Would any guy be with a woman who has 3 kids?
I dated for many years, online. I’m family oriented, so 1 kid was not a turn off, 2 kids would have to be a VERY special case of love at first sight, and 3 was not in my ability, but the main reason was because I want my own children, and adding that to 2 or 3 existing kids was not a possibility.Children also do come with their own baggage, you have ex husbands, custody drama, you have to step into the role, you have some level of disrespect or walking on ice, as a man being around someone else’s kids. Sometimes, it even reflects on the woman’s decision making skills, such as never being married but having 3 kids from 3 fathers.Every guy is different and has different needs. I found it acceptable to be with a woman who has kids, but only to a certain extent. My Fiance had a young daughter when we met, we’re talking about more kids, now that we have our own home.To completely answer your question. For me, 3 kids is a no, but some guys are fine with that. In my experience, I knew a young woman who had 3 kids, I also had a male friend who had 3 kids, and ironically, they dated and married each other. We jokingly called them “The Brady Bunch.”
What should I do? My husband wants 2 kids and I want 3 kids.
“I wanted a dog. She wanted a cat. So we compromised and got a cat.”Compromise and have 3 kids.:)I wish I would have had another one. My wife wanted another one. So did I, really. But we got a little old and the previous pregnancy was hard on her. She’s forgotten that. I didn’t forget how hard it was on her, physically.
I want to join the military but I have 3 kids -can I still join?
Can I join the military if u have 3 kids if so what the best option I know I have to give up custody how would I do that if me and the daddy broke up not too long ago the Ikuds are with me I have always been way more responcible that his pot head low life anyway I always work and go to school full time and my kids already dont see me for the whole day only morning and night if they are awake and public assistance is not enough to get on my feet I want to do more I want to have an education and financial stability
I have a wife and 3 kids (5,3,1) im 26 and want to runaway?
i feel you, i too was married at 20, now i have an 18, 14, and 11 year old boys. i love them to death, they are my life. your situation sounds alot like the one i was in. i working my butt off while she stood home. now days it takes 2 incomes to live comfortable. the fact that your working hard for your family and getting home to a dirty house says alot about her. look, if your not happy where your at, please get out. file for divorce, make sure you get joint custody of your kids, get a lawyer, they work wonders. your situation will only get worse as time goes by. my x decided to cheat on me with an older guy that told her he would take care of her. when i found out, it broke my heart and the guy left her after i kicked his ***. you dont want to come home and find out your wife was with another man. these kinds of problems lead to this. so i got a divorce, got joint custody of my 3 sons, pay child support but a reasonable amount because i have joint custody of my boys, im 39 dating a hot 29 year old, weve been together for 5 years, got an suv, and a 300c, house, you see what im trying to show you is that there is life after divorce. you got married young like me. theres no need to end your life for this women. you have 3 kids to look after, you sound like a good father, be one to them. step up, be the man you want to be, see a lawyer and get outta there that way you can live happy agian. dont worry about the kids, they will be fine, they are still young and can live a life with 2 different homes, yours and hers. my sons were 10, 6, and 2 when i got divorced. the 10 year od took it the hardest but the other 2 were fine. now they are A students, my oldest is studying to be a nurse, he wants to make top dollar, lol. but like i said, everything will be ok if you decide to move on, dude, you sound just like me when i was with my x. your not alone here. lean to family and friends when you need them. i hope you make a wise decision and live life to the fullest with your 3 kids. peace be with you, god loves you bro, remember that, and your kids.
We have 3 kids, my wife & I are planning to go back to the Philippines to study FULLTIME, is this a good idea?
IN ORDER 2 ACCOMPLISH THIS NEW VENTURE. IF WE DONT DO THIS NOW (FINISH COLLEGE) WHILE WE R STILL YOUNG (WE 40's) WE WONT HAVE ENOUGH MONEY 2 SEND OUR KIDS 2 GOOD COLLEGES! WE R ALSO MAKING SURE THE KIDS GETS THE HIGHEST EDUCATION OUR MONEY CAN BUY. WE HEARED O.B. MONTESSORI AN EXCLUSIVE/PRIVATE CATHOLIC SCHOOL IS THE BEST IN THE AREA WE ARE HIGHLY CONSIDERING (LAS PINAS CITY). THE R-O-I SHOULD BE GOOD! AFTER ALL OUR KIDS (INCL. OURS) EDUCATION IS PRICELESS. I KNOW A LOT OF WORKING PARENTS HAVE NO PROBLEM MANAGING BOTH WORK & FAMILY, BUT 2 ADD SCHOOL IN THE EQUATION IS ANOTHER THING 2 BE METICULOUSLY CONSIDER. EITHER MY WIFE OR I DONT WANT 2 BE AWAY FROM THE KIDS WHILE STUDYING ABROAD. I AM VERY MUCH HANDS-ON FATHER. EVERY FAMILY SITUATIONS IS DIFFERENT! OUR FAMILY IS DEFINETELY DIFFERENT. OUR KIDS ARE VERY-VERY CLOSE 2 US & WE DONT WANT ANY OF US NOT 2 BE AVAILABLE WHEN THEY NEED US. BEING A PARENT IS VERY DEMANDING, SPECIALY W/ 3 BEAUTIFUL KIDS!
Men: Would you date a woman with 3 kids....?
Well, I have two kids and my boyfriend has three....but if I had no kids and no parenting experience? Oh, I would have RAN! ...and he's told me that a lot of women did. They wanted nothing to do with a guy with so many kids even if they had kids, too. I think it's interesting that many single mothers will date guys without kids and avoid single fathers....can you formulate a Q? on that?
Man, would you marry a woman with 3 kids? ?
In order for you to go through with this relation ship, you need to be really in love with her "and" her kids as well. I believe that based on the questioning "if you should stay or end this relation ship", your mind is telling you something and your heart is saying something else (mind: voting "no", heart: voting "yes". If the two don't/can't connect, then i believe you should indeed walk away. This is a serious decision, you need to search deep down and analyze the hole picture. You only have two choices here... One, you pursue with this relation ship and commit 110% in this family ( responsibility, you are secondary (kids come first), commitment, father figure... etc.)... Or secondly, Part from it. It's sad for both you and your gf, but if you decide to part, i believe that it's for the best.
Am 27, married with three kids. I want to join the army. Is the recruiter just humoring me?
Ok, so a few weeks ago I had a serious talk with my wife about me joining the army. I lost my job, and have been unable to find a job! this is not my only reason for joining, I have always had the desire to be a part of the military. time just seemed to get away from me, you know? I met my wife, married her and we had three kids in four years! I love my family and my country and would be willing to do anything for both. After telling my wife my plan, she agreed to support me if i chose to join the army. I went to speak to a recruiter the next day. they took my body fat, weight height , etc. The recruiter told me to it was possible for me to join (I wasn't sure due to my age), and to lose 5 ll bs and come back the following week. I tried to lose all 5, but when i returned the next week, I had only lost 2. I guess what I am wondering is; is this recruiter just humoring me? I mean i am 27, married with three kids! I know they can be pretty picky now. Also, I knew someone who was is almost the same situation I am in, except he was older with more weight ot lose. His recruiter used to work out with him everyday, to prepare him for boot camp. I would love if mine would do the same, but I am worried that he isn't even serious about getting me enlisted. do I just need to lose the weight and come back? What else can I do to make him take me seriously? I would love if an actual recruiter could answer PLEASE? Answers from people have have been/are a part of the military would be greatly appreciated