Why do people always get me wrong?
I feel the same many-a-times. I feel if I say ‘A’ to people and they understand ‘B’. But, what I have worked out in my experience is that neither you are at fault nor the person who mis-understands you. It's about tuning, with different person. It clicks with one and does not with other. Also, I feel your choice of words matters. Like I like to speak things in sarcastic manner or express things in philosophical way. So, some understand it and take it in a positive way. On the other hand, some people get offended and they pretend as if they didn't get what you said.The catch is, don't change the way you are. You might feel that people take you wrong everytime, you don't mean to hurt anyone bla bla and all this results in feeling shit about yourself. But don't, embrace it. Just be correct in your own eyes and true to yourself, and I am sure you will have people in your life who understand you perfectly and “get you right”.
Why do people always leave me?
Don't be so eager to please. People don't trust it. You probably seem too invested in new friends. When you meet someone new, shake hands and let them know you're available for help and advice if wanted. Don't inflict yourself on them. Reach and withdraw. Give them time to think about you and miss you. Gold is valuable because it's hard to get. Sand is not so valuable. Make yourself a valuable commodity. Friendships are based on common interests. What are your interests? Build up your interests in your mind so you have things to do by yourself and you have things to talk about with people who might grow to be friends. Do you play a musical instrument? Do you play a game? Do you read a lot on a certain subject? Do you speak a foreign language. These and things like them are what friendships spring from. Casual meetings with someone who gloms on seldom are profound. Friendships are profound. Base your attractions on common interests and even when they're working, reach and withdraw. Friendship and even love is based on space between. They won't need to think about you if you're always around. You also seem more interesting when you have your own activities and are sometimes unavailable.
Why do people always mirror me?
Why do people alot of times do the sh*t I do? Sometimes I'll be standing in line and when I move up I've had people move like right up on me. I'm like back the f*ck up. Sometimes I just feel like hitting people. Most of the time, people won't even acknowledge me unless I initiate something frist. I'm like WTF, what is this a game? Am I the only person on earth who just HAS to say something first in order to get a reaction out of anyone? Why does everybody wait on me to do and say sh*t? I've thought about just becoming an isolationist. I have senses too and I sense people just feel uneasy around me. F*ck it
Why do people always ask me for advice?
People who are "chill and nice" are usually also modest and wise. They think of you as an old soul who can give guidance.
People always do me wrong?
like all the time, even my friends. People will make plans with me, then never call, or people will just mess with me when im not wanting it, or they'll change plans on a whim and ignore me when i try to keep them. Its getting so old and i hate being a d...ick back to them but im starting to think thats the only way i can really do what i want, because no one seems to give a damn about that, ever
Why do people always talk crap about me?
I am just so tired and sick of meeting people who I think are nice but then I find out that they say a bunch of sh*t about me behind my back. Why do people always do this to me! I am nothing but nice to them. I am not rude to them in any way and then all of a sudden, I catch them laughing at me and saying a bunch of sh*t about me. I am so sick of it. Like today at work, I just went to clock in and as I went I saw these two guys that I work with (which I thought were nice people) look at me and then looked away. And then I heard one of them laugh and I knew they were laughing at me because what else would they be laughing at. I'm just so sick of it.
Why do people always do this to me.? HELPPP?
So almost every day i have someone come up to me and are like "are you anerexic???". It really bugs me because i think there are alot more girls that are skinnier then me.! I'm 5"4 and 97 pounds. Also i am very toned and people call me buff. haha, but i hate when people start romers about me being anerexic. But i eat a lot of food, and im old for my grade. 14 8th grade.? so whats the problem????
Why do people always belittle me?
I know where you are coming from on here and how you're feeling. It is very heartbreaking when a family member walks all over you the way you were talking about and also it is even more heartbreaking when the person we're with does the same and will not stop when asked too. Everybody has some type of flaw about themselves and things we do not like about ourselves. All you have to do is live with the way you look and take things how they are. Just do not ever let someone walk all over you and hurt you in ways you do not like. I use too do the same all the time; until my husband who told me not to take peoples crap and let them do me wrong. I never was the rude type and said mean things back. I still don't but I also do not allow people to hurt me in ways I do not like. You'll do the right thing when the wrong thing is said and when you've had enough you'll know what to say... Good luck