Why do bad things happen to good people?
picture it like this. you are from God. you are OF god. you have been placed in a world that is NOT of God. the result is, if you make every effort to live for God in this world, you WILL be rejected by the world, naturally. the more you witness about God, the more you will be persecuted and put through hard times. taking "good people" in the context of "God-fearing" people, the "test of fire" you experience is a natural thing. whatever suffering you experience in this world...will help you to grow in appreciation for the things that really matter - like eternal life in heaven. when things are going all good, it's easy to think that your "heaven" is here on earth....then you can easily get caught up in the world, and soon you lose sight of God. let the "bad" people have all their happiness here....in this world, to which they belong. but they will have none of it in the next. ~Rx~
If traumatic and horrific things happened to people who hold these opinions, wouldn’t you find it super funny?
Opinions: "If it's popular, it MUST be good!" "Whoever hates my favorite entertainers is just jealous of them." "Different people are wastes of spaces who don't deserve the rights I have." "My opinions are the only ones that matter." "Nothing is ever my fault." "I never make mistakes." "Everybody should like what I like. If they don't, there is something wrong with them!" "People exist to serve me and do nothing else." "I hope Donald Trump caters to the one percent and leave everybody else out to dry!" "Whoever disagrees with me is an idiot." "Since my opinions are always the popular ones, they are the only ones that matter." "Anyone that hates on popular things and people is an idiot." "If I'm offending somebody, it's THEIR problem and not mine." "I'm inconsiderate, rude, selfish, and condescending because I CAN BE." "Hypocrisy is only acceptable when I'm being a hypocrite." "Narcissists and bullies deserve to have great social lives. They are fun and exciting to be around! They are the best people to have as friends! Whoever hates them has the worst taste in people!"
Should I hope that something will happen between us?
Stop playing games.Sit down and have a real conversation, rather than “hope” or “fear”.Say, “I like you and I would like to explore the possibilities of dating. What do you think?”Watch his bodily response with an birds eye view. Take everything in. Listen to what he says without the “hope” of it being one way or the other. The sooner you can stop playing games and have an honest conversation, the sooner you will discover if he wants to be with you, or if you need to move on to someone else. Likewise, just because a “guy seems interested” does’t matter nearly as much in relation to if you are interested in him, beyond face values. Do you know a lot about this guy? Do you have similar interests? Do you like the way he treats you? Have you seen the way he treats other people? Do you have similar views of the future? Do you want the same thing out of the relationship?
Why do some people have no hope in life?
Hope is something which is the raison d’etre for most of us humans. In fact why just humans, every creature on earth lives on hope, credence. And what that very hope is, that is common to all the living?The Hope that there will be a better tomorrow, there will be a finer next moment.There would be better days,weeks, months and years to come. Maybe today was bad and not as per our expectations but we hope that tomorrow would be better.But then there are some incidents in life, which happen, change us, change the whole perspective of living,shatter us from the core, and life changes.We start questioning our whole existence. We start questioning this world, and its creator, the Almighty, and if an atheist, we question ourselves, our deeds, our Karma.Hope is like oxygen, no matter how much something breaks you, it is that tiniest support you need in times of adversities. It is upon us, whether we depend upon it, or not. Whether we choose to blame everything and everyone, lose faith, lose hope and break.Or we espouse hope,hold on to the tiniest support which might look small, but has the potential to breathe a new life. It is no less than oxygen for someone losing breath. You might give up on people but don’t give up on hope.Now you’d be assuming why am i going out of context and focussing on keeping hope when the topic is about the analysis on people who lose it and why. The answer is -It is all about what you choose and i’m hopeful that you’ll understand the purpose of this answer. Its not even about the antonyms-optimism and pessimism, truth or lies, sunrise or sunset, but it is about believing and not believing. It is about trust, it is about determination, it is about you and your purpose in life.Have you come to this world just to give up and lose it, or you’re here to get back what you lost?Ask yourself, you might be wrong but your conscience will never beguile you.And hope is the answer, you might lose it because of something wrong, but it’s in your hands and you can make things right. You might not get what you’ve already lost, but you might save and protect what you have.Even the tiniest drops of dew, as long as they remain on the leaves portray hope. They are hopeful that they’d stay as long as they’re still on the leaf. Even a caterpillar lives on hope that one day it’d transmogrify into a butterfly.And then we are humans and considered to be sane.So why lose it?
People say that having children is the best thing that has ever happened to them. Is this really true?
Actually, NOT having children is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I get to do what I want, spend my money on what I want, and have all the free time I want.
Is it wrong to hold onto hope of things working out with an ex?
Let it go .Move on. Make new (girl) habits. There are millions of fish in the sea.
What do you think of people who Are InCel?
InCel or Involuntarily Celibate means you are a virgin but NOT by Choice. You want and have the desire to have sex but because of many factors * usually extremely shy personality, lack of money, or terrible looks* they are not able to have sex with anyone. I'm 24 going on 25 and I never once Had sex. Heck its hard enough to make friends let alone get myself a girlfriend or boyfriend. Prostitution is illegal and can get expensive and places like Bars and Nightclubs are not for me because I get extremely nervous in crowded, loud places. Because of my shy personality people see me as either a snob or a freak because I dont talk to anybody. No matter how hard I try when I approach someone that I'm interested in I either walk past them or I say something stupid. Most of the time when I do meet people I'm interested in they are already in a relationship. I don't know what to do anymore, I live out in the Suburbs and all the places to meet singles are in the downtown area because the Chicago Suburb I live in is full of mostly married people and older retired people. I have a job but any amount of money I make goes to pay the bills. I tired dating sites but all I get is SPAM and they all require a credit card to join and the Free Sites just send you SPAM messages. Is there any hope for me or should I accept the fact that I will be alone forever never to experience sex. BTW... Yes I do Masturbate but I dont do it often enough because I rarely get any privacy.
Is it right hold on to something that is probably never going to happen?
What has initiated to hold at the first point?Nothing is impossible; human don’t have an ability to create a though that cannot be manifested.But the losing hope that it could never happen may have a good point or bad which needs to be identified by the individual.Do we know about that something if that would lead in mental peace of add confusion?Is that thing strong to change the life or is simply another experiment?One thing for sure we should avoid haste in taking decisions with excess of reasoning which is applying excess of logic and so the mind. We should also avoid if we are charged with excess emotions which is feeling from the heart.In case any part in the excess mentioned above is holding we need to balance when filtration process may help to confirm its utility and if is for a good cause would happen and if the cause is not good would neutralize and go away from the mind.In any situation it is you who have to work in balancing the mind and heart and leave the rest for the results.In case you are sure the cause is good and stopping from manifestation then the reason is to move from the comfort zone where again as explained above balancing mind and heart would make the positive move.