I'm 13 and my Mom treats me like a baby?
I'm 17 going to be 18 and my mom dose even let me go outside f*ck this I wanna be 18 so that I could do what ever I wanna here in miami,fl is 11:50pm...........
My mom treats me like a maid....?
Whenever our cleaner isn't around she tells ME to do everything! And I'm not an only child, I have two smaller brothers. Whenever I complain about me having to do everything and my brothers do nothing she says I can't compare myself to boys, and boys should only work if they want to. Do you think this is right?
Why Does My Mom Treat Me Like Crap?
She Always says everything is my fault my brothers are like her little Kings and im just a item she can throw and pick up whenever she wants to I was studying to be a Jehovah's Witness and now she says im stupid and i can now longer go to church or have bible studies i really don't see the point in going on anymore my dad doest really help much Im a straight A student athlete and everything and my brother is a D average student but she buys him clothes and gives him love and attention a plus my bro also treats me like crap plez help me out I REALLY NEED SOME HELP!!!!!
My mom still treats me like a kid. What should I do?
I don't think they teach this subject in engineering.Most Indian mothers are like that, especially if they are home makers. (Not career women).Normally her child is overly dependent on and attached to her. She is used to such state of affairs. The first time she feels the child has now interests other than her are when it goes to college. The next event is his/her getting a job. The last event is his/her marriage. Her control over the child is now totally gone. At every stage she tries to retain that control by becoming more and more aggressive in demanding attention.It is not your fault. The easiest solution is instead of waiting for her to call, make a call yourself. Talk to her, tell her somethings. This way you can decide what to tell and for how much time to talk. She will feel very happy. Preferably make the call just 10 minutes before her dinner time. So the duration of the call is max 10 minutes. Another advantage is, fixed time call makes her very proud of you, she can boast about it.This answer is given based on my experience.
My mom treats me like a maid... What should I do?
First of all... I m 32 weeks pregnant with my second child. I m staying at my mom s for a while until my husband and I get our own place soon. My mom makes me do everything around the house. She has me do the laundry, do the dishes, clean the mirrors, etc. Today she wanted me to clean the cat s cage, which the cat is dying and very sick. The cat basically poops and pees everywhere in the house but my mom tells me to clean it up. My doctor says that I should NOT do that with the toxoplasmosis in their system. I don t want my unborn baby to die or get sick or any of that from cleaning up after my mom s cat. FYI, the cat was a stray and she just had to let him in the house. So my mom won t get rid of the cat since she wants to keep him but I won t let that happen when my son comes in November and crawls around and gets sick from the cat still being there. I ve convinced my mom to get rid of the cat before my son comes in November but she gets pissed at me about it and says that the cat will stay no matter what. Basically saying that she don t care if my son gets sick or whatever. Also today, she wanted me to sweep the floors. Her sweeper weighs 30 lbs or maybe more. So I have to lift it over furniture and stairs but she don t seem to care and yells at me if I don t do anything right the way SHE wants it. Anyone experiencing or have experienced this during their pregnancy or non pregnancy? What should I do?
My Mom Treats Me Like Trash?
I dont know what to do. I do nothing but clean our house and take care of our animals and my mother takes it all for granted. She treats me like crap and im tired of it. Im in 8th grade and my mom does nothing, she is disabled but her disability doesnt actually keep from doing ANYTHING! she does not work even though SHE CAN, she blames me for everything wrong with her, I take care of the entire household and she doesnt ever praise my work rather she points out what i did wrong. I never look forward to seeing her cause she makes me cry so much, i do so much for her and she makes me feel like shi* I work at a dog shelter and I feel like they love me more than she does, when i go to work i never want to go home cause i dont want to go back to her. She abuses me verbally and lies so much. If it werent for me this house would be a pile of crap right now, my mother does NOTHING except maybe dishes once a week and while im busting my butt adopting and training dogs, cleaning the house, taking care of our animals and land, doing laundry and making sure things are in order. She takes me for granted and im tired of it, what am i supposed to do? EVERY other grown up i have made relationships with like my co workers at my dog shelter grow to love me like their own kid because i work so hard and love to help while my mother treats me like a slob who sits on her butt all day long. What do i do? im so upset right now
What would you do if your mom treats you badly?
Here’s my 2 cents: First, let me say that I am sorry that you’re having that experience with your Mom. To start, I would have a conversation with her about it, I would also give so examples. In providing examples; this gives her an opportunity to see your perspective. Secondly, From there it becomes your responsibility to convey to her what/how you would like/need to be treated. After having spent the time conveying to her your needs and there hasn’t been any significant change; I would consider modifying my interaction with her, and she would be on a “need to know” basis for any major developments in my/your life. I am hoping for a positive response for you in dealing with your Mom. P.S. Consider having a neutral third party present to give perspective should one become necessary. xoxo
Mothers and Fathers: Why do you think my Mom treats me unfairly?
The world is full of suffering. In fact,life that is never free from desire and passion is always involved with distress. While we are accustomed to think of our suffering or trauma as the result of a major cataclysm in our journey of life; One's life is full of endless little sufferings or traumas. Siblings' quarrels, your friends hurt your feeling, your mom treating you unfairly, pets or friend get sick or die. Your willingness to face traumas is the key to healing from them. They may never disappear in the way you think they should but may they don't need to. Nothing is permanent ! " Speak well of your mom, but not of her faults. " Love your parents. We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing up. When your mom was a teen, your grandma treated her just like what she treated you ..... it could possibly be the reason why she treated you badly. " Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you." For you could possibly be a mom in the foreseeable future. Please bear that in mind. As for your current environment; my best advice is in two lines : " Silence is the best answer in all encounters. " " Smiling is the best reaction in all situations. " The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, or not to anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly. If things turn out as it is ..... you could possibly see the rainbow in the sky.
I'm 17 and my mom treats me like a child,what do I do?
So my mom is very controlling. I'm a responsible person who can maintain 3.8, while taking college classes, whole being in NHS, while being in young democrats, a women empowerment club that help women world wide, a varsity track athlete, while being in the best choir at my school. But my mother is too much for me, she didn't let me get my license because she didn't want me on her insurance but constantly complains about driving to places so sometimes I miss out on important events because she just doesn't want to drive me. And now that summer is coming she doesn't want me to get a job because she'll have to drive me, but she will never give me money so I don't know how that makes sense. I've never dated before and I just had my first kiss not too long ago with a guy I really like. I want to date him but since summer is coming I won't have anyway of getting to see him bc even though we go to the same school I live in the town over.and on the last date I had with him she called me little girl in front of him and I felt so embarrassed. And I get to go out to see my friends maybe once a month if I'm lucky. And I don't know what to do, I've never done anything like drink, sleep around or do drugs, but I'm constantly treated like I've done something bad. And I can't speak up because she'll just shut me down and mock me. It's just getting to me and just a bit too much to handle.