People think I'm their best friend and....?
Well, basically, I've found myself in this situation quite a lot. One where someone thinks I'm their "best friend" or really good friend where I just view them as a casual acquaintaince. I mean, I don't understand it and it usually ends up getting kind of awkward (for me at least). I try to be nice to everyone and if someone asks me for help (with pretty much anything, but usually school work) I gladly give it. I'll talk to them if they are talking to me. But I don't feel like I go out of the way to really build a friend-type relationship and next thing I know I'm being called their friend or best friend or being asked by them if I think we're really good friends or something. They'll start telling me all this personal stuff while I only really talk to them about school stuff and I kind of just try to give them advice on whatever it is, but it gets kind of uncomfortable. And I'm just stuck in this awkward position where its like "Wait what? I never really considered us that great friends" but I don't want to say it because I don't want to hurt their feelings. So what should I say to them? And what can I do so people stop thinking we're such close friends? And what am I doing to make them think this?
Why do people think that a girl and a boy can't be just friends?
A girl and a guy can be friends only in the given situations:Either one of them is in a relationshipBoth of them are in a relationshipThe girl is uglyThe guy is someone who doesn't takes chances with girls and is not an alpha male.Now having said this there can be exceptions which are rare so please stop coming up with hypocrite retorts that no this isnt true , a boy and a girl can be friends even if there are no such above conditions because the fact is it rarely happens and I will tell you why?Men always fall for physical beauty so in general ugly girls end up being single while an attractive girl has 5 men as options simultaneously thats the harsh realitySimilarly women after they cross 18 they fall after men who are alpha males who take their chances , are upfront with their feelings , have a no-nonsense attitude and are financially successful, physical attraction is not such a big factor for women because I have seen handsome men being friendzoned around me and ugly men getting laid with beautiful women.Now if someone doesnt agree, I have only 1 thing to say you are the rare exception and I respect that but yes in general the world around us is like that thats y Fairness creams sell in India and men are crazy about six packs
Why do my friends think I'm perfect?
I'm 14 and my friends always tell me I'm "perfect" honestly I don't want to be perfect. They say I am always good at everything, getting good grades, singing, art, sports, and a lot of other things. Im also really sad that they think my life is perfect because it really isn't. They are always saying how pretty I am and I hate it! Compliments just make me want to throw up. I always tell them I'm not that smart and I'm just lucky to be doing well in my life. I tell them that I am bad at things but they just say something I'm good at again. I don't want people to think I'm perfect because I know no one is. How can I tell them to stop saying I'm "perfect"
What should I do if all of my friends think I am a loser?
Then you know that they are not your friends because that is NOT the way you treat your friends. You are not a loser just because a group of people think you are and it does not mean that you should feel bad about yourself. Perhaps, you just haven't found anyone who you get along with yet, which is nothing to feel bad about. Surround yourself with new people with similar interests as you, and then believe that you are good enough just as you are :)
Why do people think differently?
I think it refers to that saying 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. All people will see things' differently. It could be from what we are influenced by when we were younger. For a man, if he grows up thinking that his mom is beautiful, he'll look for those same qualities in the woman he will eventually marry. Vice-versa for women. Even these days, some of the guys at my work think that Uma Thurman is gorgeous, but not me. I think Tyra Banks is a babe, but they don't. So who's right? We all are. We see each woman differently, through different eyes, so to speak. I hope this helps.
Why do my friends think I'm gay, even though I'm not? And how do I stop people thinking that I'm gay?
Your friends probably think you're gay either because you may act a little effeminately and are probably stereotyping you, or they're teasing you, or your behavior or actions that you are not aware of suggest to your friends (or your friends interpret as) you are gay. Hell, some people call or view some guys as gay because they have pretty, sometimes feminine, faces.But anyway, I really wouldn't suggest you going out of your way into proving your sexuality to people, even to your friends, because it can be seen as you being defensive or in denial which will not help your case. If you're going to get a girlfriend, then make sure it's not out of the purpose of proving your straightness to your friends because that's just rude to your girlfriend and very juvenile overall. But hopefully, this situation of yours don't create some homophobic feelings in you. Don't let your “friends” get to you so much and have you question your own sexuality, especially when you know it yourself. Don't let them stress you out too much.
Soo people think my best friend and myself are lesbians.?
i posted this in the LTGB section, but didnt get more than 2 responses and i did not really wanta post it in here, but looks like i have no choice so here it goes...please be kind haha :) my bff n me are super close and love each other alot. recentley, when we have sleepovers we have been falling asleep holding hands and cuddling and just being really close in general(is that normal for bffs?)...we have even started getting really jealous of each others relationships with other people to. i know we are not gay or bi, we are straight for sure. but i feel like we are on the edge of falling into actions that couples do aka kissing.i know we both want to try it..is that bad?...should i talk to her about this?...its really been on my mind. i also need help with this to-people think we are lesbians, because we act like we love each other and not like the fake girly touchy stuff. how can we stop?. the rumors are getting unbearable. we are in high school. thanks..