Is there anyone in your life that you can never hate no matter what they do?
Hatred is a sin and it can engulf you and makes you sickForgiveness is the answer for everything.See everyones point of view love your neighbour as yourself.
What am i good for i hate my life?
Everyone is good or great a something. You just haven't lived long enough yet to discover what that is. It could take another 10 or 15 years before you know. You are still growing and changing. Give yourself a chance and don't be impatient. You'll probably amaze even yourself one day.
If people hate me no matter what I do, is there really any point in being good?
People don't hate you. You're perception is off kilter. Hate is a very strong word and feeling. Hate is defined as; Intense hostility and aversion, extreme dislike or disgust. Do you really think people feel way about you?I'm absolutely, positive they don't! If you really believe people hate you, I'd seek out some professional help in Mental Health Services. A therapist can help you sort things out.In my experience, it appears to me you ma0y have some, “Self Issues.” Low self esteem, lack of self worth, self criticism. There also could be several reasons you think that. Anxiety, depression and bipolar. Go get some assistance in the field I mentioned above.I wouldn't know, “what the point in being good” is. I don't know what your definition of, “being good” is. In my opinion, being the opposite of good (Bad) would only make things harder for you. Me, I wouldn't want that. I want life in general and how things go, to be the easier.
Why are some people hated for no reason?
I remember talking to my cousin about this. We were talking about making good first impressions and how to “allow” others to grow to like us.The reality is that many people ,if not most have very large insecurities. Mout humans on earth act a specific way because of a specific reason. We are taught habits by those around us and very commonly..act accordingly.People that you've encountered in the world , and during your life on earth, will seem to at times hate you for no reason. I'm sure we can all think really deeply of instances in which we havery either mistreated someone without really stopping to think “why” ..People have issues. They've had experiences. They've had bad and good experiences in life and these experiences (good or bad) , along with the perception or point of view they've had at that time, will deeply impact their ffuture reactions to stimuli.Let me give you an example.Let's say there is a woman who is a janitor at night at an office building . She works hard every night to being home the bacon.In her past..she's had a trauma in her life by a specific man. Let's say it was her boyfriend of her childhood. He ended up dumping her and leaving her abandoned with 2 children. This is an example of an extremely traumatic event which shapes her future.Let's say this man /ex boyfriend had red hair and brown eyes.She's most likely going to react very emotionally to men with brown eyes and red hair because in her mind,she associates these features with her trauma.Do you see? Some people will always hate us because they may have had a difficulty in their past and tend to feel immense pain when those memories are brought back to the surface. Sometimes it's so simple as how you look…or the manner of being. They can trigger emotions deep down eventually effecting how we treat others.I hope that helps!
Why do people hate goody goody Christian fellars?
What is important is that you stay true to yourself and most of all to God, regardless of what others might think. Many times it isn't so much they look down on you as they wish they could be more like you but won't admit it. And there are some out there who try to force-feed their beliefs on others and that definitely turns people off, no matter who you are or what you believe. I worked with a woman like that. She was a different belief than me and was forever trying to tell me how wrong I was in what I believed. I finally had to tell her to stop it, that people were tired of her holier-than-thou attitude and explained to her that living the life so others would want to know "why" she was so happy would draw more people in. She finally backed off a little but there were still times she could be difficult once she got her mind set on something. So don't be like that, just be kind and friendly so others see how happy you are. If they want you to do something you believe is sinful, just politely decline with no explanation unless they ask for one ~ and if they do, be polite again and just let them know you don't believe in doing that, whatever it is. As time goes on and you continue to be respectful to others and that they believe differently from you, some will come to you and let you know they watched you, at times would try to break you down but how they admired you for sticking to your beliefs (I've had that happen several times). Usually, that takes maturing on their part. Be proud of who you are and what you believe but don't be arrogant about it either :)
Your thoughts on people who say: "Gamers have no life"?
So, what are your thoughts on people who say gamers have no life? Or people who play games are wasting their time? I am 19 and currently in college and lately I have a lot of teachers who hate video games and think that they are a waste of time. But I disagree. I probably play 3 hours a day between the hours of 8 to 11 and I find this to be far more productive than watching tv (which is what most people do in their off time). I have friends, and I have chores and daily activities that I do and I do talk to people. I would say my social skills are also good. But I often hear that there are gamers who play 10 hours a day and still can do all of the things in life that they can and have a degree in something or that they are having a social life. But what is with this deal of the stereotypical gamer that just sits at home and plays WOW all day? I seriously hate it when someone comes up to me and says: "You need to get a life", "stop wasting your time". Because people who say that are usually the ones who watch tv or movies anyways. What do you think?
Do you love everyone no matter what?
I may love everyone even without no great reason. As it may also be possible to hate someone with just only one painful reason. Loving everyone no matter what is godly, then loving someone no matter what is blindly. As when one may learn to love everyone no matter what. and you know that real love can't be shallow. It is not vain. Then to learn how to carry on the burden of pain. While on otherhand to rejoice the glory of love, And to think sane.
Everybody in my life always hated me. I don't know why and I try to be humble with them, but they are always hating me. What should I do?
Are you sure EVERYBODY hate you?People tell you or you just assuming it?If you just assuming it then you are wrong. We human cannot read other people minds don’t just assume others feeling toward us. A simple thing you need to do ASK.Talk to them. Ask them either they hate you or not. If you do not have the courage then start with the people around you(your family) and move on to the closest friends. You do not need to ask everybody just the one that the most important to you. The one that you really cares.There are 3 situations you will involve as you act to ask them.All of this situation can make you solve this problem and move on in your life.If they have no problem and they said that you are ok and we love you then you just maintain who you are and improve more to be a better human.They will say that they are ok with you but sometimes you make something that makes them irritate. That’s normal. Everyone bound to make mistakes. If you want the one that you cares love you more then be prepared to change yourself. Changing does not need to be drastic. Take your time and be believe you can make it. You will make it.They say they hate you very much. You need to prepare your mental for this situation. If you are not strong enough, you will lose to your emotion. Control your emotion at that time. You do not lose yet although the person that you really cares tell you that they hate you. Just take a breath and start asking how can you make them be more comfortable around you. If they are a good person, they will tell you. When you get the feedback, again from the second point, change yourself.I am sure not everybody hates you. You also cannot be the person that everyone like also. There will always be haters. Haters means disagree with you. People have their own opinion so they will not likely to agree with you.I hope this can help you. I think the problem you got is overthinking about your relationship. This makes your mind to conclude everyone hates you.Thank you for reading and have a nice life.