My brother always treats me bad. What do I do?
Today I was in an important call with my work and my brother kept laughing and making remarks about everything I would say while I was in an important phone call so I kicked him out of my room. He wasnt listening to me and wouldn't get out so I began screaming to him to get out. I didn't slap him or hit him or touched him at all. He got out not taking me seriously. Then time passed and I had to go to an important meeting for work and me being only 15 I don't have a car nor a license to drive myself so I asked him to take me and he said "no after you kicked me out of your room like that" and I think that is extremely unfair because first of all it's my room and if I want him to leave he can and he wasnt listening to me so I began shouting at him to leave only because he was being disrespectful. And now I can't go to the meeting because he took it so personally. I got really mad and I started crying so I went into his room and messed up his entire bed and took the bed out of the box and completely messed it up and wrote a note ontop of it all saying I hate you. I don't actually hate him but right now I really really do. I know 2 wrongs don't make a right but I just feel so much better now that I took my anger out like this. This is the only thing I can do to him without any physical contact. He went to pick my mom up from work so I'm beginning to mentally prepare myself for the fireworks. Did I mention the slight fact that he's 21 years old and like 180 pounds and I'm a 120 pound 15 year old girl.? Any advice? Did I do right? If I don't do this it's like standing still while being shot and no matter what my parents do he is always going to treat me like this. There are times we really get along but we get along just as much as we fight. What do I do?
Why does my brother treat me like crap?
For the past few months my little brother (he's 13 I'm 17) has been treating me really really bad and really hurts my feelings. I'm actually crying right now. Me and him used to be so close and would just sit and talk for hours and would have sleepovers in each others rooms and just laugh together. I miss that so much. But recently he's just been insulting and degrading me. Comments on what I wear in a negative way, gives me dirty looks whenever I hum or sing and tells me he doesn't want to hear my awful singing. Today me, him and my dad were selling spirit wear at a middle school orientation and he kept saying "we aren't getting any sales because Ericka is here" and then I put on one of the hats we were trying to sell and he said "now no one is going to by it because you've touched it" and he randomly calls me stupid and fat. He won't watch tv with my mom if I'm in her room with her. I just don't know what to do it just breaks my heart. I miss him
Why do I hate my brother so much?
I have the same problem. Its gotten to the point where he makes comments like, you will regret treating me like this for the rest of your life and its not fair that you treat me like this. The only thing I do is give one word answers and not really respond. My reasons for acting the way I do started in middle school. He would steal my mothers quarters and silver change to get sodas at school and blame me for the missing change, I had no proof that I could use to prove my innocence so I let it go……. this happened at least twice that I can remember. Literally 10 years later I learned that he was coming into my room at night and stealing my debit card. This freak would withdraw money from ATMs and put my debit card back in the morning. He stole at least 300 that I have found so far. Apparently he made a bad investment, he also sold the Wii among other things. When I try to talk to my mom about this she defends him. Now its 2 years later, he goes to work and comes home to smoke weed. He leaves his laundry on the floor in the bathroom instead of using the hamper which is right next to the washer, he does not do any chores, he thinks cleaning up the kitchen means putting everything in the sink and waiting for it to magically disappear. I can no longer talk to my mother about this problem because she will say he does what I tell him to (when pigs fly) and I don’t want to talk about this anymore. The frustration has built up inside me sing I was 12 (Im 26 now) Im not sure what do do about this now. All I can say is that I have no love for this pot head residing in the room next door. All the advice I can give to you is to:A. Talk to your parents in a very adult manner, give them a impression for concernB. Get therapy (Its all I got right now)
Why do my parents treat me like garbage but my brother like a king?
Im 17 and my brother is 9. My parents have no other kids but him and I and they ALWAYS treat him so much better than me. He is not disciplined at all. He doesn t listen worth a damn and he treats everyone like they re below him even family! He talks to everyone with disrespect and very rude like and my parents(basically mom) does nothing about it she just tells him to stop. My mom lets him do whatever he wants and she never tells my dad when he does something wrong! He talks to her with utter disrespect every day. My brother is very misbehaved and she doesn t try to do anything about it. She blames me for the way he acts everyday and tells me to stop when I didn t even start it. My brother is always lying yo her telling her I hit him and punched him when I never even laid a hand on him. She treats him like a king like when he gets home from school she tells him everyday she is so proud of him and he doesn t even do that well he just gets by I m doing homeschool and making really great grades and she does not even tell me she s proud of me why does she always treat me like this it s a load of crap she lets him do ever he wants and he runs all over everyone and she doesn t do a thing but my dad will actually do something when he s home but he never really is because he works a lot and he s on business a lot she blames me for the way he acts because I was mean to him one time in the past and she blames it on me everyday when he starts at she says its my fault he s like this
My brother treats my mom really badly?
He just yells at her, and says she does nothing for him. He is 19, and my parents have been there for him his entire life (even through his drug problems and when he would rob us blind). My parents are probably going through a divorce (living separately for about a week). My dad is trying to make us hate my mom, and same goes as my mom with my dad (they are settle about it, just make each other sound really bad). Anyway-- he says all kinds of really hurtful things to her, and I know he's killing her with every word he says. And as much as I try to stress my points to him, he just continues. Mostly because she doesn't give him money at every beckon. He's 19 and doesn't work, and hasn't for years. He hasn't yet finished high school since he was at a juvenile jail like place for about 6 months and never returned. What can I do to make him stop?
What should I do about my brother who treats me and my mom like animals and basically runs our home?
Your mother is partly to blame, obviously your brother is an overweight selfish lump, who might have some mental issues, but these issues have been aggravated by the fact that your mother has continually enabled your brother, my suggestion is this, the next time your brother does anything abusive, call the police and the mobile crisis unit (they deal with mentally ill people with emergencies), call the social services as well. As a parent your mother has a duty to see to the care and safety of all her children, the fact that she has allowed your brother to terrorize the family to this extent means that she is either unable or unwilling to get help for him, my greatest concern is for your safety, so tell your mother that nothing good ever came from a possibly mentally ill ,violent, person who is hiding potential weapons.Your safety should be of equal concern to her,so if seeing the boys in blue will trigger a heart attack, that's OK, EMS will be right behind them to resuscitate her. The other option would be to move in with a sane relative, where is your dad in all this ? is living with him an option ?
Why is my brother treated better than me? PLEASE HELP!?!?
My family is always so unfair to me, and I'm not even kidding! My Dad treats me fairly, but my parents are divorced, and I don't live with him. My mom is always asking me to do everything (like my brother's chores, cook dinner, clean the house, etc.) because she says my brother is "irresponsible". And she says this as if letting him play video games and Facebooking people will make him more responsible. Every time she grounds him he gets to do stuff anyways, but when I'm grounded, I'm not allowed out of my room. Neither of them ever knock when they want to come in my room, they both just barge in and demand to know what I'm doing. And for some reason my Mom always thinks I'm doing drugs, even though I'm not. My brother gets special treatment when he's sick, and I still have to go to school. The worst is my brother; when he gets bored, it's suddenly okay to beat me up or tell me I suck at everything. He constantly makes fun of me and I honestly don't think he's said anything nice to me in three years. He always takes my stuff to get my attention and never lets me have it back until I give him something, and he gets wicked defensive whenever I bring up his bitchy attitude! I play piano, and whenever I start playing, he comes into my room (without knocking) and starts booing me and telling me I suck! I've tried talking to my mom about it. Just five minutes ago I asked her why she was always screwing me over. (I told her everything here.) She just got really defensive and told me I was being really mean and refused to talk to me. I'm so stressed out and sick of my family walking all over me. Why do they treat me this way?