How do you deal with people who talk bad about you?
You ignore them, simple. I am assuming here that whatever bad someone speaks about you doesn’t necessarily change you as a person. You continue to be who you are, and it would really make no sense to expect everyone around to speak highly of you. Even the greats of history had people talking bad about them, they still have quite a number of such “fans” around even. Moreover, there goes that famous line,“People who matter don’t mind, people who mind don’t matter.”Quite relevant, isn’t it?So, sit back, and let them talk bad about you. Do not go around punching them on their faces. That’s not gonna make you look very sane anyway. And I feel you might end up adding more names to that list of people who talk bad about you. I am pretty sure you won’t want to do that.If you do want to get back at those “fans” of yours though, then here’s a suggestion:Keep your chin up. Smile. And yes, DON’T go around talking bad about them as a return gift for their act of kindness. You would be no different then.Hope this answers your question. Cheers!
Why do we feel good when people talk about us?
We only feel good when people talks good things about us…but we surely will not feel good ,of someone talks bad about us . If people are talking about us..then we have done something (good or bad)which has attracted their attention towards us .so it's all about attention that we get on..when people starts talking about us. We all are humans…we all got feelings…so if someones talks about you..you naturally feel good…even animals likes attention..and we are no exceptions…on the other end we could just boast about our good deeds or achievements that people are talking about …giving us attention..making us famous..and thus giving us pleasure…as it's no easy to get the attention of people these days.
Should we talk to people who assume bad things about us?
Yes you should.If you were to not talk to people who might assume the worst, they will assume badly of you.If you were to not speak to that person then that thought will forever be how they think of you.Which is how most rumors start, because we are humans we always assume the worst, which is why its always best to talk it out and be mature.If you leave then alone then chances are, they will never truly know who you are and what kind of person you are.However, if you truly do not care what someones first thoughts and opinions are of you then there is nothing holding you back.
How do we should deal with people who talk bad about us infront of others annoyingly?
First of all, these type of people suck. And the second thing, everyone does this(even worse). Don't take me wrong, the thing is even you would have, at some point of time , said bad about about someone else. It's simple human behavior. But the real thing is, how you deal with it. First, if they thing is small. Ignore it. Trust me, having fights/grudge over small things may do more harm than good. Second, try to identify what you're doing wrong that people are saying bas things about you. Try to rectify the mistake or avoid doing that thing in future. And if they are doing it the best and the worst thing to do are as follows :-Worst- Do same what they are doing to you. Talk I'll about them to take revenge.Best- Confront them. Discuss with them and try to solve it among yourselves.
How do you feel when people talk about you behind your back?
Nothing!!!Tell me one person's name,Who has not been judged/ hated by people.People not talked about him/ her from behind?Take anyone from the list of your favourite cricket player, singer, director, siblings, parents, scientists, doctors, motivational speakers, IAS/ IPS officers, Prime minister, Chief minister, Quora writers, spiritual guru's and even you favourite god.Did you find any person, who has not been judged by people or who has not been hated by people?I bet you!You will never get any name who has been not judged/hated by people.Do you know?The so called people didn't even leave Swami Vivekananda to Narendra Modi. People judged/ hated the great personalities, they spoke behind their back.When, the so called people didn't even leave the gigantic public figures from hating/ judging. Do you think people leave me or you from hating/ judging?I'm an after all Quora writer followed by 19,000+ people in the virtual world. They didn't even leave me in the virtual world, they judged and spread the sense of hatred about me for being honest in my answers, for telling how my love life messed up and for writing what I'm.If they couldn't digest me in this virtual world, imagine about the real haters in the real world."You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks." ~Winston Churchill.0:00-0:29(Your little appreciation and honest feedback make me write even more. A person who feels appreciated will always do more than expected.)Thanks for reading, Yours,Rakshith Akira ✍
I notice most people talk bad about Scorpio and why cuz ?
Well, I'll tell you why I would talk bad about a Scorpio..... The men, in my opinion, are just too "ok, listen.......blah blah blah, I'm right and you're wrong." I just hate taking things all THAT seriously... Then, the scorpio men can be real assholes...............especially if they sense any 'weakness' in you.....and I don't get it either. Are they bad people these scorpio men, or what? What's their deal. Scorpio women I can tolerate...they can be much more loving and accepting than the men. I am a cancer and I feel like whatever I give the Scorpio, it is never enough, so you know what....screw that and do go away cuz that's not my thing! I hate demanding, controlling control-freaks, sorry and it's only selfish to think that someone would be willing to comply with such rude, demanding ways.
How do I react when people talk behind my back?
Here are a few ideas -Plug in your earphones. Squint your eyes and like a ninja, quickly glance left and right. When no one is looking, discreetly turn down the volume to zero. You’re a sneaky little devil, aren’t you? Crafty too! Everybody around you thinks that you’re listening to music. That you can’t hear what they’re saying. So, they’ll immediately start bitching about you. But you, like a pro ninja, would be listening to every word they utter. Every ten seconds, start headbanging or swaying your shoulders to further enhance the illusion.Buy a cell phone. Actually, buy a hundred cellphones. Turn on their voice recorders. Then visit the homes of all your friends and relatives who you suspect bitch about you behind your back. Ask them for a glass of water. Wow! You’re a master spy. James Bond would be so jealous of your moves right now. When they go to the kitchen, plant a cell phone under their dining room table, ’coz… u know… dining room is where the bitching takes place. If you want to be on the safe side, plant a cellphone in every room of their house. Boy! you’re gonna need a lot of cell phones.Ask your tailor to sew a microphone in the back of your every t-shirt. Develop a machine learning algorithm to analyze the data that your microphones collect throughout the day and identify the most bitchy bitchers. Sell that algorithm to Google for a billion dollars. Retire and spend the rest of your days in Hawaii, basking in the sun on sandy beaches, sipping virgin Mojitos and bitching about your old friends.Or you could… you know… just stop giving a fuck!
Why do white people avoid talking about race?
I agree you completely. How can things improve if others pretend the problems don't exist? I'm not sure why they feel uncomfortable. Perhaps because they don't want to be seen as racists, or feel that minorities might blame whites for some of the racial tensions going on and to avoid the "obligatory" white guilt, and maybe they just don't care because they're very usually not the victims. You very rarely see them being victims of systematic racism. I remember this one time, I was on the bus with 2 or 3 white kids who went to my high school. We were talking about bad childhood memories, and I told them of the first time I experienced overt racism when I was about 8, and some young men in a sports car tried to run me over. They all fell silent and it was really awkward. I had no idea it would have that effect, I didn't mean to make it feel uncomfortable for them. I'm truly over it but why is it bad to talk about it? I hope some people will get over this. Let's work together towards improving society, and removing stereotypes and racist behaviours (whether overt or covert).