What kind of people will not succeed in life?
Those who think a lot.Those who plan a lot.Those who live in past.Those who avoid present and build castle in air.Those who think they have time.Those who think NO WORRY NEXT TIME.Those who don't dare to dream big.Those who don't dare to explain.Those who don't clear their doubt.Those who TALK the TALK but don't WALK the TALK.Those who think stay nice all the time.Those who stuck on to something and don't know to move on.You are living to the same place from years.Continuing your job even you don't want to work there for a second.Staying in a relationship which causing more pain than pleasure.Working things to impress others.Thinking about a person day and night instead focusing on carrier.Checking phone every five minutes to see whether she or he is online or what.Checking out each and every girls on street.Day dreaming but doing nothing.Staying in bed even after you wake up.Loving someone and expecting the same in return. And if things are not going as per your expectation then blaming whole world.You think if you can do this after 50s then you ask from from your future wife, you can do or not and then you will realize how pathetic you will become in coming years.You have no purpose.You are constantly blaming other people and circumstances for your condition.Getting offended by everyone's opinion about you.Getting into argument even if it is no where related to your life.Talking about masterbation and discussing whether it's good or bad.Doing things to garner sympathy and attention.Your very ownSachinJai Hind
Whenever my friends succeed me , I get jealous and frustrated. What should I do?
First there is no question of being jealous of others success actually success is relative term which you decide ,no one can judge others success. Apart from this set your own goals and work your ass off to aquire that goals.Stop comparing yourself with others then only you can be happy about what you do and be clear about what you want to acquire.
Why do bullies like to HURT people ...?
Most of them actually don't feel good after doing it. Bullies have a very low self-esteem and a very high amount of anger or fear either at themselves or at a situation in their lives. Instead of handling their anger rationally, though, they project it onto another person to have two things: control and justification/reassurance. Take slut shaming for example. A lot of girls are insecure about their own sexuality and choose to accuse and mock other girls for being promiscuous or indecent, whether this is actually true or not. If they succeed in upsetting the victim, they've successfully purged their insecurities and forced them onto another person. Doing so also gives them a sense of reassurance about their own sexuality and creates a sort of false justification: when we punish someone for being bad, we feel better about our own sense of morality because we believe we have done right. The same thing goes for bullies. Even if they know what they are doing is wrong, they feel better about their own insecurity because they have made someone else look like a "bad example." However, after abusing the victim, most bullies begin to feel a sense of guilt or doubt, and in order to reassure themselves that they've done the right thing, they continue the cycle by taking it out on more victims. None of this makes bullying acceptable. It's basically emotional rape. But bullies generally aren't the cold-hearted, cruel individuals we seem to think they are. Deep down, they're usually very insecure and sometimes self-loathing to a crippling extent.
Why do many people hate successful people?
I grew up very poor and didnt have much. I would get picked on daily in school(by what we now know are losers for life). I used that as motivation. I am now successful and those same type that would pick on me call me a "douche" because I drive a Porsche. What people like that dont see is the hard work, sacrifice and dedication it takes to be a success an create your own company. They just think one day you woke up and success was at your bedside. People like that are envious and resentful. I noticed that I never changed the people around me changed. They started making sly remarks like "Not everyone can __(fill in the blank)" ...or "not everyone can afford__(fill in the blank). this was an attempt to isolate or turn others on me I guess. My response was "noteveryone can work as hard as me" People around you just start getting jealous when they see you go from extremely poor to surpassing them. This change in people prompted me to react accordingly. I started putting them in their place and talking down to them. I let them know their place in the pecking order of life(below me).....before you think I am a a hole, understand that when they would pick on me (for no reason) they had no issue with telling me my place in pecking order (below them). But now that the tables are turned they cant take it, but they had no problem dishing it. I am a nice guy by nature and people tend to try and make example of me because my easygoing nature. I then have to let them know that I am above them in the pecking order. So you do notice how jealousy starts to infect people around you even if you dont go flaunting stuff you have. I only drove Porsche because I wanted to treat myself because I used to be very poor.Other people that dont have success try to make you feel guilty about being better. No shame in trying harder than others and succeeding. -Good luck people!
Why do I have more enemies than friends?
You know,if no ones hates you then you're doing something very wrong. If people work to bring you down that means you've something great in you that they're jealous of. Everyone like you unless you become competition. Once you've a settled life ans goodways,people try to hurt you, lower your morals and work their ass off to bring you down. It's just human behavior. They can't see people getting high. The only reason people around you yell that you're a jerk is this only. They think that troubling you like this will lower your morals, will kill your spirit. And at last you'll give up. That's how cunningly humans being cut down the growing wings. They tell them it would weigh them down,and make them heavy. So with their mind games they cut down the wings, growing future and life lf others.The only way out is to stay positive. To never underestimate yourself. Never let people harm you anyway. Just when they call you a jerk or so,say thank you. I also think the same. I am trying to improve myself, and trying to become someone like you. Give them a good laugh. Rather than getting angry or upset. Just trun the deal in your favour smartly. Moreover the real people don't have much of friends and that's oaky. It's better to have one loyal fellow than fifty jealous peep. Stay your focus high, and keep your goals much high than that. Because even if you fail, you fail above their success. Don't worry about anything. All these people are temporary. Just let go of them. Don't let it destroy yiu or change you. Be who you're, and work for your betterment. Stay strong,stay positive. God bless. :)Good luck. :)
Why do I want my friends to fail?
Because you haven’t yet learned that for you to succeed, your friends don’t have to fail. You are likely jealous of their success. I know that when I started my first company in 1993, I was exactly the same way. It is human nature to be that way. When I was making $300,000 and my buddy was making $900,000 I used to wish he would fail and come back down to my level. Then I read somewhere that rather than me wishing he would fail, what I needed to do was model his success. So, I started talking to my friend and I was able to go from $300,000 to $600,000 in that first year. I still didn’t catch up to where my friend was, but I was getting closer. By the following year, I was at $1.2M and my friend was at $1.1M and he started learning from my success. We all do better when we all help each other. That is largely why I am on Quora. If I knew back when I was 28 what I know now, I would never have wasted so much time on stupid stuff that doesn’t matter.Those things that waste time in your life are called the 7 deadly sins:Pride. Envy. Wrath, Gluttony and Lust. Sloth and GreedPride - Remain humble. Never be too proud to say “I am sorry” or “I was wrong”. It is OK to be proud of your work but never let your pride get in the way of success.Envy - Don’t be envious of what others have, learn how they did it and succeed. Chances are they didn’t start our rich so learn from others.Wrath - Don’t get angry at people, they are usually doing the best they can. All of us function at different levels and we all have something to offer. Keep calm.Gluttony - Don’t over consume anything: alcohol, food, cars, watches, whatever. Overindulging in activities or buying lots of stuff you don’t need wastes money.Lust - Don’t be overly focused on meaningless sexual relationships. Focus on building meaningful relationships that last a lifetime.Sloth - Don’t be lazy, get up every day ready to make it happen. Use your “free” time wisely by investing if your future success.Greed - Don’t overly focus on the money, “do the right things, with the right people and for the right reasons and the money will take care of itself”.
Why don't people like to see other people happy?
You are right, our society is sick, and it is systemic. We are brought up on all kinds of crazy ideas about "success." Competition is built into all aspects of our social life, including education and work. For me to succeed, someone else must fail; and we are taught to think that this is normal. Actually, success of this sort is an illusion, and people identify themselves with it at their own peril. "Success" comes and goes, and does not define a person. Our consumptive society brainwashes people to value things that are ultimately of no importance whatsoever, and people identify themselves with these illusions. I would not call them 'haters', they are just blind to what is real, and what truly matters.
What succeeds more often, overdose of sleeping pills or hanging myself?
She won't. She will either be angry or not care or think you are stupid. Besides, if you really care for her, you won't. If you do it, the chance that of someone else will do it also is high. And it will be your fault. And then there is the chance that you might just cripple yourself. And if you do die, how do you know that what comes next is not worse? Your feeling are a symptom of an illness, Depression. Treatable. See a doctor. If you gave a stuffy nose, cutting it off is not the answer.