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Why Do Some Women Treat You Like You

Why do women treat men as disposable?

You make it sound like men don't do the same to women. Both genders do, it just depends on what type of person your with.

Why do men treat me like crap after sex?

I don't understand it. If i sleep with a guy then i'm garbage to him. If i don't sleep with a guy he treats me like a human being.

Why is it that men treat women they sleep with like garbage and other women that they don't with respect?

This makes no sense to me? Is it that men see women as worthless or whores after sex? Do men hate women?

Why are some women treated so worthless after sex? Im not talking about a player who just wanted to bang and that's why.. I'm talking about in general..

I'd say the last 2 bf's i've had have treated my friends and other people better than me.

I don't understand because I was such a good girlfriend and loved them. The coincidence is too shocking to remain silent... Why did these guys treat me the same? And like crap?

Why do women treat men like ****?

I m 44 years old, I ve been married to the same women for 28 years come May 28th. Even though I have all this experience with women, I still can t figure out why the nicer you treat a women, the crappier she ends up treating you???

I would love to hear from BOTH sides on this subject!!

Thank you everyone!

Why some men like to treat women like they are dumb?

There are many fascinating studies on gender differences- here’s one Difference theory - Wikipedia .In this theory, even at a very young age, children can be observed behaving differently.Boys, when they talk to each other, generally try to one-up each other- they subtly vie for standing. They have an unwritten hierarchy of who is dominant and where each person “ranks” when interacting with each other.If one boy says, “My mom makes chocolate chip cookies” another one will say, “Oh, yeah? My mom does too but she uses the really big chocolate chips,” and another one will say, “My mom puts entire chocolate bars in her cookies!”The “best” boy is the one that the other boys can’t beat.They have a natural tendency to compete.Girls on the other hand, try to find the ways they are alike. If one person says “My mom makes chocolate chip cookies” the others will say, “So does my mom!” or “I love chocolate chip cookies!”The “best” girl is the one that all the other girls like.They have a natural tendency to cooperate.So, with this in mind, many men are always subtly trying to dominate everyone around them, to be the top dog. It’s not malicious, it’s instinct. For some of the less nice ones, that includes implying that the people around them are stupid and undermining them.For some men, women are naturally inferior. Some men, not all. Treating them as stupid is a defense mechanism that automatically puts them in the “lesser” position.

Why do some guys treat women like pieces of meat?

Ditto women treating some guys like slabs, hunks, chunks, beefsteak.So if it is at least partially gender-neutral what is the point of your question?To be honest, I tend to treat meat quite gently, with fondness and expectation, I take great care of it before during and after the cooking - you ALWAYs have to let your meat rest for 5 minutes before you go to the next stage, the eating of it.But more seriously it is easier to dehumanize someone if we are predator personality (male OR female - all those pick-up bars have as many of either sex usually). We think of them as meat, as game, as something to devour and walk away with just a burp and a wipe on the trousers.Is it hard to figure out. Sex can be about pain, about self-gratification, about stalking and downing our prey, helpless as we approach to do our business.But who do you know like that? Are today’s men/women so afraid of their own sexuality to be always living in angst about these predators of either gender?Grow up, get a life. Meat eaters gather at certain locations known to all concerned. In Tokyo, easy enough to spot in Roppongi.Go elsewhere, meet nicer people, share interests like hiking, museums, concerts, marathons or triathlons. Sweaty bodies can be stirring in their own way, though many running sites now offer showers and/or public onsen. Still you can meet the other sex over beers later.My goodness. Get a life.Peter Fuchs © 2018

Why do some men treat you mean when they like you?

There’s no single answer to this. Sometimes it’s a psychopath wanting to see what your limits are. Sometimes it’s a teasing sort of flirting from someone who just can’t figure out that his actions are not seen as fun by the person he’s interested in. Sometimes a person is just insecure with the idea of falling in love because of the loss of control and humility that requires.But yeah, it’s annoying. I wish you had better options.

I am a man and treat women as equals. But some women don't seem to like that. Why might that be?

This is difficult to answer without knowing HOW you are "treating women as equals". You are probably getting those reactions when treating women as equals is to your own advantage, especially if it isn't clear whether you're also treating women as equals when it's to your disadvantage - I've often seen men do one but not the other and I'm not grateful for that.Some examples I've seen of such slanted equality: Expecting your wife to have a full-time job but not doing your share of the housework.Not holding open doors for women but also not being as polite to them as you would to a man.Telling women to do their own damn heavy lifting rather than lending a hand when asked. That's not equality, that's being mean.Generally refusing to help when asked, on pretext of equality.

How come women treat nice guys like dirt?

There are always some people who do some things. The best way to understand why a particular person makes certain choices in a situation might be to ask them or people who know them well. “Women” as a group consisting of billions of individuals of many different ages in many different cultures around the world do not behave as if they share a hive mind. We are not the Borg.You may have had an unpleasant experience with one or more women from your perspective, but you are giving no information except that you label yourself as “nice." It could mean, “I did not rape her and instead only pawed her against her will on our only date.” It could mean, “I took her to a meal several times and expected sex but did not get access to another person's body for the price of a few meals.” We don't know you or the other person(s) or what occurred. We don't know what you mean by being treated “like dirt.”If you have negative outcomes persistently, the common factor in the situations would be you. Maybe you need to work on your social skills. Maybe you choose to pursue women who have no interest in dating or having any relationship with you. Maybe you are not as “nice" as you think. Maybe you need to have more to offer another person than “nice.”Being “nice” if that means merely observing existing social norms for basic civility in interactions is pretty much the rock bottom minimum one would hope that teens and adults had mastered in order to go in public. Developing some interests that might spark conversation, engaging in worthwhile activities like volunteering to help other people, animals or the planet is a place one could start to become something more than “the bare minimum” as a breathing human sat across from a woman and expecting something as a reward for existing. In addition, work on learning to read social cues if that is a problem so that you don't pester women who do not want your attentions. There could be “nice" women who would be excited to date you, but you treat them “like dirt" while chasing after a woman who is unattainable.Maybe you should seek professional advice in a face-to-face setting like a psychologists office if you have a persistent problem with social interactions that is making you unhappy because no stranger online with no details about you can be your therapist or doctor.I'm not a doctor in real life, and I do not play one on TV.

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