Why do people hate me so much?
Well I don't know you and I also don't hate you. I have felt like that before but the truth is people are too busy thinking about there own faults to focus so intensely on yours. However if you feel bad about yourself jerks can pick up on that and give you grief to just make themselves feel less inadequate (and if you think about it its all quite pathetic) The best and only thing to do is focus on your talents and positive qualities. Involve yourself in things you enjoy, start to like who you are and cut ties with anyone who puts you down. If some creep is going to tell your your ugly without even knowing you do you really care what a person like that thinks?
Why do people hate me because I'm quiet?
I'm a 15 year old girl and I've always been really shy and quite but it's never bothered me until recently. I have social anxiety disorder so it's difficult for me to talk to people I'm not comfortable with. Over the past few days, I've heard a lot of people saying stuff about how quiet I am. I've heard things like "I don't want to sit with her, she never talks" "She's so quite, it's creepy" "Does she ever talk?" and a girl came up to me and asked me why I'm so quiet but one of my friends who was there (she's knows about my social anxiety) just told her there was a reason but she didn't go into detail. I just don't get why it's such a big deal. In my english class I sit with this one guy, who is really loud and popular. It's just him and I at the table but he always talks whereas I just want to get on with my work. I'll try and speak to him because he is quite a nice guy. He's never said anything about my quietness but I can tell he thinks the same as everyone else. I hate being like this. Teachers also can be like this. I feel that some teachers find me inapproachable and just let me sit there. Even one teacher mocked me about it which really upset me. Also, a girl was looking to borrow a pen today and she asked everybody at my table except me and I think it was because of how quiet I am. What should I do? I really hate being like this but I can't help it and I feel like everybody hates me because of it.
Why do people at school hate me?
Ok where to start... I am a proper Aussie girl and i am nice to everyone, sometimes being too nice has got me in trouble (i have had a boy wanting to date me for over 2 years and now stalking me).. I am probably above average looking, everyone says i should do modelling and people always want to do photoshoots with me... At school i hang out with the aboriginal girls as the are so nice to me and include me in everything, they dont judge me and just accept me... I have a few white friends.. well only a handful id actually say friends my own age... I get along ALOT better with people older than me like 25+ i am 16 now... My boyfriend is also alot older than me and we have ben dating for over 2 years. (no one really knows though only a few people) I love animals, especially reptiles and birds.. The main age group i get along extremely well with is people aged 30+. I like school when i have a friend in a class i am in but i dont like when teachers treat me like a kid (i know technically i am but i do NOT act like one). I treat people how i want to be treated and in return everyone is an a$$hole back to me. I've heard people judging me about what i wear (sunnies, make-up (i dont really wear make up too often though), shoes, how i do my hair ect ect... I am fairly quiet in school and dont big note myself or attempt to be better than anyone else.. I dont understand why so many people hate me and make fun of me? I good at pretty much everything and probably have more than other people but i dont brag.. No one really knows so i dont know why people hate me :( Please answer, i will award 10 points to best answer!
Why are people always making fun of me? Why does everyone hate me when I don't talk to them? Why am I ugly?
You know, I've noted that the less attention you give people the more they seek. Since you're so quiet people just want to get attention from you and they're asking for it in a bad way. It's like a little kid in a playground sand box who wants to play with another and to get their attention they throw a pail on their head. Bullies are often people in need of attention. I'm a big time lone-wolf, I enjoy being by myself, reflecting on my surroundings and just being quiet. I like to read by myself in the library, I lock myself up in the music room of my college and play or I go to my room and watch Lie To Me or House on Hulu. Occasionally I'll call up a friend and we'll hang out but all my close friends know that I love being by myself and they respect that. This doesn't seem like the kind of person who'd be getting in any drama right? But unfortunately I get in the same amount of drama people who are out there socializing and talking to everyone and gossiping get in! I've had people come up to me and claim that I've spread rumors, I've had people tell me that I think I'm better than everyone else, I've had girls tell me that I've been trying to take their boyfriends- it's crazy. They just want attention- I don't usually give it to them. Sometimes I tell them that what they're saying isn't true- other times I just smile and walk away (that REALLY seems to get to them). After a while they stop, once they realize that they won't get what they want from you they'll leave you alone. If you react they'll keep at it. And don't say you're ugly- you can't bat yourself up over other people :) You're beautiful and you have a great smile, so smile and walk away, it's that simple. People are impossible to satisfy completely, if you talk its bad if you're quiet its bad. If you can't mind your own business you're horrible, but if mind your own business is all you do it's even worse!
Why do people hate me in my dreams?
i am not sure if i have a negative outlook on life. i stay out of the whole drama thing, and stick with friends that i am positive will not stab me in the back. dr reverand... i dont know how to comment, but i think it might be the first one, and thank you!
Why are some people hated for no reason?
I remember talking to my cousin about this. We were talking about making good first impressions and how to “allow” others to grow to like us.The reality is that many people ,if not most have very large insecurities. Mout humans on earth act a specific way because of a specific reason. We are taught habits by those around us and very commonly..act accordingly.People that you've encountered in the world , and during your life on earth, will seem to at times hate you for no reason. I'm sure we can all think really deeply of instances in which we havery either mistreated someone without really stopping to think “why” ..People have issues. They've had experiences. They've had bad and good experiences in life and these experiences (good or bad) , along with the perception or point of view they've had at that time, will deeply impact their ffuture reactions to stimuli.Let me give you an example.Let's say there is a woman who is a janitor at night at an office building . She works hard every night to being home the bacon.In her past..she's had a trauma in her life by a specific man. Let's say it was her boyfriend of her childhood. He ended up dumping her and leaving her abandoned with 2 children. This is an example of an extremely traumatic event which shapes her future.Let's say this man /ex boyfriend had red hair and brown eyes.She's most likely going to react very emotionally to men with brown eyes and red hair because in her mind,she associates these features with her trauma.Do you see? Some people will always hate us because they may have had a difficulty in their past and tend to feel immense pain when those memories are brought back to the surface. Sometimes it's so simple as how you look…or the manner of being. They can trigger emotions deep down eventually effecting how we treat others.I hope that helps!
Why do people hate me just because I'm smart?
Note: I am not trying to brag or anything like that. There are days that I wish I wasn't smart because of how people treat me. I live in a relatively lazy area where kids do not want to work. So many have potential to be amazing, they just don't try. I've always been that shy quiet kid in school. Always the odd one out, because people just wouldn't let me try to be their friend. I'm in highschool now, and I literally can't say anything. In class when we get grades, I always keep mine to myself while my "friends" talk about theirs. I don't raise my hand in class because I don't want to seem stuck up. Sometimes I have to ask them questioms I know the answers to so they will leave me alone about being smart. In spanish one day a "friend" of mine was joking about only being friends with me because im smart. They always call me a "white mexican" because im good in spanish. Im starting to think she wasnt joking. This summer none of them have bothered to keep in contact with me. If i text them they will probably just ignore me. I dont think its my personality, because in past years when we just talked and didnt have classes together we were great. I dont know why they have to treat me like this. My summer has been horrible and I feel like I can't do anything about it. I want to talk more, but what point is there to talking to people who will just ignore me or shut me down. I do have some friends (the smarter ones actually) who want to hang out, but i cant bug them all summer. I hate this