Why do people nitpick other people?
Because some people have to pull others down so they can appear taller.Because they’re miserable losers who don’t have a life of their own so they nit pick to bring others to their level of misery.Because they’re pessimistic and can never see anything positive in the people around them.Because they’re bored and pick on the nearest victim to entertain themselves.Because they’re nosy and very much interested in sticking their noses in other people’s businesses.Because they’re full of themselves and think highly of themselves and think others can benefit from their “wisdom ”.
Why do people tend to nitpick and try hard to find your faults rather than appreciate?
I have a sick husband who is quite older than I am. I take care of him for years now. I bathe him, clean his bun, hold his penis for him when he pees...I wake in the middle of the nights when he's feeling depressed. We have moved to a lot of places and in each move, there were some problems along the way that I needed to resolve mostly on my own. I traded my own freedom and needs for my husband but I don't regret anything I've done because I feel happy when he is happy. He is also very good to me but there are things he can't help me with because of his condition. My only disappointment are the other people. I find myself sometimes interrogated or questioned for things that I have no control of. They always see my husband as the victim and they try to look at me as somebody who is going to harm my husband or someone who is being neglectful of him. My husband is a smoker and nobody can make him stop so some people put the blame on me. The other day he fell while I was in the grocery because he got out of balance. Our neighbor was interrogating me like a policeman even if my husband explained to her aleady how he fell. She wasn't trying to ask me but she was more like trying to make me feel guilty with her body language and the way she talks. Like one time when we were at the airport, I was managing 5 suitcases, watching over our stuff while they go through the screening and also watching after my husband. While I was picking the bags, my husband was just behind me in the screening but the lady guard thought I was abandoning him because he was alone...then she came to me and gave me pissed off self-righteous lectures. These people do not know what I am going through and been through. But even some people who know me and my husband, they often just wait till I seem to have committed a mistake then criticize me or make me feel guilty at that. I look attractive and well-dressed that I think most people underestimate me as a bimbo. Why are people so hard on finding faults and so difficult for them to recognize the good side of you? My husband is the only person who compliments me a lot.
What are British people’s opinions of Asians?
Depends on where they are from. The majority of British people I know really don't care about someone's race. It's how they behave and respect our way of life that counts.In my experience, and I live in an area where Asians make up 70% of the population now, those who fled Uganda and are Hindu, have integrated very well. Those Hindus from India slightly less so. Sikhs have taken to the UK like ducks to water.Now here's the politically incorrect bit: the Muslim incomers tend to not want to mix with anyone else or integrate at all, at least around here. It might be different elsewhere.My answer would be that it very much depends on the religion, not the race.
Why do people point out my flaws?
They do so, because they notice something in your behavior that they think is not inline with how it should be. What I find noticeable is the way you formulate this question. It seems that you agree with the fact that what those people point out indeed are your flaws.Given this, people do so because they want to make you conscious of them. The reasons for them to do so, can vary. Roughly those can be devised in two groups: Positive and Negative. With good intentions and with bad intentions. It kind of depends HOW they do so whether you will be able notice what group they fall into.But you can be mistaking, someone can mean well but just be verbally clumsy etc. etc. So best way to go about something like this is to just hear the words they say, and translate them in to neutral language. Just getting the message, so you can do with it whatever you want.That way you can ignore any bad criticism, just get the message, and evaluate whether the person has a point, in spite of his or her mall intent. When the person has a point, you can do something with it.
Do Virgos make people mad because of their critical nature?
If a Virgo actually got in to someones life and didn't like the person so they criticise them a lot does that make another person very mad, like passive aggressive kind of mad and how does the other person deal with that? I think it would upset me if someone was always telling me that I do things incorrectly. Virgos please explain and as well as those who know this "type" of person.
Is religion an illusion created for poor people so they can have hope?
One could say the same for advertising. Or sports. Or just about anything. Picking up religion, and examining every misuse of it is not the right way to look at religion. If a butterfly falls in your cup of coffee and make it undrinkable, would we conclude that butterflies were created to spoil coffee? Butterflies do much more than die in cups of coffee, and coffee is rendered undrinkable for a hundred other reasons. The point is, nitpicking on religion is not logical. I am not poor. Religion gives me hope too. That should kill this line of argument. Religion isn't something that people invented in the past 1500 years to kill each other. Religion is a way to understand life - the totality of life. There are many "problems" with applied religion, the biggest one is that people are selective in following religion, and then blame it all on faith. A writer once said that cultures are not based on customs. Cultures are different based on how people answer the question about life AND after life. In other words, how people answer the questions: WHO AM I? WHERE DID I COME FROM? WHAT AM I DOING HERE? WHERE WILL I GO WHEN I DIE? WHAT WILL HAPPEN THERE? To me, that is also the definition of religion: a set of answers to the above questions. To apply such a big thing on individual examples is misunderstanding religion. Secondly, if people behave in this world as if there's no tomorrow, and someone else suffers from their acts - why blame it on any faith? Religion, esp Abrahamic faiths, are much much more than getting fascinated with nature. In Abrahamic tradition, that is just the beginning. Prophet Abraham started with observing nature, and was disappointed that the stars, moon, and the Sun all "vanished." So he said, "If this thing sets, it cannot be my God!" God and religion are larger than people trying to use them as some kinds of solutions to everyday problems. Without changing the fundamental mindset - without answering these five questions above - one cannot understand and practice religion. And cannot blame the human faults on God.