middle.On the top on the left, write “Pro” and on the right write “Con”On the right column, put down the reasons you hate your parents. On the left side, put down the reasons you love and honor your parents. You have to be HONEST to do this exercise.So you might write on the right sideThey took away my phoneThey won’t let me have a carThey tell me to study all the timeThey don’t like my boyfriend (girlfriend)They make me come home at ten pm and yell if I don’t come in on timeThey lecture me not to use drugsOrMy dad left and my mom married someone else and they love the new baby more than meWhatever your problem is, write it downBUT ON THE LEFTThey give me a place to liveMom made my favorite dinner for my birthdayThey bought me new clothesI got to go to Six Flags with two friends last yearThey pay for my phoneThey drive me places because I’m too young to have a license yetThey take me to the doctor when I don’t feel wellThey help me with my homeworkThey don’t want me to get my girlfriend pregnant because I can’t raise a baby and I don’t want to get married yet at all!They celebrate when I have done something successfulWhatever good they do, you must also write it down.Cross off anything on the list on the right side that is something you would also do for your child if you had one (make sure they do their homework so they don’t grow up ignorant, make sure they come in at a good hour so they can get up for school. Make sure they don’t get addicted to bad drugs. )Leave on the list anything that a parent shouldn’t be doing (not seeing you enough if they live separately, refusing to help you with homework.) And then see if you have a reasonable reason to hate your parents or if you are simply upset that you are working on your independence but they put reasonable limits on you, because you are still underage.
What do parents hate about emo's?
my parents hate the fact that i am emo but they wont tell me what about emo is that they hate except that they are different from normal people and they supposedly **** up there own life's but that's not true so can some one please help me tell me what parents hate about emo's?
Do my parents hate me?
It's possible, but unlikely.Ironically, parents who dislike their children can seem "cool" and "easy." They don't much care what you do as long as you're not immediately causing them trouble.Parents, especially more traditional and strict parents, sometimes seem to hate their kids. Sometimes, when we;re trying to make our children "good," we alienate them by going overboard: yelling, criticizing, acting dismissive. This parental behavior can develop into a rut. We may not even notice our irrational behavior.If you are experiencing this sort of problem, try this. During a quiet moment remind them of their better nature. Make them laugh and smile with you. Then explain how you feel.
How do I know if my parents hate me? Well, they act like they hate me.
Many teenagers have this illusion with them in influence of that they feel that my parents hate me. There are certain reasons of having this breach between you and your parents:YOUR DEVELOPMNT CHILD TO TEENAGERMany people talk about children perspective when they are forbidden to do something by their parents. Single no for many things leads teens to think , oh my parents are not allowing me to do what I like , may be they hate me.”In this impression of mind you need to introspect for your own asking and demands.GENERATION GAPEvery spin of time change brings new thinking and ways of approaching to things that always occurs in form of old versus new age and perspectives.This mismatched weavelenght of thoughts put two opposite directions.If you says yes probably your parents say no.You will have to bring equillibrium of perspectives. So that things could become less difficult to you.ACTING HATE TO IMPROVE YOUMany times children are very pampered and protected however when they step into teenage parents want to make them independent and strong, so they put some challenges in their way. May be they use harsh language to hit or shake you from inside that could break your intense love towards them and make you focus for new friends and world ahead.BITTERNESS IS SWEETDont rely always which is apparent as they are your parents no one can know you better than you. If they speak bitter word doesn't mean they don't love you or hate you. No parents give birth to hate their child instead they want you to craft as strong human which could be indifferent to cruel and wicked people in world, who are you going to have in your life path.Once you digest this apparent bitterness of your parents you will learn big lesson, how to deal with negative and bitter. Everything is not positive and everyone wont love you. Learn initial lesson of this from parents.WAY OF LOVING TO YOU HAS BEEN ALTEREDWhen you were a kid your parents used to cuddle you, kiss you, take you in lap though once you start growing this physical touch might be vanished that may be germinate this poisonous seed of misconception that your parents hates you.Ways of love only has changed not your parents.So before clinging to any form of thought think well.
What should you do when your parents hate you?
RE: "What do you do if your parents hate you?"Leave them behind and move on with your life as best you can.Try not to be overcome by anger and bitterness because that's about as useful as being angry at a storm for destroying your property. Nature is what it is and sometimes, it can be rather ugly. Human nature is no different in many respects because people choose who they become, and who or what they hate.If you have given them reason to hate you, then it is incumbent upon you to make some form of reparation; particularly if you care about the toxic nature of hatred and wish to reverse the harm done to your parents which led to their hatred of you.If you've done nothing to inspire that hatred, then you must accept it as a natural consequence of their own being and their own choices.Before you make any decision however, it is incumbent upon you to objectively assess both conditions to arrive at the most accurately objective conclusion possible, even if it means deep soul-searching and an acceptance of something which may be ugly within yourself.Perhaps you need to change to accommodate their perspectives in order to repair the damage you did or you need to learn to allow them the opportunity to reflect upon the damage they have done to you and hope they reach a conclusion which allows an opportunity for the restoration of a healthy familial relationship.In either case, good luck to you because you will carry your burden for life.
Why do my parents hate me sleeping?
I love to sleep. Just.. It's Beautiful. I feel so refreshed after a nap or 12 hours of sleep. I really can hold down the hay. I can sleep forever. I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I have a job and average grades. When I come home I like to take a nap from 4-6. I'm just so tired from school it's all I want to do. My parents get so furious when they see me sleeping. They yell at me that I'm wasting my time and I should be doing other things. I have homework and some some stuff to do around the home. But it's nothing that can't wait till 6. I try telling them it makes me feel better and it's honestly better then me wasting money after school doing something else. Since when is napping such a crime??