Does absence make the heart grow fonder?
yeah, it does. like the saying goes, you dont know what you have until its gone. when youre with someone, you may not notice their better qualities. most people look for the flaws in people, but i think when you suffer a break up with someone you start to remember their better qualities and the flaws can barely cross your mind. and i think if you get back together with that person after a seperation, then it makes you appericate them even more.
Have you ever REGRETED buying your pet PARROT?
Honestly, has it ever crossed your mind? Have you ever become extremely annoyed by your parrot and frustrated with its screaming so much that it makes you want to cry? How much has your life changed since you've bought your pet parrot? Has your pet parrot ever ruined any special plans you had for a weekend or for a summer vacation? I am considering buying a parrot I have been researching for more than 6 months and I know a lot about parrots. I just want to get some more opinions about real life owners. And also if you answer this question please tell me what kind of parrot you have because I want to know what the most popular parrots are today. My grandmother has 2 littl green birds I dont know the names but they are really tuny and they are really pretty but they chirp a lot. And also I just realized that I can typ as fast as I can talk. Ok sorry I was going off subject so can you answer my questions please?
Have YOU ever CROSSED PATHS in the future with an EX? Please Answer.xx?
Actually, there was a guy that I was very much in love with for a long time (a few years) but we never dated. We were friends, but became utterly infatuated with each other while we were friends. I later found out that he had also been in love with me, but there was always some weird circumstance, so we never managed to get together even though we both really wanted to. Then I didn't see him, hear from him, or speak to him for 6 years. We just lost touch, we were not angry at each other. After 6 years, we got back in touch. We had coffee, and started spending time together every once in a while. This was basically the first time that we had both been single at the same time. We still had a certain chemistry (we always had a VERY strong chemistry), but we didn't want to be together anymore. We both openly admit that we really regret that we didn't get together before, but we are different people now, and are no longer right for each other. However, one night we were watching a movie, and one thing led to another which led to another (you can guess how this story ends). In a strange way, this was a kind of closure for us. We had always wondered what it would feel like to be together- we had met when we were barely teenagers. So we had this one incredible night together, and it was everything we could have expected it to be. But like I said, we are different now, so after that night we just went back to being friends. We have both moved on in our lives, we just had that lingering spark that we had to get out of our systems before we could consider the matter closed. I am NOT a one night stand kind of person, but this was a very unique circumstance, and if I could go back and undo it, I wouldn't. I'm glad we did it, but I'm also glad it only happened once, because that was all we both needed.
Why do I need to study? People say motivation cannot come without a reason. Please someone give me a reason to why!
My Friend, as you said you are 21 and it’s common in this age. You said, unfortunately i am not doing well…what does it mean ? have you lost your interest in your selected area under B.Tech or now after getting into it, you’ve realized that it’s not for you ?Being from the engineering background myself, i assume that for you to clear the entrance of B.Tech (or any other Technical studies)…you must have shown up with good grades in your pre-studies !! if my assumption is right, than you are not too bad in studies, right ?Secondly, please make yourself clear that you’ve lost your interest in 1) A particular domain of studies or 2) the whole concept called ‘Education or Higher education’ ! If 1) is true, you can opt for an another interesting subject or domain post thorough evaluation. If 2) is your case, than I would suggest take a break for a week or two from the studies and academics. Go for a vacation, explore yourself, socialize with old friends and network with different peoples. Post resuming, two things are possible to happen. Either your interest in further studies (any domain) will rejuvenate or your mind would have given you indications on other interest(s) to pursue apart from studies.Select your’s !Further, there’s no specific or tailor-made reason/answer for you to tell the benefits of studying hard or so…It’s not the areas of your study or the level of hard work you put but the passion and dedication, of your’s into the domain of work that marks the difference !No great has been ever achieved by just doing hard, but an equal amount of dedication and passion is a must..as the below said.“Knowledge & Practice makes perfect. But, practice doesn’t make legends. Passion does “.Good Luck !
Why does life becomes complicated as we grow up?
I think you can better understand this by seeing your parents and yourself.Now See yourselfWhen you were a child, you had no worries. Just drink milk, sleep and poop.When you get a little older, you take admission to the school and become the part of the system we live in.And then starts the burden era, The Burden of studies and expectations of our parents.You have to study, study and just study. And with every class you move on, your studies get tougher.And then comes the board exams which, according to our parents, is the most important exam of our life.So we prepare for it, day and night, dreaming about the freedom we will get after the exams.And then after that, The Climax… The results arrive and you pass the examBut wait, this isn't the end of journey, you realize that it's just the beginning.Now comes the most frustrating question in front of usWHAT DO YOU WANT TO BECOME?Most obvious answer would be “I don't know”. But don't worry, our parents have already decided what we have to become. So you just have to obey.And then again, graduation. More study. More distractions. More changes in our body.Finally comes the part, A Job, a settled situation. You do the work, you get the money and you earn respect from the society.And then again, the most important decision of you and your wife's life and both the families, MarriageAnd with marriage, starts the responsibility era.Now you have the responsibility of you, your wife, your kids, your parents, and many more things. Your kids goes through the same journey as you have gone through.So, think about each stages of your life. With every level you cross, the stress increases, the life gets complicated.Your part ends here.Now see your parentsYou can see the smile in their faces. They have successfully completed all the levels of this game we call as “The Life”. Now they are at the last level, waiting for the game over signal.They are happy seeing you and your family. They are proud of raising you as a better person. They are finally free from this system of society. They have no worries now.But again, they have aged. They have diseases. They need to take medicines regularly. It's frustrating.So now do you understand why life doesn't get easier when we get older?You must have played Mario. With each level you cross, it's get difficult. Same goes with life.So after reading all this, what are you thinking?I bet you are thinking about the real Achhe din… when we used to just drink milk and sleep.;-)
How do you know that you're really "in love" and not just infatuated? What does true love feel like?
Infatuation is going nuts over the colourful butterfly. Love is sticking around the butterfly even if its wings get damaged.Infatuation is trying to touch the butterfly. Love is letting the butterfly flutter around you when he gets comfortable.Infatuation is running after the new, more vibrant butterfly in the garden. Love is looking at the same butterfly when there are prettier and stronger butterflies.Infatuation is about getting hold of the butterfly and chasing her with a net. Love is about deriving pleasure looking at the butterfly around flowers.In the beginning, both seem similar but as time passes by, love will not fade away like the former does.The problem is some infatuations last long and may feel like love. But, they are just the idea of love, not love.Infatuation will give you butterflies in tummy. Love too will give you butterflies in tummy but give you the strength to commit too.Infatuation may make you insecure looking at your partner growing. Love will instead help you grow as a better person, inspire you to grow better looking at the other person.Image source : My student’s painting.Thank you for reading.Thanks for A2A :).
Will it be a good move to abuse and yell over a girl who has friend zoned me?
My friend did this to me.I know him from 8 years.He was my classmate of 11th and 12th class. At that time he was dating my best friend.Then they both breakup after school. We both were still friends even after joining different colleges.During college he made two gfs.After completion of graduation.I am working in some other city and he is preparing for some government job.We didn’t even used to talk much. Twice in a year or so.He called me one day and asked if I would like to marry him?me : nohe : why?me : i don’t have feelings for you.he : Give me some time. You will start liking me.me : I already have a crush.he : what he is doing?me : working with me.he : how long it has been that you know him.me : 4 months and anyways he is just a crush.he : you girls are like this only. Right now I am not having job that’s why you are saying no to me.You know me from 8 years but you have a crush on a guy you barely know.Who the hell are you to reject me? You are so bad , you are so rude… (bla.. bla).(He was shouting and he said so many bad things about me).I cut the call.I never shouted.It has been 4 months.He has called me 3-4 times in between but I don’t receive his call.Message to him:This is my life. I never promised anything to you. I am not cheating anyone and I am having full rights to select a guy for myself. After seeing the behavior you showed that day , I am feeling so good about my decision of not saying yes to you.Message to you:Who the hell are you to shout on her?I will not say why you shouldn’t do this.But I really want to ask you that how these thoughts come to your mind?You might be having other friends also who are female.If anyone of them propose you today. What will you do?If yes : You are cheating her and yourself because you never loved her.If no: Do you really deserve abusive words from her?