Do white guys like black girls?
*sigh* When you get out of high school all this changes. Well, thats not true. My senior year I started dating my now boyfriend of three years. He had a friend who was dating a black girl at the time as well and their friend (Mexican) had just broken up with a black girl. These are all super jockey white guys too. Tons of white guys (black and even Native American) at my school have been talking to me/flirting. Even a metalhead guy with long hair who is quite attractive. My point? Hot is hot. If your a good looking woman, no man will try to rationalize his attraction. It will just be. Being intelligent, healthy, and interesting doesn't without being aggressive doesn't hurt either. Could also be your location. Are you in a small or highly conservative town? College/Young town? These things matter in terms of your dating pool.
As most have said, some do and some do not….pretty much like all races of women. There are some black women who will not admit to liking white men due to peer and family pressure, but a lot of them are putting those fears behind and opening up their dating pool to include other races of men.I personally put a guy’s character above his race. Some people tend to think that black women are somehow different from other races of women. That is not true. We all want love and respect just like the next person.
Allow me to start by asserting that I am not racist. Simply speaking, dark toned skin just does not do it, for me. My preference is: the paler, the better. I cannot explain why, but I suspect that it is along the same reasoning that I prefer blondes over any other hair color. But… preference aside, there are always exceptions. That goes for my preference of skin tone, as well.Way back, before the days of digital audio and televisions that do not have knobs on them, I attended high school. My high school was a very… white school. Out of the entire student body, we had one black student - her skin color being very close to that of dark chocolate. Typically, not my preference. But, this girl, as “black” as her skin was, her interior was nothing less than the purest gold. This girl was electric. Magnetic, even. She lit up any room, just by being in it. And to go along with that incredible personality, she had a body that would make… well… anybody jealous, really. All the curves in exactly the right places, all in exactly the right proportions. She used those curves, too… that girl could DANCE. And she danced all of the time. And I would just watch. I could not take my eyes off her. There was that magnetism I referenced, earlier… and it was attracting me. All preferences became irrelevant.What, exactly, attracted this white guy to that black girl? She did. I never even talked to her. Ever. But, as small of a school my school was, it was difficult to not know everybody there, even if you did not talk to them. Even though I never talked to her, I found myself really liking her - the way she looked, the way she laughed, the way she moved, the way she positively affected everyone near her. All of those qualities she possessed, her dark colored skin was irrelevant. In fact, I believe it actually enhanced her other qualities. I will not say that I was in love with her, because… come on, like I said, I never talked to her. But, yes… I definitely liked her.
White girls: Why do you prefer black guys over white guys?
First: ask yourself: if you are not racist, why does the color of the people matter? Not being racist means the color of the people doesn't matter, only who they are and what kind of individual humans they are. If you answer this question honestly, I think you will find that you have made some assumptions about people based on their color. Otherwise, you would not be annoyed by what you sometimes observe. Second: I don't observe the same tendency you see about white girls. There's a good chance you see what bothers you and remember it more often because it bothers you.
I know this article is a question toward black men but I want to put my 2 cents in it anyway.I believe black men are individuals. Some like black girls, some like white girls, some have no preference and even with this feed we can’t really caculate an average for black guys preferences.I always felt that most black guys I met were just curious with what the world had to offer. They wanted to try new things, experience other cultures, and live their life freely, and I can’t hate them for that.Growing up a black girl was a little challenging. I always saw black guys date lighter toned black women or non-black women. Most black guys that did ask me out would assume that I was Hispanic or “Foreign” due to the fact that I have more Eurocentric features, than most. It felt like unless I spoke Spanish or had light skin I wasn’t going anywhere.When I got to college life was a little different. Of course black guys were still having fun, being guys, but I started to see more black couples forming, which were kind of rare in high school. I saw guys holding hands with those girls, buying them drinks, talking casually with each other, and then I realize that maybe all black guys aren’t like the ones in high school I grew up with. Not all black guys are like my dad, or my uncles, or my cousins, but there are black guys that aren’t so caught up in skin color and stereotypes.Like I said, all black guys have different preferences. Even if you one day go online and see a black guy saying “I only date white women” “Black women aren’t shit” know that that one black dude, or few black dudes, do not know or represent all black men, just like they don’t know or represent you on a personal level.Through my life I have learned to develop thick skin and self love and really no one can tell me anything about myself or where I come from. And I hope that one day other black women can learn to feel the same.
Why do so many Black guys make a big deal about White girls?
It seems like all these Black guys take so much pride when they date a White girl. As if it were some sort of status symbol or something. I'm an Asian guy and I've dated White girls, but I dated them because I was attracted and had chemistry with them. Not because they were White. Besides, I wouldn't just date an ethnicity because it was hip or it was some sort of status symbol. Race really doesn't matter to me. Besides when I dated a White girl I didn't act like I was some big shot like some Black guys do. So why is it that so many Black guys make a big deal about White girls?
I'll answer since this applies to me. I like men of all races, and not just one type, but I do like white guys who some would consider nerdy. It's because they're smart and usually are nice guys. Someone who's a lot more suave is more likely to be a player, so I go for the guys who seem more down to earth. Also, nerdiness has evolved over the years. Today's nerdy guys usually don't look like the stereotypical nerd, like the brother in Napoleon Dynamite or Steve Urkle. They may not be the best dressed guys, but their style has improved, so it's not cringy. Honestly, today's nerdy guys just seem like normal smart guys, who are down to earth, and usually with a great sense of humor. They also kill at witty banter, so if that's your thing, you find them appealing. The black woman who goes for this type of guy still cares about physical attraction, but is willing to look beyond slight missteps in style, to see what's on the inside.But, again that doesn't mean that we aren't also attracted to guys who aren't considered nerdy. I think Michael Fassbender is good looking, but I also love Riley Poole (Justin Bartha) in National Treasure.
I would firstly agree with the confirmation bias answer. Your perception and your own thought ahead of time, in other words, is giving you that almost certainly mistaken impression. “Every”, and “most”? Not a chance. Interracial marriage in the United States - Wikipedia“Census Bureau statistics“The number of interracial marriages has steadily continued to increase since the 1967 Supreme Court ruling in Loving v. Virginia, but also continues to represent an absolute minority among the total number of wed couples. According to the United States Census Bureau, the number of interracially married couples has increased from 310,000 in 1970 to 651,000 in 1980, to 964,000 in 1990, to 1,464,000 in 2000 and to 2,340,000 in 2008; accounting for 0.7%, 1.3%, 1.8%, 2.6% and 3.9% of the total number of married couples in those years, respectively.[12]“These statistics do not take into account the mixing of ancestries within the same race; e.g. a marriage involving Indian and Japanese ancestries would not be classified as interracial due to the Census regarding both as the same category [i.e., Asian]. Likewise, since Hispanic is not a race…Hispanic marriages with non-Hispanics are not registered as interracial if both partners are of the same race…Based on these figures:White Americans were statistically the least likely to wed interracially, though in absolute terms they were involved in interracial marriages more than any other racial group due to their demographic majority. 2.1% of married White women and 2.3% of married White men had a non-White spouse. 1.0% of all married White men were married to an Asian American woman, and 1.0% of married White women were married to a man classified as "other".4.6% of married Black American women and 10.8% of married Black American men had a non-Black spouse. 8.5% of married Black men and 3.9% of married Black women had a White spouse. 0.2% of married Black women were married to Asian American men, representing the least prevalent marital combination…”Per the table on the same page,White husband / white wife was at 97.7%, or approximately 50.41 million unions, as of 2010. Black husband / white wife was at 8.6%, or approximately 390,000 unions, as of 2010. Black husband/black wife, by contrast, was at 89.2% or approximately 4.07 million unions, as of 2010.