Why does my aunt hate me so much!?
Ok so my aunt lives in our house, and she absolutely hates my guts. I have no I dea why. She's always calling me names and tells me how I dress and look a whore/slut. She is always snitching about me to my parents so that I will get in trouble. She's really offensive. Sometimes I will talk back to her and call her names too cuz it really pisses me off how she hates me for no reason. I've tried telling my parents about her but they won't believe me. I am a very good child. I get good grades, listen to my parents, and respect them. I just don't understand my aunt... Can someone help me?
Why doesn't My aunt like Me?
My aunt always talking about how quiet I am when her brothers are quiet and so was her mother. My mom says she always expects the worst from me. She never really talks to me just to tell me I don't talk and how quiet I am. She mostly talks to my Father and my Brother who are both quiet and her husband is extremely quiet. She never criticizes other people for being quiet just me. I am just naturally quiet because it's been inherited. Why won't my aunt leave me alone?
Why is my aunt trying to control my whole life?
I won't go into depth about it, but I've been having a really rough time and haven't been going to school because of severe social anxiety and depression. Anyway, at first my aunt came out of nowhere and started telling me she kind of went through the same thing, and it looked like she wanted to help. It didn't bother me. Soon, she was calling to make sure I went to school. If I didn't, she would call and lecture me, or make me feel guilty when it's basically out of my control. So this morning, she came over to drop her daughter off and found me still sleeping..my mom told me she was going to bring me in late because I didn't get any sleep (I'm also an insomniac). She started yelling at me about how my parents were going to call social services on me if I didn't get up and go to school, and how I'm gonna be with all the "white trash" people who have to go down there...and she threatened to call them herself. Then she told me I had 10 minutes to get ready, and she just left. Well that conversation was worse than it sounded on here....and it left me almost suicidal, and I started blaming myself for everything that's happened here. I'm over that now, but I don't know who she thinks she is, just coming in here and yelling at me. I have my mother, grandparents, and even my father (who I don't even live with), making me feel almost the same way about this. Ugh I'm so frustrated...why is she trying to make my life worse? By the way, don't say anything about the school issue. That's not what I'm asking, but I know some of you will try.
How do you handle uncles and aunts who often put you down & try to prove that they and their kids are superior or better than your parents or you?
Mr. R uncle used to say it to a 5-8 year old me every Diwali, “I bought 500 rupees worth crackers for my children. What did your father get you?”I, feeling ashamed of buying 50 rupees worth cracker, used to come running to Mummy.Later I understood, he never bullies when Mummy, Papa or Sisters are around.Solution: Follow Elephant Herds TechniqueAvoid getting isolated from your team. You are an easy prey when you are alone.Mrs. R Aunt was a bully to even a higher scale. She used to tease me for my dark complexion over her and her kids’ fairness till I started crying.I learned it fast, I used to start crying loudly whenever she opened her mouth. Soon she was seen avoiding my acquaintanceship.Solution: Cry loudly. Fake it till you make it.My X-grand mother in law went to see a new born kid of a neighbor and commented that,“Oh my God! Your baby is so dark.”“Ee Maa!! Tor bachcha ki kaala kutkuta hoyese.”They showed her the way out, came to our place and complained about her and she was banned in the entire neighborhood.Solution: BAN THEMAnother Aunt always belittled my Mummy that she has three daughters and Aunt has 2 sons. She even said, “My sons are my fixed deposits.”Mummy never replied back.Aunt is in no-talking terms with both her sons now.Solution: IgnoreAnd let Karma do the RestThanks for A2A Reena Shah
My aunt HATES me?
You know what...........dont even try getting your wicked aunt to like you!! She is a witch and shes jealous you are prettier than her daughter!!!! Don speak to her when she comes round!!! Dont try and make someone like that like you...........!!! Your mom or dad need to say something my mom would go mad if my aunt did something like that to me!!!!!!!!!! I would not like to think what my mom would say to her!!! Shes an adult and should not make her niece feel like this!! The stupid cow...I'm really angry and upset for you.
My aunt tried to seduce me help?
If this isn't a troll listen to this. Tell your aunt that it's wrong to touch family members especially minors that way. If she doesn't listen, and even tries to do it again. Please tell an adult, and/or call the police. Tell an adult first, so they know about this. No matter how much you love her if it comes to this you have to get her away from you, and in jail, so she can't touch you again. If you are hesitant to call the police on your aunt consider a therapist for her. They won't judge, and would try to help her. I would try to see if you could help her first if she refuses help, and keeps you touching you call the police they'll settle it, and she won't do it anymore. I wish you good luck. If you're a troll next time add more material.