Help my dad acts like a teenager ?
I am 54 (and sing) whilst listening to loud music. I still go out with my friends. If you dad spends time you you and your family and does these things as well, you are one lucky girl because you dad still has zest for living. You would only need help if your dad does these things at the expense of caring for you, your mum and your siblings. If he is neglectful well that's another matter that your family (not just you should address).
WHY DOES MY DAD ACT SO WEIRD AROUND ME?? :' -(?
ok Im 16 and this just recently started. Im noticing my dad acting fake as if im looking at him or something. Everytime he passes me he looks at me like if im sitting at the table he looks at me but passing by. There was Another time when my whole family was in the store or mall. It was me my mom and my brother and him (my dad). My dad doesnt even walk with the family anymore when we go out. And thats not normal because usually he does but now he dosent and i know because he dosent want to be by me. When he talks to me its kind of weird because i know hes trying to talk to me like there no problem but there really is. And another time when we were watching a movie as a family he was sitting on the side couch and me my mom and my brother was sitting in front of the tv. He put his hand on his face and turned his whole head towards the tv obviously because i was in the room watching too. And the thing is when im not in the room he acts normal like the old dad but when i come in the room hes trying to act like normal but i know he just cant stand when im in the room because hes always put his hand on his face and turns away from my direction....it make me want to slap the sh*t outta him when he does that to me. And all the time he looks at me and tries to meet eyes with me but i ignore because its weird. Plus i miss the old dad of him... i dont know why he acts like this to me and i want to ask him why is he doing this to me but im really nervous. So what should i do because this is really making me upset ennoyed and angry.... P.s. also its not like i try to avoid him or somethin but its getting to that point because its just a weird presence between him and me when were in a room together also he starts to yell at me more thats his was of communicating with me now....
Why does my dad act like a dick? :/?
I find that your sort of situation happens to children who's parents have been divorced. In no instant is him treating you the way he does okay. I also understand that your mom wants her alone time. My situation was somewhat similar to yours, because I didn't want to go to my dad's either. I found that sitting my mom down, and explaining to her what I didn't like about going to my dad's and how it effected me really helped out a lot. I suggest you do the same...Sit your mom down, and just tell her everything good and bad about what you don't like going to your dad's and how it is really stressing you out and getting you down. I hope everything works out for you. Good Luck :D
Why is my dad acting like this?
Great question indeed - in the vagueness of the question itself is the hidden answer. Your dad is acting like that since he is different from you and others around in more ways than one. He may appear wrong to you since you are conditioned differently by your upbringing and environment as compared to him. Please remember that your heredity characters and traits are different too owing to differences in chromosomal chains. Ironically in this world of good and bad, no one is wrong. Since each one of us get our thoughts influenced by due to several factors such as - heredity factors, upbringing influences, environmental conditioning, the situational dynamics and more. We also experience life through what we read, hear, see, touch and speak through books, movies, news papers, videos and so on. We all experience life differently. Our thoughts are based on such life experiences. How can anyone be wrong just because they do not act the way we expect them to suit our own likes and dislikes?People's thoughts are based on their individual life experiences. So they are not wrong, just different. Your happiness is in accepting your dad as he is. Learn to understand as to what makes your dad think, feel and act the way he does. Your empathy for him will make you feel good about yourself. Don't think like everybody, learn to think different of your dad. YOu will find the best dad i him. God bless your understanding!
My dad acts crazy when he's drunk, what should i do?
I hate it when my dad drinks because I am scared of him,he doesnt hurt me or anything but he does throw a lot of things and sometimes break it, my brother doesnt seem to mind it but i do, its scary when he's drunk but im also concerned abt his health, he used to drink only on weekends but now its like everyday he's coming home drunk. When he's not drunk he apologizes to me about it and says he promises to quit but he never does, its the same thing over and over again, he says he drinks coz our mom passed away a few years ago, i knw its hard for all of us but that doesnt mean he should still get drunk after all these years,, i cant even enter the house anymore while he's still drunk so i stay at my friends place. What should i do?
My dad hates me. What do I do?
Sadly, its true that some parents actually do not like or may even hate their own child, or one of their children, or all of them. There are several reasons why that can happen, none of which are the child’s fault.Sometimes an emotionally immature parent will blame the child for their own sexual irresponsibility; the parent shifts the blame to the child for “trapping” them in a marriage that he or she didn’t really want.Sometimes, if the mother dies in childbirth, the father may blame the baby for “killing” his wife. That’s another example of emotional immaturity.Sometimes, the parent has a serious but untreated mental disorder like Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and hates their child for not being “perfect” enough, or the parent has an untreated psychotic disorder and develops negative delusional beliefs about their child.I recommend reading the book “Toxic Parents”, to learn how to create a healthy emotional distance from a parent who doesn’t love you, so that you can in effect become your own “good parent” and give yourself the love and validation that your parent can’t give you. Therapy can help.I found this short article to be interesting and relevant:Parents Who Hate Their Children: The Truth No One Wants to Admit
My dad is acting like a jerk?
Have you tried talking to your mom? Is she around for you? I know sometimes even when parents are 'there' tey are so gone. Can you sit him down and have a talk? Tell him you realize that he is upset with you oer mistakes you make, but you really don't do those things to annoy him, and that you love him very much but it hurts you when he yells like that. You may get a positive response, you may not He may be the type that has to think on it a while and see a sad commercial or two about life insurance before he 'gets it' . If you don't feel comfortable talking to him, sit down and both of you write him a letter, or if you have the equipment, make a video like you are talking and the camera is him. That way you can get your point across exactly the way you would like for him to hear it without interuptions and you can edit or make do-overs if what you say doesn't quite come across right. Good luck girls!
My dad almost hit my mom PLEASE HELP!?
This sounds exactly like how my family is exept there is no audultry. I suffered so much during high school because my parents made living at home, a nightmare. All you can do is just wait for the divorce to go through. If your dad does ever put a hand on anyone in your family, you must report him, you can't have that kind of behavior going on and it's certainly not acceptable. You and your mom deserve a lot better. I really hope the best for you!!! Good luck. Please E-mail me if you need anyone to talk to.