Are there any real, genuine dating sites?
I have been on numerous dating sites, some well known, others not so much! for the most part, every dating website is a “real” dating site. However, most profiles are fake, or are there just to draw attention to the site. If you end up paying for a membership, and the site features a time stamp of when the person last logged into their profile, and its more than 1 month, it's a good bet that the profile is either fake, or the person forgot their profile.The same can be said if you can tell if they read their messages you sent them.Profile pictures…a good profile will have a combination of 1–3 professional, high quality, photos and the rest are photos of them doing activities, (selfies). All professional looking photos with model shots in the same background is a good indication that the profile is fake!Profile text…if the text is constantly wanting to take the communication offline, or the profile is very vague about who they're looking for, it's fake! A real person will have standards, and will communicate indirectly through their profile, everything from Height and weight limits, preferred body type, etc.Now, whether the person responds…that's dependent on them.
Is it true that the realest people don't have a lot of friends?
A2A. Mr Ejigu! What a very real question you have here. Yes, it is 100% true.The "realest" people aren't anti social crazies who remain locked away in a tower of their own accord. These are the people who have been players of the game of life for so long, their experiences have taught them to be wiser.Due to acquiring the knowledge of self preservation, they don't cleave to anyone who crosses their paths.They've learned the art of wisdom: Its not the quantity of friends in your circle that matters, its the quality. You could have only two people you rely on, including yourself. You'd still be winning in life better than the people who feel they have to have dozens of fake friends to feel relevant.Mekael, I'd rather have two $100 bills than two pennies? You feel me? People who reach out to any and everyone are trying to fill a void. Ever notice how some men go to prostitutes with no care of what disease she may be carrying?Show me the man who willfully throws his life away and I'll show you one reckless, broken motherfucker. That man has no place being in your circle. He has no self control. Not only that, he will take you down with him. Its the same with women.I judge no one. However, I am careful about the type of people I associate with. When the Lord came to us, He humbled himself. He hung with tax collectors, prostitutes, people who had deadly illness, etc. He healed them all. Yet, He could only do that due to their acceptance that He was Lord.I'm no preacher. I never pretend to be. I never will be.Yes, I follow my Lord and Savior and tell of my experiences in my voice. People must relate to you in order to get the messages you send. I don't want to talk to holier than thou people who pretend they've never struggled or have never been wrong and still aren't perfect.No. Let me hear from Saul who changed into Paul.Now, will you find many who will be grateful for the positive things you bring into their lives these days? No. Not really. That's when you know you have to walk away. Negative, broken people see what you have then piss on your and tell you its raining.That is reality.That is why the realest people don't have a lot of true friends. You dig?Proverbs 3:13-1413 Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, 14 for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold.
American Idol season 7, atlanta, Asia'h Epperson -father died?
This is a heart wrenching story! i didn't see the show when it aired but got a ton of emails shortly after with the link. Yes, the story is true. Her father did pass in an accident. We are from the same small town and have mutual friends. I understand that it's frustrating when time after time we hear the same ol' crap...but this girl is genuine!
Why have people become so fake these days?
Many(not all) people these days are busy in self-gratification and social approval( like social media) to fulfil their cravings and desires to be popular, to have attention and even to attract the opposite sex. They chose to forget their family and old trustworthy friends over new stylish and popular ones, who seem to be more flauntable. I have seen people around me busy taking too much selfies and pics,uploading them and constantly craving for like 100 likes,200,300 and so on. The subtle beauty of life seems to have been forgotten in this race of popularity. Everyone is trying to be what people called ‘cool’ and are forgetting their own uniqueness in this process.Smartphone have locked people up be it in schools, colleges or leisure time. Sometimes two persons sitting immediately next to each other prefer chatting on WhatsApp than talking. What has happened to us man? Who are we trying to satisfy? Why live this ‘hollow’ life to please other where someday you are filled with remorse yourself and no one in their to console you? Why not live happy moments instead of wasting them to get a perfect capture?While I can’t completely explain what’s going on in minds of people these days, these events make me really sad, very sad. I feel bad about losing out some good friends in this process, all because of not participating in this ‘flaunting’ scene. Why can’t we be ourselves? Life is too short trying to become someone else, and nothing…..yes nothing can satisfy the infinite expectations of people. So why care?I am a bit sorry for being emotional on this one,but this is something that bothers me everyday.