Do you think that dating is a waste of time?
Not all people are going to marry and dating is for people who are looking for a person to marry and have children with that is the nucleus of a strong society. There is a percentage of people who have no wish to marry and enjoy being single and celibate. They are great uncles and volunteer members they give back to society in a different way that doesn't make you less that just makes you taking a different path that most of society treads. We are all different everyone has their niche in society/ Television and movies seem to take dim view of the single or celibate like they are wrong or not in step with the world, But there has always been that small percentage of society if you are among them then good for you. Mom needs to accept that is not part of your life. My brother was the only male and he and his wife never had children my parents had to deal with that too I suppose.
Why is it so hard to find a suitable partner on dating sites?
Oh, honey. Because the very last thing many people consider when they join online dating sites is their own suitability. (Insert smiley-winky emoticon here.)Human beings are a rather vexing species: we have one big blind spot when it comes to (you guessed it!) ourselves. Some of us don’t sit down and make a list of the things that we have to bring to the table—things of intrinsic worth, like trustworthiness, reliability, and decent problem-solving skills.Similarly, we often don’t see our BIG GIANT DEALBREAKERS. “There’s a lid for every pot.” Well, that old chestnut might be true, but it’s going to be very difficult to find that lid if you hoard pets, get sloppy drunk every other night, or have a bad propensity to ratchet up a ton of discretionary debt.We view our weaknesses as strengths and our strengths as weaknesses.So you have a lot of people who join online dating sites who assume they’re all that, and they’re clearly not all that and they’re not about to change one damned thing about themselves. And, irony or ironies, they of countless deficits have a long list of must-haves in a prospective partner. Very few of these must-haves anything to do with compatibility.A lot of people look for someone to fit into their lives when they have no desire to fit into anyone else’s—not in any practical, substantive way. Which, by default, makes them unsuitable to date. Again, it’s that blind spot.But to be fair, there are some really kind and decent people who use online dating the proper way. (I approached online dating with the mindset of compromise and equal ground, not finding someone to do my every bidding.)So it would be a disservice to paint all users with the same brush. Just because there’s far more of one than the other doesn’t make the whole enterprise a bust.
Any good dating site to meet " Decent russian women"?
Hi i my country i see lots of men with russian wifes 3 of them are my neighbours and i'm like how did they meet such a beautiful looking girl :O. some one told me u can meet russian women from sites online but i have no idea which are the best sites. I had 2 russian friends guys, and the girls i met who came to malta were really nice people ( character wise i mean) funn to be with and very friendly :) which i could meet such beautiful people. Here in Malta the local girls are rather snobish and very closed minded thats why i'm looking for foreigners. The people i met from uk, serbia and russia neve let me down they are true friends however over here in my country people are very self centered and selfish. any suggestion peeps ? :) thanks
Can someone explain why I can't seem to get a date, a boyfriend (I'm 22?!?!)?
I've been called beautiful, pretty, and lovely, but mostly beautiful by guys (on the rare times I was complimented in my life). Not trying to sound conceited, just making a point that I'm not ugly to every dude out there. But anyways, I have a classy way of dressing. I look elegant and graceful ( i've been told by a few women) and I'm 5'11" so clothes always look nice on me. I have long black wavy hair and dark brown eyes with a sanna lathan skin tone. However I don't have curves, I'm thin.... no booty either...just c cup tatas on a tall slender figure so dunno if that has to do with guys not liking me for a girlfriend. Or is it because I'm tall height for a girl? Are men turned off by that? (I'm 161 lbs btw so not fat) I don't get it. Some random guys have literally said I was 'beautiful' which I'm not sure if that was a lie? I know men will say whatever to get girls in bed. But I honestly don't think I'm ugly, I'd say average looking. I dress up, do my makeup and fix my hair. I go out feeling pretty but men don't even stare at me. They look at other girls who are I guess...curvy with a huge butt in tight jeans? When I dress up lady like I don't get noticed, it's only when I dress in bumy gym clothes, hair pinned up and no makeup on my face that I get guys staring more. But either way I'm still never approached. I just cannot understand why. What am I doing wrong? I know I look decent. I know I'm not ugly. But yet I'm 22 and still never been on a date or had a boyfriend.
Are there any hot girls who don't get approached by guys?
My best friend from high school is gorgeous.Drop dead gorgeous. I’m quite pretty myself, but if I went anywhere with her, all of the attention was always on her, I didn’t exist. Guys would approach her everywhere we went and mostly ignore me because she is so beautiful.Guys approached her at Starbucks. Men tried to talk to her when we went to the pool. She was hit on at every bar we went to. Men would even approach her at restaurants. The stream of men coming on to her was endless, and she loved every second of it. It got kind of annoying.Two years ago, she got married. They really love each other and they had a baby together almost immediately. However, her genetics are so good she still has abs after her first baby. She’s still breathtaking.Over the summer, I went out dancing with her. We went to a two-stepping bar in Houston, Texas. Not a single man approached her to dance. Nobody looked at her. Just two years ago men had swarmed at her at every angle in the same bar. I could tell she was upset. She wanted to leave.My best friend didn’t get any less gorgeous, one thing changed. She stopped acting available. She used to smile at every man she saw. She used to make eye contact with every guy she found attractive. She used to laugh and dance and invite men over to talk to her.She stopped acting available. My best friend was now happily taken and that made all the difference.Being hot doesn’t get men to approach you. Being available does.Sure, a certain level of attractiveness is needed for a man to initially take interest. But, some of the most average girls I know pull the most men I’ve ever seen just because they act so available.