What is the best gift one can give to his/her mother?
These twenty long years and in future too I’ll carry my dad name along with my name, As all of do nothing great in me. I wanted to give tribute to my mumma . I know child’s success is mothers happiness and that is the biggest gift any son can give ,but her happiness is driving power of our life. One day i got a chance to print name on my T-shirt( CARV its acting club of our college and its 2017’s apparel ). I thought of many names like “SHARAN-18” “RCBian” etc etc ( as Im a big fan of virat kholi ) but finally came to conclusion lets take an inspiration from Indian cricket Team so decided its time to give a tribute to my mother so printed it boldly “ SON OF SHARADA” . I showed her when i went to home after a month & her response was “ a biggg smile”. when i wear this and go outside, people a give a positive look at me & some comment’s “ that is cool bro”. As we know this is an Social media era , i posted on my Instagram page again, the same nice response from all around. All these responses just because of slight change in my name .“Sharan Yeli” gave me life time happiness and proud to carry Dad’s name officially with mine but “ Son of sharada” will remain the best for life time, when ever I get a chance to print my name it will be same as above.It was not a gift actually , its just a small tribute to my mother.(Inspired by Indian cricket team)
Why does life feel like a big chore to me?
Here mental health is only given highest predominance. View this question from Mental Health point of view. All other things are secondary. It can be discussed during our leisure time when we are free. First take care of your physical health as well as mental health. If you have crystal clear mind and pristine pure heart, you will never get such doubts, confusions, suspicion or fear. It can come only to those who are totally ignorant and dull-witted. Life is a very big thing. You should know the 'Art of Living' from a great scholar first. In simple terms, Wiliam Arthur Ward has given us the easy solution, which I give below: Quote: Adventure of life is to grow; The nature of life is to change; The challenges of life is to care for deserving; The opportunity of life is to serve; The secret of life is to dare; The spice of life is to befriend with like minded good people. The beauty of life is to give; The joy of life is to love. Unquote:
Does everyone have a gifted talent?
I feel like I'm worthless. I doodled and daydream everyday about anime I love. When I'm at the store, I'd always go to the clothing section. My big sister goes to the candy and food section. My little sister goes to the toy section. I'd look at the clothes and design them in my own unique way. My dream is to be a fashion designer. My big sister would mock me. She'd say I was useless cause I can't do the chores and I'm bad at cleaning. I am bad at talking and arguing. I can't do math, science, and more. She said, "Your useless! Just be a hobo for the rest of your life!". Then I'd say, "You don't know the future! What if that doesn't happen?!". "Please! You'll fail anyway! Your stupid. You lack common sense and knowledge. Your not even good at anything. Like who fails in P,E?!". My mom would yell at me to do chores cause I do none. Time to time, I take out the garbage, do the laundry, and wash the dishes. Like about twice a month. I do homework and chat with my best friend. My family moved, so I don't get to see my bff. So we hv internet to talk to each other. We spend about 8 hours talking and I play on the internet and daydream. I study on fashion and getting inspiration. Then I read fanfictions online. Since, I told you this. It sounds like I'm REALLY lazy. It's true. But in my dreams I really want to become responsible, mature, intelligent, orgranized, creative, and kind. I feel like that's not gonna happen. I feel like I'm useless and worthless. Do I even have a talent??
Why do people feel sad on their birthdays?
Yes, birthday is a “judgment day”where you realize that your presence may not be as important for others as you thought. Feeling depressed on it likely means you are not good at playing “pretend”, and don't have good social skills which require that. Your sense of identity is weak, and perhaps you are codependent. You have learnt to put your being self to the background. You have forgotten the basic rule of “give and take”: you have to give to others so as to take for yourself. And you have gotten used to being lazy with your social obligations.It is good to celebrate even if no one gives a damn. You have to organize your own party. Don’t expect others to cheer for you. Aren’t you happy you are alive? You celebrate your birthday for yourself, first of all.Your birthday is the day where you praise your birth, your existence and your presence. It is the day where you say “I exist too mothaf***as. I am here too.”You have to beat the drum and make others dance to it, especially on your birthday. Birthdays are symbolic, yet mutually symbolic, so they count.Get into the habit of preparing for your birthday party. Note the date for yourself first, 2 weeks earlier in your calendar. Find a place to go to celebrate, and something to do. And treat them to something. Prepare a list of people you would like to invite, and then start inviting them in advance. This way you will feel a lot happier every year on your birthday.
My boyfriend never buys me any gifts. Is it normal if I feel upset?
It depends on the reasons. If he loves you, then whether he gets you gifts or not shouldn’t really matter. If it’s a sign of lack of feelings, then, of course, it would be a reason to be upset.I can’t know what his reasons are. But, no, in itself, it’s not a reason to get upset. He may not do it because he may feel that what’s between you is awesome and doesn’t require ‘gift giving’ to validate it. He may even not do it because he knows you want it and wants you to appreciate him for himself, just being with him and his affection for you, and not to only like him for what he buys you.I’ve occasionally experienced, as a westerner living in Russia, Russian women who feel you’re only a valid partner if you spend a lot on them, and that just made me want to spend nothing on them, or to even get away from them as quick as possible, because I wanted to be appreciated for myself, and for them to appreciate being with me, not what material things it got them. When I actually feel the person likes me for myself, is just happy to be with me, and doesn’t need anything else from me, then I like to do nice things for them, get them gifts, whatever, but it can never come out of feeling that it’s expected of you. No one likes to feel they have to ‘pay’ to be ‘liked’.
My parents are trying to make me do chores?
Who Cares.Do your CHORES,remind your parents to pay you and brother,if they don`t pay then do not do CHORES.