I always feel that if I get too much happy, something Bad will happen . How should I keep myself Positive?
I ride exactly the same boat as you.I was once in a trip. I was supposed to have a great time but I kept feeling like doing so would bring about something bad. But on a sunny day, I thought.. “to hell with the “potential” bad thing. This time that I have is never coming back and every time I look back to this time in the future, it will only mean happiness to me, even during the bad times”. Thus, I put my stupid mind aside and made the most from the trip. As a result, when I have bad days, I think about that beautiful time and feel peaceful inside. That memory is my pacifier now.I think we should think about these things every time we have that glitch in our hearts.We are being very stupid. Instead of spending a good time and letting ourselves free, we are making the worst use of the beautiful time we have by having that fear.So what if there is a bad happening? There will be a good one to compensate that one as well. After-all, life is a balance of both.Do we ever feel happy or relived during bad times thinking that it will be followed by happiness? We are not that optimistic now, are we? So, if we are bound to feel unhappy during bad times, why have the same feeling during good times as well?If anything bad is going to happen, which it will eventually, what is the point of fearing for it beforehand? In fact as i said above, happy memories are going to be our tool to stay strong during the bad times.We are not expected to be using our brains all the time. The more you put your brain aside and enjoy things the happier you will feel.So sit back, relax and stay happy :)
Why do people always leave me?
Don't be so eager to please. People don't trust it. You probably seem too invested in new friends. When you meet someone new, shake hands and let them know you're available for help and advice if wanted. Don't inflict yourself on them. Reach and withdraw. Give them time to think about you and miss you. Gold is valuable because it's hard to get. Sand is not so valuable. Make yourself a valuable commodity. Friendships are based on common interests. What are your interests? Build up your interests in your mind so you have things to do by yourself and you have things to talk about with people who might grow to be friends. Do you play a musical instrument? Do you play a game? Do you read a lot on a certain subject? Do you speak a foreign language. These and things like them are what friendships spring from. Casual meetings with someone who gloms on seldom are profound. Friendships are profound. Base your attractions on common interests and even when they're working, reach and withdraw. Friendship and even love is based on space between. They won't need to think about you if you're always around. You also seem more interesting when you have your own activities and are sometimes unavailable.
Help why do people keep calling me this?
You're kidding right? Cause you gotta know you're gonna get slammed here for asking such 'bimbo' like questions. Brace yourself.
How to make myself need braces?
My aunt said that if I ever needed any, she would pay for them. A lot of the girls in my grade have them and always talk about them and tell me they aren't bad (which I know they probably are) but I just want them. Don't give me a rude or mean answer cause I don't care at all and I probably won't listen unless you know how to make a really good argument. Thanks ;) (not tying to sound harsh)
Do braces make people "Uncool" or "Ugly"?
I just got braces 2 months ago and I am still very shy about them. I used to always be smiling and always want to take pictures with my friends and stuff, but now Im always the one who either wants to take the picture and not be in it or just not be in it or have anything to do with the picture at all. In my class and even with my friends Im the only one with them, I feel stupid and ugly, but I really dont know why. Even when I ask my friends they say that I look just the same, and that it doesn't make a difference, but actually I feel like I look like a whole new person. Please help me, and tell me what you think. :)
Why would somebody stare at you and say absolutely nothing?
I wish I had the answer to this. Recently, I was walking to my car. The man stalking me drove around from behind a building and stopped his vechile about 20 feet from me.I braced myself for a possible confrontation as the whole thing seemed very aggressive to me. Like here I am in case you forgot. But all he did was sit in the vechile and stare at me. I ignored him. Got in my vechile and left.However, the whole thing left me wondering what in the world was that all about? Was he hoping to see fear or shock on my face? Was he going to say something and decided against it or did he just need to see me and saw an opportunity.He’s done things similar to that before but normally he leaves enough room for me to doubt what he was doing. Like, oh he was where I am but he was working on something also. He does work where I work so I can rationalize his actions out most of the time even though I know he’s stalking me. It’s confusing at best but it’s how I deal with it. I know what’s happening but choose to deny it most of the time but that’s my choice not his.But not this time. There was no doubt about it. He was there to see me. He had been hiding and waiting. He really did come out of no where. It was like he wanted to sneak up on me. I feel like he’s becoming more and more frustrated with the situation.I would think that would make someone speak to the other person not them just being close and staring at you. Maybe he can’t. Maybe he doesn’t know what to say. Sorry would be a good place to start but I know that won’t happen.