Why did my crush say hi then look away?
The last time I saw her, I was at her house. When I first walked in, she was watching TV. I said "hello" to her and a second or two later she looked over at me and said "hi" back. Before I could say anything else, she was back to watching TV again. Could it mean she likes me and is just shy? After all, she does other things such as looking at me when I’m not looking at her, mimicking me, asks people she knows questions about me, shows concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, blushing around me, etc.
Do shy guys want girls to make the first move?
Do shy guys ever ask out girls? My crush is super shy. He flirts with me all the time and he always tries to sit beside me in the class. But he never really talk to me and even if I talk to him he gets really nervous and he cannot speak to me more than two or three words. But still he flirts with me through gestures. This has been happening for quite a long time and I don't know what to make out of his behavior. Does he want me to make the first move? Do shy guys never ask out the girl they like even if they are genuinely interested in her and have strong feelings for her? Also how long can they hide their feelings?
Should I wait for my crush to make the first move?
Well, you are going off of what your best friend said. Honestly, I don't think that her brother would tell her how he really feels about you, so in my opinion you should tell HIM how YOU feel and ask if he feels the same (in private of course), instead of going off of what your friend told you. GUYS NEVER TELL ANYBODY HOW THEY TRULY FEEL ABOUT A CERTAIN GIRL, especially if they don't know if that girl likes them back, they don't want to be publicly rejected (no one does). I know it may seem that it's gunna be too risky or whatever, BUT it's NOT. Trust me it's worth just straight out asking him YOURSELF, even if he doesn't like you back, finding out now won't hurt as bad as it would if you did in a long ways in the future after your crush on him has grown more, I hope that made sense..
Why do you cancers never make the first move?
Thanks guys for all of your help. C.C., I guess I will have to make the first move. I'm so nervous but I will try. I'm so nervous I hope that he doesn't reject me. Like the other poster said, he hasn't made the first move so perhaps he doesn't like me that much.
What do guys think when girls make the first move? Also is it intimidating to talk to a girl older than you?
We love it. Well, maybe some don’t, but whenever it’s been talked about in my hearing, there’s pretty much universal agreement. It’s intensely flattering. No need to pluck up courage to make the first move & risk rejection. And what does it say about your appeal? A woman has noticed you, & thought “I want that” without you having to show off to her, pursue her, persuade her, woo her. She’s impressed enough by you that she wants you. What’s not to like?And what does it say about her? She’s confident & self-assured. That’s sexy - unless you’re the sort of bloke who’s scared easily, & wants a woman he can dominate easily.My wife chased me for a while before I gave in. ;)BTW, I hadn’t been involved with any girls for a long time before I met my wife. It would have been inappropriate at my age.Why would it be intimidating to talk to someone older than yourself? Odd question.
If both you and your crush are dead shy, who should make the first move? And if it's me, the girl, then how would I initiate it?
If both you and your crush are dead shy, who should make the first move? And if it's me, the girl, then how would I initiate it?My crush is very, very shy. I pretend to be chatty, but around him, I go tongue- tied. I am so bad at this, and it doesn't help that he is even shyer and therefore the little conversation we exchange is awkward! I don't know how to make the first move and even then he might be too scared to commit!Whoever's got the guts to make the first move should make the first move. And if it's you (regardless of your status as "the girl"), you should initiate however you feel comfortable.If both of you are too scared to make a move, what do you think is going to happen?Nothing is going to happen. You're going to keep feeling scared and nothing is ever going to happen. And probably in a few years you'll find yourself as one of those people on Quora asking "I'm X years old and I've never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, why?" whose question details explain that they're very shy and can never talk to anyone and are just sitting around waiting for some wonderful person to sweep them off their feet. Life doesn't work like that. You take risks or you don't get any rewards.You make the first move by doing something kind and friendly like "hey, want to get coffee with me after school?" and then unless you get an actual "no, I'm not interested", you don't second guess everything he says."I'm busy, maybe another time" doesn't mean "never never never because I hate you". It means "I'm busy, maybe another time". And if he's too scared to commit, fuck him. Life is too short to spend with people who are scared to commit to you.
I don’t mean to be sexist, but is it wrong if I want my crush to make the first move?
Speaking from the perspective of "the older generstion,” the woman has ALWAYS made the first move. Even if you desire for your crush to make the first move, you can signal that you would say YES if he were to ask you out. That is the flirting part, which it sounds like you are well on your way with. Most men want to feel confident that their ask isn't going to be met with rejection.Here is a possible next-step scenario. As you talk/text , drop BIG hints about what you want to do that afternoon or weekend—-see that movie, go to that concert, hang out at the park, etc. Then ask, "Are you going?”, even if has given you absolutely no hint that he might even be interested. He can conveniently ask you right then. You just tee up the ball so he can hit it.It’s the old-fashioned way, but it has been working for a very long time. It might be un-feminist, but it sounds like there is something inside you that wants to feel “chosen. “ And there is something inside most young men that makes them want to feel like they did the choosing.
He likes me but he is too shy. Should I talk to him first or just wait?
Boys are weird. We're daring and mischievous. We do the craziest shit when we're around all our Bro's. Do NOT say we can't do something. No matter what it is, we'll prove you wrong, or at least attempt to...But when it comes to girls....Oh man, the confidence and the Alpha persona just disappears!The girls then become the Alpha. We are now Beta.SO.Talk to him first. It will help him become more comfortable with you. The more you just go up and talk to him, the more he will warm up to being more open with you in conversation.He may have a loss for words some times, or not know what to say. Don' t pay attention to that. Act like it's not happening. If he's having a hard time answering a question, change the subject, you can go back to it later.He might have a hard time talking with you simply because he's an introvert, socially awkward, or even just because some guys are not great at talking with girls. Like me.My current girlfriend, when I kissed her for the first time, she plain out said "Damn, took you long enough". We laughed about it. Even though I'm 27 now. And ALWAYS ALPHA AS SHIT. I can be "suppressed" so to speak around females. I ALWAYS have a hard time with initiation.Going to the movies the first time: - Shit... should I like... hold her hand.. no its too soon! shes going to be like WTF DUDE! and hate me! I don't want to come on to her!This is a real thing. Its a date. Hold her hand. (Or grab his, I promise he wont mind. And I kind of think its cuter sometimes)Dropping her off at her house or departing after a planned meeting for the first time: - Fuck... Its almost over! I didn't hold her hand! That DEFINITELY means a kiss is out of the question! But a hug?... I have a chance still!! (girl fumbling with keys) Stands there awkwardly*Yep. Again. This is a real thing. Now, I can say you probably shouldn't initiate the first kiss. If he's having a problem with that. Go ahead with that hug. He will appreciate it and not hate himself later.These types of situations are real. I can not stress that enough. Every time something like that happens, hes going to go home and think about all the things he COULD have done.-GAH I'm so stupid! Why couldn't I just grab her hand!?But if you help with the little things. He will catch on. And he will. Eventually. Initiate that 1st whatever.
What are some signs that your crush wants sex???
Well, as only an acquaintance, I would say they had better make the first move, or you will look foolish as heck! You are not in a relationship and you want to have sex with an acquaintance. They just may take offense...so be prepared. The best way to know of ANYONE WANTS SEX WITH YOU IS TO SIMPLY ASK! GOOD LUCK