My mom is accusing me of stealing money from her?
Hi, recently y mother told me she forgot where she had hidden a sum of cash. Large too, she says it was 40k. Which shocked me because we're actually on the poorer side of the fence. We live in a mobile home. She had been giving me the silent treatment for a while and this was the reason why. But we got on good terms and I helped her look for it and we couldn't find it. Now she's changed from forgetting where she hid it to "I stole it". She also is saying now that she hid another sum of money and that it is incomplete; Accusing me of taking from it. I'm totally stumped and I can't even begin to reason with her because I can't get a word in at all. It really sucks because she's told everyone and everyone is giving me the "stink eye" Sorry, I don't really know my question, but what should I do? Just to add more detail, it's only me and her in the mobile home, she also mentioned she has 200k saved away somewhere. Which is a huge surprise she has that much money saved away. She accused me of trying to poison her. I'm not sure if she really has that much saved away, but when I was a child she never spent any money on us{me and my brother) even the child support from my father. So I see now she's been saving all this money for her retirement. Making us live in a trailer park where sex offendors and drug dealers live. a fight would occur once a week. I feel she needs to see a doctor for Dementia, but she seems fine otherwise. This episode seems very unreal.
My step dad is accusing me of stealing money that I never stole?
This morning my mom gave my step dad $200 for this thing they had to pay for(its like a couples thing long story..&im to lazy to explain lol)anyways yeah so he says there's only 180...and he didn't even ask me if i took it he just accused me ,so I called my mom(because she was at work)She never picked up after about like 10 phone calls,so I gave up on calling her cell because her work place said she hasn't arrived yet.Anyways about 10 min later she finally called back and He picked up the phone telling her that "I stole the money"And shes like what?because I don't steal and than I got really mad And yelled saying that i've never stolen anything in my life so why would I steal money from him?What should I do they don't believe me and i never even took it !I have a brother too and he never even asked him if he took it..Like wtf Oh and im fourteen and a girl btw.
My brother is accusing me of stealing?
hey my bro said he was missing 75 cents. and then he noticed that i had a soda. then he thought that i stole it for the pop. i told him i had money already and he pretty much didnt believe me and my other brother is known for stealing crap in the house which he knows yet he still thinks i stole his money what should i do? he acts like an idiot alot
My mother accused me of stealing...........?
I am 45 years old and my mother recently turned 70. Her home has been broken into several times by the same person in the last 4 years and this summer a large diamond pendent went missing from her purse. She had asked me (to my astonishment) if I had taken it and I swore on my husbands, cats, and my life that I did not. I was heartbroken that she even asked. My mother and I have always been extremely close and have always had a very loving relationship. For almost 2 months now I have been staying with her in the hopes that she would find some peace in that, no longer be alone and lonely. One day a few weeks ago I had lost my husbands wedding band (I wear it around my neck while he's working out of town so he doesn't rip his finger off) and when I lifted the sofa cushion I found my moms pendent. I was so excited and believed that she would be extremely happy to have it back. It had broken her heart when it went missing. Yesterday to my astonishment she accused me of stealing it and said that I had 'planted' it under the cushion. Her reasoning is that I couldn't wear it while I am in her company. She also thinks I may have pawned it just so I could have my hair highlighted. I would like to state that my hubby makes a very good living and I can afford to buy almost anything I want, not to mention that I already have the same exact pendent but smaller that my hubby gave me for our 20th wedding anniversary. Here is my question. I was so offended and hurt that I blew up and we got into a huge fight and I left and am moving out. She thinks I'm being a baby and that I am disrespecting her by refusing to admit to stealing it and by moving out, plus by yelling back at her. I want to be clear about this, I did NOT steal and I would never steal, especially from my own mother. How offended, hurt and angry would you be in my position? Would you move out also? Would you admit to stealing (when you did not) just to make peace? I've cried all night and my nerves are as frayed as they can be. BTW, yesterday also happened to be the anniversary of my fathers passing. Trust me, that bothered me more than it did her and I really don't think she ever thought about it. Tuesday will be my birthday which is also when my father was laid to rest, this is a very difficult time of year for me. Please only serious answers only as I'm in a very vulnerable place right now. I could really use some advice or input.
What do I do if I caught my brother stealing my money?
Well, your short-term problem will be over in two weeks when he goes into the Army. In the meantime, I don't see the benefit of confronting him at this point. He will only deny it and you will not get your money or items back. For now you need to secure all your valuables for the next two weeks. If you cannot lock your room, get a lockbox that can be attached to the wall. Or ask a trusted friend to hold your things for a couple of weeks. I know many people whose lives were straightened out by the discipline they learned in the service. Hopefully your brother will be one of them. But don't assume he has changed when he comes home on leave or after his service. Secure your belongings for a while until he can show if he is a changed man. Growing up, one of my sisters went through a phase of taking my belongings. I put a lock on my door and my mother complained. I told her I would take it down if she would stop my sister from stealing my things. The lock stayed on.
Being accused of stealing someones dog...?
Me and my little brother were out walking our dogs and just out of nowhere someone shouted at us to stop. Some lady came running towards us with a dude not far behind. She asked me how I got "her" dog and I simply replied "this isn't your dog." She said someone stole the dog from her months ago and she hasn't seen it since. Rather then bicker back and forth with a grown woman I told my brother that it was time to go back home. She proceeded to follow us back to our house and told the guy she was with to go grab her cell phone because she was calling the police. Even worse a group of kids (assuming hers) ran up and started calling the dog "athena" and trying to pull the leash out of my hand. I live in the "ghetto," "hood" or whatever people are calling it these days and dogs of all type run the neighborhood. My dog is a Yorkie and I got her for my 14th birthday. I'm not sure where my parents got her from (they said a breeder) but I have had her for 8 months. So when we made it back to the house I went in and told my mom and she went out and talked to the woman and police and after the police went through pictures of the dog with us and vet records they said they couldn't do anything. Oddly enough this is the second time someone has tried to claim the dog as theirs. Geez I have 4 other dogs (2 pits, a Newfoundland, and Beagle), I wonder why anyone hasn't tried to take a crack at them yet? My question is this: What do I do to protect my dog now?
My wife's sister has accused my wife of stealing cash from their father. I know that is a lie. What should I do?
Why to you feel you need to do anything? Just keep loving your wife but don't fight her battles if not asked to do so.
Can I sue Wal-mart for being accused of stealing?
long story short, this security guy calls after me right when i was leaving walmart to ask me a "simple question". He said that he saw me take a product and not put it back. My mom demanded to see the camera since he mentioned he got me and my little sister on tape. So he took us to the back and showed us the camera. He asked me if I did put it back and I said "yes". He let us go after that but I feel SO offended that I was accused of being a criminal. Many people saw me going into the back, and I dont know how many people think I', some kind of a criminal now because of that. Even using my little sister to help steal. I dont want to exaggerate, but this feeling of uneasiness will stay with me every time my family and I go to wal-mart now. My mom really wants to sue them, maybe try and change their security policy or just the way they treated me.
How can my loving boyfriend accuse me of stealing and cheating constantly, but other than that he treats me so well?
When a person treats you well in one context then turns around and treats you badly in another context, we call this abuse. This is a particularly nasty kind of abuse because it keeps you off guard and is actually more powerful in keeping you bound to him than it would be if he were mean to you all the time. He has set up a situation where, instead of being hurt and angry that he is mean to you all the time, you believe he loves you and you work even harder to make him treat you with this “love” which he withholds from you. This isn’t really love. This is just him jerking you around whenever he feels like it.The technical term for it in psychology is intermittent reinforcement. If you reward an animal with a food pellet once in awhile when it performs an action you want, it is more powerful than if you reward the animal each time it performs the action. If your boyfriend rewards you some of the time for behavior he likes, then it makes you even more eager to do stuff to make him happy. He may not even know he’s doing it. He just knows it works.Anyway, he’s an abuser and abusers don’t get better. They usually escalate. Chances are good that the harder you try, the nastier he will get. You should think about leaving him before it gets too bad.