Why don't people care about me even though I care about them?
There could be many reasons why you are experiencing this but since I don’t know a lot of details, I’m just going to give you the very basic reasons.You are around people who aren’t worth your time. Your circle of friends don’t give you the attention you deserve and if this is the case, I suggest you look for friends elsewhere. Look for people who will make you a better version of yourself. Don’t change to fit the mold. Find people who will love you for who you are. (Unless of course you have bad hygiene, habits, or fashion sense, but that’s another story)Because you are so nice, you come off as a pushover and people take advantage of your good will, and just put you in their back pockets whenever they need you.Going off on point #2, if you come off as a pushover, you probably don’t seem very interesting so people don’t have a reason to want to be around you. In this case I would suggest to invest in a hobby, talent, career, education etc. and make something out of yourself. It’s not enough to just “be nice”, you have to demonstrate competence. In essence you have to forge an identity of your own, because right now you’re just the “nice guy/girl”. How many people like you are out there? A LOT! So do something that makes you stand out in a crowd.
Why do people still like me even though sometimes I used to be SO awkward/weird?
Last year I was pretty awkward sometimes, make conversations weird, too detached, hardly talked to some people. And people would stare at me weirdly, stop talking to me for a bit, etc.. But then later on the same people who I acted awkward with, later on will be screaming my name in the halls, running up to hug me, inviting me to places with them, telling me I look "really pretty" etc... I don't understand people..
Why is it that people I barely know dislike me?
Either you're only noticing the people who react with dislike and missing the ones who don't. (It's called Confirmation Bias.) Or you're certain people will react poorly to you so you project an attitude that's off-putting. Your belief people will dislike you then becomes self-fulfilling. Some people become so certain that relationships won't turn out that they self-sabotage. That is, they act in ways that cause the relationship to fail quickly in order to avoid the pain of dashed hopes.First, don't expect people to be interested in you. They don't know you. At 17 everyone is thinking about themselves and how to avoid coming across as awkward. It's just that most have learned how to put on a front to disguise what they feel inside.Second, you need to like yourself. You need to feel you have worth outside of the worth you have for others. Browse through the Self-Esteem topic.Third, you need to be interested in others. Not a false interest as a ploy to get them to like you. You need to be interested in them whether they like you or not. Separate liking others and being liked. They are two different things.Read through the Social Advice topic here. You won't be able to find a solution until you know what the problem is. The problem isn't other people. But until you can be more objective about how you're presenting yourself it will be hard to make changes.
Can you be mesmerized by someone you hardly know?
Yeah. The whole time slows down, heart nearly stops, can't think of something to stay, and heavy breathing thing. It happend to me and still continues to happen when i see this girl i barely know.
Why do some people say they have seen me somewhere even though I have never seen them before?
When you pick up your luggage at one of those moving carousels in the airport, there is often a sign that says . . .CHECK ALL LUGGAGE TAGSMANY BAGS LOOK ALIKEThe same is true of human beings. People who think they have met you have probably met someone who looks like you, but they did not check their tags.Then again, our memories are fallible too.I was in a supermarket one day with my mother-in-law. A woman walked up and greeted her by her maiden name, stated that they had gone to grade school together 60 years before, and told a story about one of their teachers. My mother-in-law smiled sweetly, said “so nice to run into you” and as soon as we were alone, turned to me and said “I’ve never seen that woman before in my life.”
Why do I often feel attached to certain people even if they don't know me well?
I know how you feel, getting attached to something or someone you barely know... Ya life tends to do that. Really it's in human nature to be conservative to a centain point and not want change, again to a certain point. Getting emotionally attached is the worst thing in the world. You feel as though you are responsible for this person and/or thing. And you feel that if they don't show up one day, your whole day will get ruined. But really that ain't the case neither of you will actually experience any negativtiy in your day, thats just your mind telling you to show affection to practically nothing.However, there is a way to avoid getting attached to them. Its actually easy too. You'll probably notice that A, your day will be fun and B you'll be so cheerful and carefree.After you follow the rules. Rule No.1-The more distractions you have that day will literally give you no reason to think about this person/thing. Rule No.2- And know the golden saying literally,"...nothing ever golden ever lasts... ponyboy ".(Don't remember the last part.) If you follow these two simple steps, most likely, you won't get attached.plz follow if answer helped and ask more questions plzz..:)
My Grandfather is dying and i hardly know him?
my grandfather is dying and i hardly know him. My grandma divorced him when my mom was a teen and he remarried and he doesnt even spend time w/ his blood daughter but he spent a lot of time w/ his step kids and grandkids , he is not a bad person its just he married someone very mean and she would never let us see him and now he is dying and i dont now him..... and i have never had a grandpa ever.. pray for me and my family plz and give me some advice plz god bless u all
Why do you hate me if you don't know me?
I don't hate you.Hate eats away at people…from the inside out.I pity those who hate…you know that these people are tragic don't you? People share hatred when they have nowt better in the hearts…amd not much good going on in their brain!People’ who hate…cant loveAs Shakespeare wrote ”Venus never smiles upon a house of tears”If people you don't know….don't like you…that is because there is something wrong with them and not youI was hated at school: hated at home; hunted in my village and even when I went swimming as a teenager..people seemed to find it easiest to hate on me. No matter what I wore and no matter how I talked or whatever I said…I felt like must be marked.. like some target.It felt like everybody could see inside of me…seeing something that I couldn't perceive; seeing something that I could not see.I will not hate because of them…it was bad how people were to me…but that time passed and it helped me see and it helped me be strong.Do not let people cause you to hate…however you choose to deal with how you are feeling …remember that I was hated too.I would never change their hate…I chose not to feel it backYou are blessed… you are not full of hate, like “them”.Once their cloud of hatred passed over me…it seem s to of left me with some super power because in adulthood.. People seem so opposite in attitude towards me. People like me now… people seem kinder now