Why do some people make others feel like shit?
Other people do not have the power to make other people feel like shit.If someone is making you feel bad, then you are giving away your power.Insecurities- The feeling of being not good enough and less than- maybe being abused and treated wrong accompanied by negative self thoughts and negative self beliefs can cause someone to try to make other people feel low in an attempt to temporarily feel better about the negative self thoughts and negative self beliefs.Pain likes to spread if it cannot be healed.In knowing this, if you have not done anything to the person that tries to cause you to suffer, you can let go of feeling responsible and let go of the bondage of accepting that person’s judgment of you.Instead you can choose to see them as someone who is suffering.Someone who suffers is down .When someone is down, you have the ability to help them up.If you try to help them up and transmute their pain into healing, that is into self forgiveness, self love, self embracing and they are not interested, then you can still walk away knowing you tried.You can’t force someone to change.You can’t force someone to love themselves, learn, or forgive themselves.You can’t force someone to break out of the prison of their own thoughts and insecurities.So, you are not responsible and you don’t have to be hurt by it.Low self esteem has the ability to change to high self esteem, negative thoughts that bring about self hatred and misery have the ability to change into positive self thoughts that love the self and forgive the self and others.So, at least you can walk away with hope for that person to one day be happy.
Why does society feel like people should blindly obey their employers without question, even if they're abusive tyrants?
People think that an employer is always in the right because of their position over you. What if your employer wants you to do something that goes against your religious beliefs, such as the Bible? How come people say thay employers can do whatever they want?
What do you feel most people's lives are driven by?
Most people, I think, are driven by earthly possessions. The world may say "the more I have the more power I have." It is only temporary, and we will have to leave it all behind. My driving force is Jesus Christ. Feeling His presence in me, is what gives me spiritual and physical strength. I can do all things in Him whom strengthens me. There is no other earthly force stronger than the force of Jesus Christ to drive you toward the correct path. Praise the Name of the Lord!! I feel His presence right now just bursting inside of me as I speak and share of Him and His Greatness.
Why do people elevate man's rules & laws over God's, & feel like God has no place in your work environment, school, government, etc.?
But those same people feel like they hate God & blame Him for all the suffering going on in the world, or they blame him for their personal suffering? They feel like He's irrelevant & ineffective. & in our society, we're made to be fearful of being fired from a job from an ungodly, earthly employer, or be fearful of getting arrested from an ungodly, earthly police officer with a SWAT team & K-9 dogs. Why does man want to replace God in society, & feel like only certain humans can attain "godhood", & others are "not worthy"?
Why do people feel step parents shouldn't be parents?
I recently posted a question in regards to the kids' bilogical mother giving our son a cell phone which caused quite a few issues over the summer... including making the youngest child feel she was not loved by her mother. I was amazed at how many people said that as a step mother, I should not even be involved in the decisions or disiplinary actions against the children or voice anything to their mother. If you've ever had children, bilogical or step, you know that if you and your significant other are not on the same page when it comes to raising children, you end up sending them mixed signals and you end up with more issues than when you started. How many parents out there, especially in blended families, truly feel that step parents don't have a right to be involved in their children's lives?