Why do I hate people? Is there something wrong with me?
Three possibilities: 1) Aspergers Syndrome: A common but rarely recognized disorder on the Autism spectrum. (I have this, and people call me shy, but I just have no reason to talk to people. Another key towards this is the selective social group. I'm going to guess you talk a lot to your girlfriend, etc, but rarely ever to anyone else, which is one of the biggest symptoms of Aspergers. ) 2) Sociopathy: The discontempt for all other humans(It's possible, but not likely because you have a girl friend) 3) Xenophobia: The fear of outsiders and changes from the outside.(but again, not likely, because you have a girlfriend) If I had to place money on one of the three, I'd say Aspergers. It's nothing serious, but to the extreme, you will just have a hard time making friends. You don't like meeting new people, you would rather play video games instead of going to a party, you can talk all day to people you are accustomed to, but very little to others, and you enjoy solitude to its fullest extent. It's also quite possible that you just enjoy solitude, but the whole "...icky" thing makes me think otherwise. Try researching the three choices above and read the details about each, and maybe call a psychologist if you have real concerns. Hope that helps!
Is there something wrong with people who hate dogs?
No.I have a dog, and I love dog’s. It just depends on the dog, and so I wouldn’t want to pet a dog that’s malicious looking. The dog I have act’s like a baby, and she’s not vicious at all.She’s getting old but still jumps on her back, and lay’s on the ground, and wants her tummy rub. So. I think it just depends on the dog, and the type of person.Some people are allergic to dogs, and so I don’t think they really hate the dog but.. more of the fact they can’t touch the dog.Then there’s people that had/ have an experience where a dog attacked it, and that’s why they hate dogs.So.. the answer is “ NO” there’s nothing wrong with people who hate dogs. Some countries.. they kill, and eat dogs.It’s disgusting.. but people do it. In america it would be consider “ illegal” but people still kill dog’s, and eat it.There’s also stray dogs, and dog’s with rabies. Maybe.. a person has rabies or has gotten sick from a dog.I don’t know.But there’s nothing wrong with people who hate it. I just wouldn’t go off attacking one for no reason. Not a good reason to take problems out on..Love,Angela
Why do people hate lazy people? What is wrong with being lazy?
I am lazy (I think). I don't know exactly if I am lazy or just a procrastinator or lazy as a result of being a procrastinator. I hate being lazy; it's the worst thing about me. I have to deal with so much crap and I have so much debt (not money but like school work and stuff), I have to worry about doing tasks 24/7, my mom yells at me. People always seem to express a hatred towards lazy people. But it's not all our fault. I'm not lazy by choice and I just can't get up and do a certain task immediately. I have to prepare and get ready and I procrastinate until the point where it is too late and i tell myself I'll do it the next day. I can't just get up and do something. It's not that easy, if it were, I wouldn't be lazy. It's not like a switch that you can just turn off and on. Being lazy has caused me so much trouble and anxiety in my life and I hate it and I am going to a psychiatrist to try and fix it. But why do some people hate lazy people? We have to go through a lot too due to our laziness and procrastination and trying to get ourselves together. But why hate lazy people. what is wrong with being a lazy person?
I hate people, is something wrong with me?
When I started my graduate work in psychology, my first professor warned us that we would see ourselves in every diagnosis. And it was true.Just about every person experiences or behaves in abnormal or anti-social, or socially unacceptable ways, or has odd thoughts at one time or another, you name it.What moves a person over a line is as varied as the myriad behaviors and personalities of people themselves. Only you, and a professional (which I am not) can really hash that out…Have you acted on your thoughts?Do they go away over time? Have you had a chance to evaluate that empathy or cool down?These are serious questions that can be worth exploring, but the fact that you are concerned suggests that you are like me and my entire cohort… thoughtful, self-reflective, and you are bumping up against morals and values and empathetic feelings that make you question your thoughts and behaviors. That can be a really healthy normal thing. Everyone has wacky thoughts and sometimes people even screw up and act on them. It’s those who can’t or won’t stop or who don’t even try that are probably more dangerous, and usually they don’t question themselves like you are here.Huge qualification - I am not a practicing psychologist. In no way is anything here advice. I just want to give a practical take on what could be pretty common feelings.You mentioned lies and betrayal.And you are questioning yourself and you are in touch with your own empathy.Please do a search here in Quora about a term called “gaslighting.” It is a surprisingly common tool that bullies and abusers use to confuse people. They use this technique to confuse their targets and somehow make them feel responsible for things others are doing to them. Lies and betrayal are deeply rooted in gaslighting. There are amazing and helpful stories here that may help you determine if you are being gaslighted. I hope not, but it may also help you to see how lies and betrayal can really hurt, and you are not alone.
Is something wrong with me if I really hate children or young people in general?
Yes, there is something wrong with you to think of a class of people based on any one characteristic, like age, body size, race, religion, the city they were born in, how tall they are, what color hair they have, as "inherently bad" people.If I had to make a guess, at least one of your parents had this same attitude, and you ended up merging your own with it because it was safer than standing up to it when you were a kid and then a teen who was probably "becoming worse."I'd get some therapy man. Even if you don't manifest this by running around and doing mean stuff to kids and teens, you've cut yourself off of loving all the parts of you - particularly the parts that don't know anything; that aren't polished, that has questions and that needs to make mistakes to learn and grow.I'd think it worth your time to uncover that scared kid and angry teen and love him, or her, right up!
Why do gay people hate me?
i try to be their friend and im always polite.i joke around with them andall i want to do is be their friend.i dont have a problem with them,im not homophobic...im straight and i just want to know what makes them act that way... where i work there are atleast 5 or 6 of them and i always wave at them or try to make conversations with them,and they just look at me like "why are you talking to me?" or they roll their eyes... they dont know who iam... am i ugly or soemthing? am i annoying? its not like i go follow them or push the conversation on them,but i just try to talk and be their friend.its been that way since day one....ive worked there for 2 yrs now... is there something wrong? oh and the gay people are both girl and guy.
Why do I have people who hate me so much in this world that they want to contact the police or court on me? Is there something wrong with me?
This isn’t necessarily an act of hatred - though it may feel that way.If they’re making up stuff and contacting the police, that’s most likely hatred, and you’d be justified to feel hated.If they feel that you’ve committed some sort of injustice against them (won’t return what was borrowed, have threatened them (even playfully), are disturbing their right to live peacefully, etc), then they may be seeking justice for the matter. Ideally, someone should try to confront the individual - but sometimes that individual may be threatening enough (even due to innocent things, like being tall and/or muscular and/or male and/or of an ethnicity that they perceive as threatening due to prejudice) that the individual will go directly to police.If you have a history with police and in court which is known to them, and have been in violation of certain requirements that have come about as a result of that history, they may be trying to protect themselves from a perceived threat.
What is wrong with being a poser? why do people hate that when someone is a poser?
Well, it's hard to get to know a poser because they're trying to be someone they're not. So, they're relatively harmless, but not genuine people. Dontcha think?