Why does my dad always stare at me?
The computer is in my dad's room, so im in here alot on the pc cause im bored as heck and have nothing to do but surf the net. Anyway, i've noticed that lots of time he'll be sitting behind me just looking at me. Or i'll show him a funny video on youtube, but I notice he's not looking at the screen.. he's just sitting there starring at me =/ He doesnt look at me in a bad way, just looks at me.. but it makes me feel uncomfortable. Why does he do this? Does anyone else have this problem?
My dad always looks at other women?
and he has a Chinese wife of three years who does so good for him. She cleans the house, she prepares the best dinners, does the laundry. Everything. And he's not appreciative at all. I even have to tell him to say thank you. Anyways, that was just a little backround info on their relationship. Whenever we go out to eat, he always stares at asian women. He'll always look up at there faces and whenever they walk infront he'll look down. It's becoming quite sickening. Even Gina (my step mom) notices and she glares at him, thats when he acts all innocent. Gina tells me he had a girlfriend I didn't know about in China. She also told me his co worker, May, had him over at midnight twice. I feel bad for Gina because she feels she needs to cook the best meals to please him so he won't go off and find another wife. She's doing everything for him. Yet he always looks for something better. My dad has an asian fettish by the way, well you probably already figured that out. But he and Ginas relationship isnt healthy. I can tell he doesn't love her like a normal married couple should love eachother. Is it wrong to look down on my dad? Dont get me wrong I still love him, It just makes me sick to see him looking at every single asian woman that passes by like a piece of meat.
Why does my dad always ignore me or look at me?
im only (12) but today my dad and i where going to get a car battery and i was talking with him but he just ignores me and when he ask me about something he doesnt even look at me its as if he hates me for being his child and everyday it makes me cry how he is always with my older brother having fun and im in my bed crying
Why does my dad always find a way to get mad at me for something and pick fights?
May be, he as well as you, both are Alpha personalities. So he likes his demands to be put into effect while you like yours.As of now I don't know your age. If you are someone who is of school age, my suggestion is to listen to his advice. He has lot more of worldly experience than you. But he would have grown up in 60s, 70s or 80s. So listen to his advice, progress it fast forward to 2018 and do it according to today's values.Listen to him and his suggestions if you are an adult. If he is a strong personality as he seems, if you listen and put in practice his advice you will also develop into a very strong independent woman. The world very much needs a lot of women voices as well.Always try to look at what he is saying than being dragged into emotional fights. Once he feels you are listening to what he says and values it, the fights will reduce and you will find a great mentor in your dad and your relationship with him will grow closer.See the wisdom behind his words and embrace it fully.All the very best! Regards,Swaroopa Blog.
What should I do when my dad always disagrees with me or puts me down?
Sounds like your dad needs an attitude adjustment. Stop going to him with things. Go straight to your mom, get her opinion and walk away...even if your dad is in the room. Hopefully soon he will get the hint and stop being rude. I'm all for different opinions and a healthy debate...but it's the deliver of the opinion that counts.
My dad always stares at me...?
I love my dad, but ever since I turned 14 I've caught him checking me out sometimes. It makes me feel so violated when people check me out because I was molested as a child. I was hell at the age of 14 and we fought constantly and when I would hit him he would hit me back, (he's not abusive, he was just brought up like that) usually on my butt, and it would make me feel so incredibly violated, but I was very skinny and I guess if he hit me anywhere else it would have hurt a lot more, but it still made me so uncomfortable. he doesn't do it as often as he used to (I used to wear pretty revealing clothing when I was 14+) but when he does I just get mad and yell "WHAT?" and he acts like he has no idea what I'm reffering to and it makes everyone uncomfortable, we share a tiny living space and I feel I have to constantly make sure I'm all covered up because of it. I don't have a mom and I can't talk to any of my friends about it because I love my dad and I don't want them to think badly of him, and I don't feel like I can confront him about it.. so I have no idea what to do. Please help.
Why does my dad stare at me all the time...?
I'm fourteen years old. I've recently noticed that my father stares at me ALL THE TIME. And he doesn't look away when I notice it. He just stares and stares and stares. My friend was over the other day, she noticed it and said she found it really weird... I don't know what to do about it. My mother is never home, i think she's somewhere in the Caribbean right now. I don't know. But I hate having her home anyway, and I can't talk to her about anything, she just yells. I've even asked him about it, told him to "stop staring at me all the time" and he just laughs. It really creeps me out, and I'm really beginning to worry about it. I mean, I've woken up to him just staring at me. More than once. The other day, I asked my dad for money because my friend's mother offered to take me shopping for bras/underwear since my mom isn't home. When I came back home, he asked, "Do you wanna show me what it was I paid for?" I disregarded it, but the more I think about it, the more it scares me. I don't know what to do about it, but I hate it. I don't know what to do. Anny advice?