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Why Does It Hurt When It Goes In And Out

Why do my eyes hurt when i go outside?

today i got to school and everything was normal. since my school has different buildings i have to go outside alot. and after 4th period (11am) i went outside and the sun was out and i wasnt even staring at the sun and my eyes hurt sooo bad i was crying and my eyes were burning and stinging. does anyone have an idea of why my eyes hurt so bad when i go outside. and this happens everytime i go outside not just at school.

Why does my head hurt when I go outside?

I know this may sound strange, but I'm fine indoors. When I walk outside I get this terrible pressure in my temples that spiders out to the rest of my head, the worst being behind my eyes. It's sharp and very painful, majority of it is to my right side. I had migraines and headaches badly when I was kid, but all my MRI and CAT scans came back fine. It happens in all kinds of weather - warm, cold, below freezing. It happens during the day and at night. After I get back inside, it continues for a few minutes but then goes away. Anyone have this problem or know anyone that has? And info would be great. Thank you in advance!

Why does it hurt when my boyfriend goes inside me?

Sounds like a lubrication issue, like you're not quite wet enough when he enters you. Once he's been in for a minute or so, you are lubricating. That's what suggests to me that it was too much penetration, too soon.

There's likely nothing wrong with you. He's probably just rushing things. Some guys learn sex from porn videos, but that's fantasy, and real sex is different. You may need more foreplay and should tell him so if you agree.

Foreplay can take many forms. It's not just fingering each other for a minute or two. Try flirting, hugging, kissing, sweet whispering, massaging each other, stroking and kissing everywhere else first before finally getting to the good stuff with gentle teasing stimulation of each other with fingers and tongue. Try taking at least 20 or 30 minutes doing this before he enters you. You should be really wet, even on the outside, and really feel an urgent need to have him in. Slowing things down like this often avoids the pain and makes it much more pleasurable for both of you.

As you get more experienced with him, you may be able to get very wet very quickly and enjoy a "quickie" that's painless for you, but you'll know when you get there, and shouldn't feel like you have to be.

Also especially if you're fairly new to sex or he's larger than average, he shouldn't just pound it in. That can be very painful to women even if they are wet. Tell him this hurts you like it would hurt him if you played too rough with his testicles. He needs to go in as gradually and gently as you need... especially if you're not very wet on the outside when he starts. You can whisper to him when you want him to go deeper or harder, if you want. Also consider trying you on top when he enters you, so you can control the penetration.

Have a talk with him and try some or all of this. I think it will work much better for both of you. Please remember to always have a condom on him once he's hard. A few minutes of pleasure are not worth a pregnancy or STD. Good luck.

Why does it hurt my girlfriend when i go to pull out?

my girlfriend and i used to have sex a lot and then she had a problem. so got a uti and we was unable to do it for a while it hurt her bad down there. since she got this fixed we have tried to do it again and its been a long while now that we have actually had sex because now everytime i try to go in it hurts her and she wont let me in but she will let me finger her. but here is where the problem comes in. i can get my finger in her fine and he says it doesnt hurt but once i am in i can not move my finger or else it hurts she said its not a real bad pain but it still hurts. and she said it hurts worse when i try to pull out and i have to go really slow coming out or else it puts her in tears. so why is she having this problem why does it not hurt going in but hurts coming out and moving around. we have been together 5 years and neither of us are going anywhere we want to fix this problem together but i dont know what else to do i am out of answers as to why this is happening to her and us.

When someone goes out of their way to taunt and hurt you, are they really only hurting themselves? Or is it a myth?

Everyone is different and it's difficult to generalize. When someone deliberately taunts another person it could be because the person doing the taunting is already hurting and that's how he or she makes themselves feel better. Or it could be the person doing the taunting doesn't feel empathy so has no awareness of how their actions hurt someone else. In that case the taunter is unaffected. Still others see it as a game and think they're being funny without realizing how they're affecting the subject of their "jokes". If you're thinking of a particular person, try to see the world through the eyes of that person. It's very possible they may not realize they are being hurtful or they may need to be treated with compassion. Either way, don't ever allow someone else to make you feel bad about yourself or about your circumstances. Change your perspective and don't give in to their meanness.

Why does a needle in the vein cause more pain when it goes out than when it goes in?

A lot depends on (a) how long the needle is left in place, and (b) how it’s withdrawn.A needle is clean and smooth when it goes in, so the tip makes a clean cut. If it’s withdrawn immediately, it remains clean.If it is left in for a little while, platelets begin to form a clot around the entry site. This clot will adhere to the wound edge and to the needle itself. Withdrawing the needle tears the wound edge.Also, withdrawing the needle on the exact path it was inserted is generally pretty painless, but if you lift the exposed end of the needle away from the skin and then withdraw it, it hurts—sometimes quite a lot. When you lift the needle, you lever the tip downward against undamaged tissue, then as you withdraw it, the tip scrapes along the tissue inside the needle track.Done incorrectly (or correctly, depending on your perspective), this hurts like a motherfucker.Twisting the needle as it’s withdrawn makes it hurt even more.I once took a class in needle play at a BDSM convention. The guy doing the class had some subtle techniques for making removal of the needle extremely painful: lifting the needle before you withdraw it, twisting the needle on its axis, and wiggling the end of the needle side to side as it’s withdrawn all make it a lot more painful coming out than going in.

Why does it hurt so bad when your friends hang out without you?

Sometimes it can be hard to put a finger on the exact feeling. Is it abandonment? Worthlessness? Frustration? There can be a variety of causes, but it’s no surprise that it hurts.I remember overhearing bits and pieces about some sort of hangout being planned by my friends. Unassertive introvert that I am, I kept waiting for someone to ask me, but nobody did. The hangout came and went while I sat on the side just hearing about it.Even though it was a small thing on the surface, it brought out some of my deeper insecurities. Did my friends really care about me at all? Was I just some sort of hanger-on, a grudgingly accepted guest into the group? I didn’t really talk that much, anyways, or add anything to the group that I could see. Maybe they never wanted me around at all, they just were too polite to say it. I knew these thoughts were irrational, but they still hurt.I have a very strong sense of loyalty, and sometimes I have to remind myself that not everyone shares that. Just because my friends hang out without me sometimes doesn’t mean that they don’t like me, or that they don’t want to be around me. It just means that they want to hang out, and it’s all right if not everyone’s there.When your friends hang out without you, it’s easy to feel like you’ve just slipped through the cracks, like you’re not important to them, and that can hurt a lot. Maybe your friends need a reminder that this kind of thing matters to you, or maybe you just need to find reassurance that you truly do matter to them. In the meanwhile, remember that your friends are likely to think differently than you do, and that they more likely than not would consider you to be an improvement to any hangout.

Why do my eyes hurt when I go outside and it's sunny?

ok. well here it goes. you know the black thing in the middle of your eye? (the pupil i think.) if you go from a not very well lit room into a bright enviroment, those pupils have to ajust to the light. an example: if you are in a dark room, your pupils get bigger to let more light in so you can see. now when the pupils are enlarged and you go slowly into a lit room the pupils are getting smaller becasue there is more light. now reverse the slowly. if you sudenly go into brightness of the sun without letting your eyes ajust. the headaches and stuff are from the pupils getting small really fast.

Why do people hurt each other?

Why do people hurt each other?I see this a lot in relationships, and it’s occurring with two guys who are good friends of mine. Both of them have parents who have divorced, and they’ve had to deal with controlling parents.Both guys try their best to be romantic to their respective girlfriends. They express affection is through acts of service; opening the doors for her, carrying things for her, saying sweet things about how much they can’t live without each other. Well intended jabs are thrown at each other as playful banter as well.Both of my friends mean well, but they are making a tremendous mistake. They have misguided perspectives on what romance really is, because their greatest influence is their own parents. They make the assumption that being romantic the same way their parents are is the key to keeping a relationship going, when they don’t see the full side of the story. Those snide remarks that weren’t really meant to insult one another? That quickly turns into hostile fighting and verbal abuse. Making sure you open the door to her? Eventually that turns into something the guy feels compelled to do, and eventually his girlfriend will feel trapped and controlled.I’m concerned not just for both guys, but also their girlfriends. One is in a borderline abusive relationship with a man that needs to mature, and the other is going down a dangerous path if he continues. They both think that they’re doing great though, as they are showing affection the same way their parents did to each other.This question isn’t specifically about relationships, but it’s an example of one reason why people hurt others. It’s because hurt people think that everybody else is just as hurt as they are.

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