My boyfriends friends hate me?
my boyfriend his friends hate me idk why but i am scared that they are gunna pressure him into doing things like cheating on me they always are getting drunk together and there are girls there with them and people dont know what they are doing when they are drunk but i just hope his friends dont let him or make him do something...........what do i do?
Why does my boyfriends friend hate me?
I was in similar boat when I got together with current boyfriend. I knew a lot of his friends longer than the boyfriend and one guy and I just never saw eye to eye. With that being said, the boyfriend told his friends flat out “ I don’t care if you don’t like her, I don’t want to hear you talking shit about her though” that was five years ago. The one guy who doesnt like me keeps his mouth shut but yet helps us if it’s needed. One day the boyfriend and his buddy were at work and I ended up in the hospital and that friend drove my boyfriend to the hospital and drove us home.Honesyly dont worry about his friend. You’re dating your boyfriend not the friend. Just don’t talk shit
Why do my boyfriend's friends hate me?
I read somewhere that, on average, we lose two friendships every time we take on a new romantic relationship. Some things are simply out of your control; it doesn’t mean anyone is a real “bad guy,” it’s just a statistical artifact of the human experience.It’s possible that, when you and your boyfriend got together, the dynamic of the social group changed in a way that they don’t like. It’s possible that they’re blaming you unfairly. But it’s also possible that the dynamic really did change and that you don’t realize how much your own behavior has contributed to that change.It’s also possible that it doesn’t matter. My wife and I lost a few friendships when we first started dating because people had their own ideas about us. In the end, it doesn’t matter that we lost those friends. We have a beautiful life together and a wonderful child. I wouldn’t trade all that for the friends I had before we met. Not everyone is destined to like you and sanction all your choices. Being an adult means coming to grips with that. It’s okay. The people who like you will stick around.
My boyfriend's friends hate me, what do I do?
In life individuals have different reason for liking people and trust me everyone won't like you. Being yourself is the person he found attractive don't try to change your ways or put on anything for his friends to like, thats a first pointer. Now they aren't use to changes; you are fresh on the block, so be yourself if they are speaking about her accidentally dont let that bother you, ask about her, let them know you are not afraid to relate about you boyfriend's past, because here what she is not competition she is his past, dont start conflict, know when to back off and always remember this, not everyone is going to like you, but they can respect you, demand it. Dont care about what his friends think, because you would be shock to know that behind close doors they do snub each other although they behave like friends. Cheer up and ignore such behaviours.
My boyfriends friends hate me?
my boyfriends friends dont like me & i have no idea why. When my boyfriend and i first broke up it was because of his friends but now his friends hate me just cause he chose me over them. What shld i do?????
I hate my boyfriend's friends.?
i don't know if i should tell you to break up with him or not.. if he doesn't change anything for you, i would say, break up with him. Smoking is really unhealthy we all know that. I had a bad feeling about his friends. The more he hangs out with them, the more he becomes like them. The only reason we have drunk people or smoking people is not that they wanted to try and see why people like to do the bad stuff, its always the friends that change your life. My grandparents are the same, my grandma curses at my grandpa friends at young age because of them my grandpa smokes everyday. But they still love eachother, since they're old anyway. But she gets mad at my grandpa all the time.. If i were you, i wouldn't want to date that kind of guy. Every girl should feel happy, and make sure her man is all good enough for her. If this is troubling you, tell him your feelings. Ask him, do you love me enough that you can quit smoking? if he says no, then keep walking away. That's what i would do.. But if you love him more, more enough that you can accepted him whatever he do, then its your choice. But if your asking question that if you should break up with him! that shouldn't even come to your mind, unless there's a real problems. Then yess break uppp!!!!!!! my final answer :) good luck which one ever you choose..
My boyfriend's friends hate me....?
Hello everyone :) After breaking up with my boyfriend of 4 years I met this new guy named Alex. First, we started as friends and i never thought we would be more than just good friends - we always had a good laugh and fun. One day he asked me if i wanted to come to a gathering with his friends and i agreed. I took a friend of mine with me and went to meet them. At first it was ok they all were good to me (i guess they pretended as it turned out later) we went to a disco and had fun dancing and singing...until he asked me on that very same night to be his girlfriend. I was kinda surprised because i thought he took me for just a friend as i am not his type of girl i mean i don't wear much make-up,dont dress up like a wh*re [i am sorry for that word :)] i don't get drunk etc :))) yes,i admit he 's a bit shallow and acting like a kiddo even though he is turning 29 this year. I answered him that i would think about it. The next day we met and he said what his friends were talking about me,all the sh*t they said - ever since they try to separate us. He said they were afraid that i would take much of his time as he did with his previous girlfriends. So,we decided to go out without me being in their company as they totally rejected me. I admit i am not like his friends - i don't get drunk, don't have sex for money ...as if i am from another world to them LOL. Whenever he wants to have fun he chooses his friends over me - they go to disco together or to have a cup of coffee,we see each other three times a week. He said he didn't want to hear them how they offend me that's why he wouldn't take me with him. But there's one more thing he likes to flirt and there are many girls around him as a matter of fact one of the girls in his company is in love with him (she also said so many bad things about me without even knowing me). I asked him if he wanted us to break up and he said he didn't want to but if that was my will he would say yes. He said he couldn't change he said" that is my life,they are my friends" He doesn't stand up for me,we go out secretly as he is afraid not to see us together he also said his feelings grew smaller because of his friends' words ...I am confused. Shall i leave him or give us a try as we have been dating for a month and a half? I know he is immature for his age btw i am 26 - i feel so stupid because i have more courage than he does. I would appreciate any advice. Thanks in advance. P.S Sorry for my bad English if i made any mistakes hehe
My boyfriend's best friend hates me?
my boyfriend is an AWESOME guy, weve been together for a year and its been great. The only prob i have is that his best friend is really rude to me and is a total jerk. when i first met him he said straight out that the only reason my bf was with me was cuz i was easy and he was too lazy to go find a prettier girl to date. his exact words were "oh, so she slept with you on the first night and you didnt wanna have to try to get a hotter girl, so you just stuck with her, huh?" this was on our FIRST meeting. He also does drugs, sells drugs, all of that. He cant keep a job for more than a week; he says that the ppl there harassed him or his girlfriend, and made him quit. ive heard that excuse three times in the past month for why hes quit various jobs. when i talk to my bf about it, he defends him, and says that he was just joking. we are talkin about marriage, but i dont want tis friend to be a constant source of fighting. please help me, i dont know what to do!
My boyfriends best friends hate me? help!?
Here's my problem. I love my boyfriend a lot, and I'm pretty sure he loves me the same. But the thing that bothers me is his friends. Everytime my boyfriends friends are around, they make fun of me, call me names, say that I'm a "b*tch" and I treat my boyfriend like crap. (When I would NEVER!) My boyfriend acts like he doesn't hear them and we usually go somewhere where they aren't there. Recently, I found out that his friends say even worse things about me, BEHIND MY BACK! I've written many letters to my boyfriend telling him that when they say those things it really hurts me. But he doesn't bother answering my letters. So I confronted him in person and his answer was, "Oh, they've always been a**holes." 1. I love my boyfriend way too much to get rid of him 2. He loves HIS FRIENDS too much to get rid of them Please help me! What should I do? What should I say?