My brother beats me,what should I do?
I know this is quite a late answer.. But yesterday both of my 14 year old brother beat me and my 20 year old sister up. I'm 17. They are much more stronger than us and they had planned the whole thing out. They left us bleeding bruised and hair pulled in every direction. After my dad saw us on my bedroom floor having an asthma attack, he was still convinced it was my fault. They attacked me first and then my big sister. I rang the police even though I knew they were my brothers. It's cruel in some minds but when your the one bleeding and bruised everywhere then you'd understand. It's the next day and I'm not living at home anymore but at a friend's. I'm still bruised and my hair roots are so weak whenever I comb my hair a hand full of hair falls out. I advise u to call the police as soon as possible. Don't let him control you. I'm front an Pakistani family and calling the police is morally wrong to them especially of our is because of your family, despite what they've done.
What do you do when your older brother beats you up?
So me and my brother are home schooled. And my dad works full time, he dosnt really have a schedule and we dont really talk about anything. I am a girl and i am two years younger than my brother, (we are 14 and16.) He is much stronger than me and he knows it.. And about once a month he will start annoying the h*ll out of me until i say stop at least 30 times. I eventually end up slapping him and he starts going to town... But today while he had a knee on my back and was punching my sides i ended up kicking him pretty hard in the chest, he didnt like that at all... He got this burning look in his eyes and really started punching me. i was crying and i ended up just screaming and flailing my arms around, hoping the neighbors would hear. But he just stopped and got up and started watching tv. I finally called my dad, who was at work, and told him everything and that i wanted him to come home. He told me to go into his room lock the door and wait for him to get home. So here i am sitting here on my iPad crying my eyes out and feeling like sh*t. Usually i end up sucking it up and not saying anything, but it really has gone on to long... What should i say to my dad? What should i do if my dad wont talk about it? What should i do if we do talk and nothing happens? Could i go to a boarding school or just leave or something cause im really fed up wih all these problems and nobody adressing anything, and then my brother yelling at me for tattling!? it really sucks and i could use any advice! Thanks in advance for your (hopefully) helpful answers!
Why do I hate my brother so much?
I have the same problem. Its gotten to the point where he makes comments like, you will regret treating me like this for the rest of your life and its not fair that you treat me like this. The only thing I do is give one word answers and not really respond. My reasons for acting the way I do started in middle school. He would steal my mothers quarters and silver change to get sodas at school and blame me for the missing change, I had no proof that I could use to prove my innocence so I let it go……. this happened at least twice that I can remember. Literally 10 years later I learned that he was coming into my room at night and stealing my debit card. This freak would withdraw money from ATMs and put my debit card back in the morning. He stole at least 300 that I have found so far. Apparently he made a bad investment, he also sold the Wii among other things. When I try to talk to my mom about this she defends him. Now its 2 years later, he goes to work and comes home to smoke weed. He leaves his laundry on the floor in the bathroom instead of using the hamper which is right next to the washer, he does not do any chores, he thinks cleaning up the kitchen means putting everything in the sink and waiting for it to magically disappear. I can no longer talk to my mother about this problem because she will say he does what I tell him to (when pigs fly) and I don’t want to talk about this anymore. The frustration has built up inside me sing I was 12 (Im 26 now) Im not sure what do do about this now. All I can say is that I have no love for this pot head residing in the room next door. All the advice I can give to you is to:A. Talk to your parents in a very adult manner, give them a impression for concernB. Get therapy (Its all I got right now)
What should I do when my brother hits me?
My Indian brother is the same. He was verbally and physically abusive and has slapped, punched , kicked me; called me a 'bitch' and much much worse. I've cut him off from my life and my heart. I no longer speak to him or acknowledge that he is alive and do not consider him my sibling. Your parents are cowardly. The typical Indian parents who favor the son and indirectly shift the responsibility for his violent behavior on to your head. Mine were the same. It's NOT your fault. Your brother has mental issues and he is venting on you, using you as a punching bag. Your parents are NOT protecting you as they should. By blaming you and not rebuking your brother, they are reinforcing your brother's violent behavior. My advice is IGNORE and STAY AWAY from him. DO NOT let him hurt you physically. STOP talking to your brother. PRETEND that he does not exist. Keep your interactions with him minimal. If he tries to start an argument with you DO NOT engage him, ignore him, go to your room and lock the door. Study hard, get a job and move out.
I'm going to kill myself today. but i thought i'll give myself a last chance?
was so excited for that but i had a problem(a really big one) which i wanted to share with my mom but she won't even listen she was going on and on about what i was gonna wear for the function. and then my brother who's same as everyone else came and asked me for something and whoa! she's listens to it at once and tells me to give it to him! what do you think this is. that burst me out and i shouted on her and see what she does !she started beating me like hell. and then shouts on me to tell her my problem i don't it would be possible for anyone in the world to discuss a serious problem wid such an attitude. all of them are trying to think of their on stupid reasns on y i'm behaving that way. Imagine wat my sis said- she said i'm not going to the func bcoz of my pimples and my mom she said bcoz i was jealous of my brother.they can't even imagine that i can have a serious problem. its a psychological problem i'm fed up of everythong. y!ans suggested me to discuss it wid my parents but t
How come my younger sister has stronger legs than me?
I'm a 25 year old male and both me and my 20 year old sister are in fairly good shape. However, over the past couple of years, her legs have been getting pretty muscular and defined while mine just stay very skinny. I've been noticing but was hoping she wasn't. Yesterday I was at my parents house and both me and my sister were sitting on the couch. She challenged me to this leg wrestling thing where we both laid on our backs, pushed our feet against each others, and tried to push the other one's legs back. I felt like I was trying to push steel. She easily not only pushed my legs back within seconds but she pushed me right off the couch. Getting beaten in a strength contest by someone younger than me + female + sister = the most humiliating thing I ever experienced and it didn't help that she was giggling about it. She's not some big girl or anything either she can't weigh more than 130 pounds. How is this possible? Please don't just tell me that I'm a wimp, because she already proved that to me, I was just wondering how this is scientifically possible. I always thought that when guys and girls grow up the guys are supposed to always be much stronger than the women are.
At what age do boys become stronger than girls?
When we were kids my younger sister was always stronger than me but now I'm 16 and she's 14 and we arm-wrestled twice yesterday and she beat me easily both times. I'm 5'11 190 and she's probably 5'6 150 so it's not like she's bigger than me. I thought by age 16 boys were just biologically stronger than girls especially if the girl is a couple of years younger. It was pretty embarrassing. How much longer until I'm stronger than her?