Is it okay for a 50-year-old man to date a 19-year-old girl?
I am a 19 year old female dating a 51 year old male. We have been living together for a year and a half. I’m very perceptive in relationships, and in my case, I can confidently say that I perceive no disrespect from him and no shallow motives. We have nothing but respect and admiration for one another, and all decisions we make are mutual. We keep up healthy communication and trust between us. Our relationship is not hypersexual, nor does it involve the younger party, myself, being paraded around as arm candy in social situations. The people who know us well have no doubts about the love we share for each other.All this being said, if one day my own teenage daughter brought home a date of significantly older years, I would worry for the same reasons you all are worried. There are plentiful shallow and hypersexual men out there, pining for a young body to hold, or perhaps for a less mature partner to make themselves feel superior. These desires aren’t inherently wrong, but they often result in the younger party feeling used or inferior, especially when the older party lies about their motives. I hurt for all the young deceived women who have to be on that side of a relationship.My advice to an older man seeking a younger woman (or anybody seeking anybody) is to be completely lucid with your motives. If you just want a fling, or a pretty girl to show off, be clear about it. You would be surprised how many women are on board for that type of shallow affair (“shallow” has a negative connotation, but it just means there is no deep relationship involved). The unethical side of dating is when one party misleads another. Bottom line: don’t lead someone on with promises of love when you’re not looking for love. It doesn’t make any sense and it causes emotional harm.
My 19 year old son is dating a 40 year old woman. What should I do?
Be happy for him. If not, you will lose him. At 18, he makes his own decisions!I knew of a 15 year old male, dating a 45-year-old woman with a 6-year-old daughter, back when I was 16 years old (years ago). It lasted total about two years. She taught him everything sexually, everything! Eventually, he left the older woman, went back to high school and dated (having no sex, just kissing) a girl in his own grade. If the boy’s parents had interfered, he would have ran away. They bit their lip and he eventually made the right choices on his own. He was underage and the older woman could have gone to jail! However, the male still would have ran away, even with his lover in jail. He was terribly in love with her, when they were together, or at least he thought he was.We need to remember that it wasn’t all that long ago when society married 16-year-old boys off, and many undeveloped countries have boys as young as 12 go fight in local wars.I’d say ask yourself if your son is really being taken advantage of? In his case, he is over 18 anyways. Ask yourself if you want to be the one still standing with him when all is said and done? When that lady and he are over? If so, smile big and pretend not to hate it, and learn to take one day at a time. You will be okay and so will he.
Why would a 46 year old man think he can look and act like he is 20 years younger?
I plan to die when I am 110 years old. So, I do NOT plan on acting “middle aged” until I am 55.Also, studies are now showing that people who are late bloomers are, on average, more likely to live to a ripe old age.And really, how many centinarians (people over 100) have you known that said, “I was a saint when I was your age.”Zip, zero, zilch. It’s always, “Man, when I was your age, I was such a little son of a gun. I remember this one time that… wait, your parents might not approve of me giving you some bad ideas.”People who mature early in life typically don’t make it to 80.So! 46 is the new 30!37 is the new 24.And the brain doesn’t finish growing until 24–25 for the average person. Unless you’re me. Mine just finished growing up last week. Heh.Anyhow, back to your question: …The guy has personality, and no desire to act old. Fault him all you want, but judging people for ignoring the social construct of ‘acting your age’ may make you feel better, but he’s the one living life to its fullest, right?However, if he acts like a lecherous old man, that’s not cool. If he flirts with girls between the age of 16–18, that’s super un-cool.Again, the brain typically finishes developing around age 24.So, to me, anyone under 25 is a kid, lol.Sorry, not sorry. It’s true. Humans have known it way before CAT scans and MRI have proven it.In fact, the Catholic Church, during the Spanish Inquisition, didn’t give death sentences to any witch, rapist, murderer, or magic user under the age 25. At least not officially. What a crusader did in the field was up to the crusader, but the CHURCH, itself, did NOT give official death sentences to ANY criminal offender (aka heretic / sinner) under the age of 25.Anyhow, I feel like I age well enough to act twenty years younger. My oldest son just graduated high school at 18. My youngest is teething at six months old. People keep asking me if my oldest son is my little brother, lmao.Whatever, right?Act young, feel young, live long!
Is it ok for a 62 year old woman date a man of 46?
Yes it’s prefectly ok since both adults and well over the age of 18,I have asked a similar question to this,But most people would look down on this thinking it is not acceptable as it would be the other way,If this was the other way round nobody would care usually men in their in 40’s like younger women,It would be very rare for men in their 40’s to like older women,If you both like each other you can date some people would think she is too old for you since she is 62 and you are 46 that's a 16 year age gap you are many generations apart you have to work for another 19 years she would have to work for another 13 years that will affect her retirement if you still want to spend time with her when she was 46 you were 30 when she was 30 you were only 14 by the time you are 62 she will be 78 that's if the relationship will last that long the relationship might be not last you would both have a hard time to make to the relationship work 16 years is a big age gap .
Is it possible for 50 year old man and a 20 year old woman to have a healthy, long term relationship?
Look, it's ok for a man and a dog to have a healthy relationship, but lets get real. I've hung out with my daughter's friends for an hour. They think I'm fun, and they can be cute, even beautiful.But, why a 50 wants a 20 is easy to see, if a tight body and arm candy and a lack of depth is what he wants.Why a 20 year old girl wants a 50 year old man, is also pretty easy to figure. And girl, please add 25 to each of your age. You may not believe this but you are hotter and more desirable at 45, and you are possibly helping your man use his walker. Yes, some 75 year olds are in amazing shape. But math and probability pretty much work.Here's a question: what are the chances that the 59 year old is broke and the 20 year old is rich?
32 years old woman dating a 19 years old boy... ACCEPTABLE?
It's unusual, but it's nothing the press is going to run with. They're only interested in robberies and pedophilia. To think they'd care about a 19 year old and a 32 year old is wishful thinking! Unless you already are a media presence or something - someone famous or something like that. Anyway, you two go do your thing. It's legal, and don't give a half about what people think of you, as long as you make each other happy, that's what matters. Just be warned, he's 19, he's still pretty young, still figuring out what he wants with his life. He very well may end up running off with some girl closer to his age group.
How do 30 year olds view 23 year olds? Do they think they are naive or silly?
I'm 30 and I work with several 23 year olds or thereabouts. There isn't much of an age gap really, I think it depends on the kind of person you are at 30.When I was 23 I was still trying to find my limits with alcohol. I would go and party and not think about the consequences. I now see my work associates doing this and I think good on them! I wouldn't think they are naive, just finding their limits (usually by coming to work the next day and throwing up for a few hours, I find this incredibly amusing).From my experience, fashion and music tastes vary a lot from person to person but most of the 23 year olds I know aren't really into old (better) music. Fashion is another source of amusement for me. I work with a hipster who feels he has to wear a wax jacket (that smells of charity shops), skinny jeans with white socks and trainers that cost over £500. He has been the subject of much ribbing.Comparing them to myself, their attitude towards women is vastly different. I blame porn for that. They are a lot more promiscuous than I ever was. They seem to know all the attractive females in town. There's frequent chauvinistic comments. Now that i can pin on immaturity and a lack of morals.Now I'm putting that down to the boys I know who are in their early twenties. By no means am i labelling them all. From what i've seen, most girls are a tiny bit more mature. Not a lot mind you, just enough to make a difference.I've hung out with people younger than me, I can have a laugh with them and at them. Psychologically it might be a way of making me feel younger on the inside even if I don't look younger on the outside.
Can a 30 year old look like a 20 year old?
Yes :)I might not be the best example, because I’m 30 and people give me usually 22 ;)I don’t wear sunscreen, I believe the sun is important to us. I just don’t sit still on the sun, when shadow is longer than my height.Fun fact is, that I think that my skin looks actually much better than when I was 22, probably because I improved my diet, stopped smoking cigarettes, stopped drinking alcohol.I mostly make cosmetics by myself and I use natural soap.I’m also more fit than when I was 22. I am like healthy thin. I mean, I eat as much as I want, but I train break dance, so I have a lot of movement.I also think, that thoughts are important. I just took document photo month ago and I look in it much younger than on the photo made 3 years ago. Probably because I was in toxic relationship back then and my thoughts were dark.But probably genetics play the big part here, too. My mum was getting prettier each year until she was 40, and the fact that she didn’t seem to be prettier when she was 50 is probably because she neglected physical activity and got fatter.No make up, no filter photo at almost 30: