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Why Does Everyone See Me As This

Why do EVERYONE stare at me?!?

Why do EVERYONE stare at me? I promise you it’s not in my head. Even my friends and my family ask me why I am being stared at. I notice when I go to the checkout line at the stores, everyone would look at me and stare at me for a long time. I went to Wendy’s drive in recently and the girl I don't know working at the counter saw me and said something that made her co-workers look at me. My sisters and I went to a furniture store and an employee came to introduce himself. He first shook my hand and stared at me for a long time, standing right in front of me and my sisters and not saying anything. My sisters rolled their eyes, and then the guy shook their hands. When people see me, they just stare bluntly. Why?! Do they think I’m attractive or funny looking? Or trying to figure out my nationality? Here’s my pic if it helps you out.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/64655999@N05/5888543582/in/photostream

Btw, please be honest! It drives me crazy when people always single me out of the crowds (even of gorgeous girls) and just stare at me! My friends and my family always point this out.

Why does everyone love me so much?

Why I am awesome:
I feel as though:
If there was a God, I'd be his favorite.
If unicorns were real, they'd search for me as the mythical beast.
If Chuck Norris was at my house, he'd be making jokes about how awesome I am.
If a seeing person could see me, they'd go blind. And if I touched a blind man, he could see. But once he saw me, he'd be blind again.
If I was to get hit by a car, the car would merely split where it touched me.
If the sun was to consume earth, I would be the last survivor out in space..

What people think of me:
I feel as though everyone I see, just wants to be my friend, or more. And that every girl (and some men) wants to see me with out my pants on. And that everyone thinks I am there one true love. That I must be with them, forever. Why? Why am I so awesome and lovable? I feel as though if I owned a lion or tiger, they would be feeding me. And that everything in the animal kingdom bows down once they see me. Why is this?

Is it because I have Comcast? Or that my hands are big enough for the Burger King Whopper? I really need help as to why I am so awesome, so that I can better understand my handicap.

Thank you.

Why does everyone look at me more than everyone else?

9 times out of 10, they're looking because you're pretty. Maybe you have great eyes or lips or hair.. etc... You probably wear cute clothes, so what's not to look at and admire? When you notice someone looking at you next time, do one of two things: Smile, or, Stick your tongue out and then laugh.

How can everyone see me?

How can everyone see you? Everyone can determine how they see you based on your actions, your ideals and the way you carry yourself day to day, encounter to encounter. Your interaction or lack of interaction with everyone determines how you are "seen". With the author of your actions being no one other than yourself - the only way for you to answer your question is to first understand the answer to another more important question...How do you see yourself?

Why does everyone slam on their brakes when they see a cop has someone pulled over?

Your driving down the highway and everyone in front of you slams on their brakes...when you get closer you see that a cop has someone pulled over. If the cop already has someone pulled over, why do they slam on their brakes?

Why does everyone swipe their finger under their nose when they see me?

maybe you need to wax ?
iunno or a buger in your nose, or a mole?

maybe you are in a bad neighbourhood [ rascist ] or there's a rumor going around about you

I ahve no clear answer for you other than life is difficult, you get treated liek ****... for no reason. gawd school was hell for me but i survived...

but maybe you should ask a fam member or friend what they think as well. or have them ask people for you.

GL with your strange situation.

Why do people provoke me then everyone sees me as the bad guy when I react?

How people see /perceive you is just that…THEIRS and it really doesn’t matter. However, how you view yourself DOES. People who provoke you are looking for a certain reaction from you and you reward them every time. How you react to any given situation is alllll you, no matter what. Instead of worrying so much about how they’re rating your reaction, have you tried working on changing how you react? I’m no psychologist and I only ever speak from my own experience. It’s only when I stopped being a victim in life and took responsibility for my own actions that change came around… Every difficult moment we face is a chance to better ourselves. Hell, I’ll always be a work in progress and I’m ok bwith that. You don’t seem to be ok with how things are going… so…. change it.

Why do people act like they don't even see me?

Many people have this problem, and I can help you with one simple phrase:

If you act invisible, you are invisible.

In other words, I know the urge to blame everyone else for a problem is overwhelmingly strong and that it's the much easier thing to do in your mind, but the truth is that if everyone does the same thing to you and reacts the same way to you, then it is almost always because of something you did or didn't do (or are or aren't doing). It's unreasonable to expect that there is some conspiracy against you every time people start behaving a certain way to you. However I will not discount the fact that occasionally that CAN happen.

So evaluate your behavior with and around these other people.

-Do you just stand there awkwardly and not say a word or say very little?
==If this is the case, you need to contribute more to the conversation and interaction. If you are barely present during a group interaction, the group will eventually start treating you as if you aren't present even when you are.

-Have you acted particularly harsh/mean/undercutting/backhanded to anyone who knows your friend or the friends of your friend?
==If so, this would be one of those cases where it's sort of like a conspiracy, because everyone knows what you did or how you acted and is ignoring you because of it. Think hard because you may have offended someone without even realizing it, and that person may have convinced everyone else not to like you. Trust me, I unwittingly offend people all the time. But if I sense I have done so, I ask them if I really offended them that badly, have a reasonable discussion with them, and then apologize if I truly feel I did something wrong (don't apologize just to make them happy, that'd just make you a people pleaser).

There are other possibilities, but those are the main two.

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