Why does my dad always scold me?
I always get scolded by my dad and I'm not the eldest nor the youngest. He always gets mad at me for very petty and stupid things like not closing the bathroom lights even though none of my sibling do it, and because I wore my socks before letting them dry. I find him as a terrible parent, he NEVER AS IN NEVER scolds my sisters just because they're girl ( I'm not jealous ) and just because I am the eldest son not the eldest he always puts his anger at me, I never want to see him again after I have a stable job, (I'm a teen) i have no grudges against my mom, she was always there but my dad always expects too much from me and so he thinks i should be responsible, I hate how my relationship with my dad, I wish I could have a job and a house and live by myself already, I'm starting to hate my life at home especially when he comes home, I don't want to look him at the face anymore
Why is my dad always scolding me ?
my dad always scolds me , almost every single day . he doesnt scold my brother and treats him better he even got him a credit card but when i ask for one he tried to change the question ! he said im a house damaging queen which means im always making things spoiled but i do not .... it leads me to think that he thinks im useless and im a b**** when hes happy hell treat me great but not as good as how he treat my brother and he said he wanted to abandon me jokingly but it hurt me so much although its like a joke .... because girls are more sensitive than boys ... so probably boys wouldnt mind that but i do . today he yelled the crap out of me i just took a few vitamin capsules because i had scars and i wanna treat them plus my mum doesnt use it anymore and my dad dont even use it he just yelled at me to throw them away and said its so expensive but if its expensive why throw it away and i acted to throw some and went to the bathroom and cried . he just hurts my feelings so much like why dont he scold my brother but me why is it always me why is it so unfair ? i had to beg him for an iphone but my brother just had to ask him for a samsung galaxy s3 . he asked me to tidy my room and the table and yelled at me but its my room , my table . i told him my tutor isnt helping me at all i need a different tutor but he said to stick to that tutor because its cheap . but if he cared about my grades then he would change a tutor for me . he doesnt even care about my future then why do i even need a tutor if he doesnt care ? "because its expensive" it didnt help me too why dont he save the money ? why is he treating me like crap my brother doesnt have good grades and hes just those bad kids .
Why does my girlfriend always scold me even after I have tried my best and use abusive language to scold me?
No one in a relationship has a right to be abusive. Be it a girl or boy. If anyone is upset with any of the things in relationship there is always a decent way to communicate to the other person that it's hurtful and I wish you don't repeat it again. Even if you are scolding any body it's important to maintain a dignity and self respect of yours and your patner. Dear I would suggest you to come on terms with her. No relationship works with out respect. If she's doing so just make her understand strictly that this behaviour of hers won't b tolerated by you in future. Be firm and don't take any abuse from her. Loving and caring for someone never means you have to go through the torture everyday. Just ask her to change herself or the best way is to leave her on her own. In life you'll definitely get the love of your life but she's not the one. She doesn't deserve you as you deserve someone better than her.
My parents are always scolding me for something. What should I do?
Yes, someone rightly pointed out in an another answer that,Some are loving parents and some are scolding parents, but all of them have same love for their kids.Now, scolding cannot be stopped in a day or two. You have to change their mindset towards you. For that you need to:Get grounded for a month.Don't show any additional activity from your side towards anything.Mind your own business.Do only what is necessary during this period.Do not indulge in any debate with your parents, not even a positive one. Stay away.Mind your own business again.Do not fight with your siblings, instead teach them something new.Never raise your voice during this period.And again, mind your own business.And lastly, stay away from trouble. Sleep and Wake up early.That month would be an eye opener for you, because if you follow the above steps you would have so much energy, which you generally used to waste, that can be focused onto something productive, like your studies, sports, music, art and what not. Once you let your energy flow through the right channel you will start enjoying it. So, no more scolding. Scolding will start turning into appreciation.And then, there is no turning back.Hope my answer helps.Peace out✌️.
My mom always yells and scolds me. . .?
Hello Friends! This is long, so I apologize! I always try to keep my parents privacy anonymous, because I don't want to ruin their image if someone I know find this. But this is not a troll question, I really need advice. My mom, she always yells at me. Yes, sometime's it's because I don't listen. Those times, I accept the scolding, and I obey her, and don't get sad. But now-a-days, she yells at me for how I act. She thinks I'm too childish and "weird". She glares at me, I don't look back at her, but I can tell, and sometimes when I don't know she's glaring at me, I catch her rolling her eyes when I look at her. Her reasoning is because I'm acting "weird", or "childish". Then recently, when I was with my dad and being goofy around him, she rolled her eyes and yelled at me when he left, she said; "Stop acting like a child! Act like an adult!" What's worse is that she compares me to my 8 year old sister. You know, when I'm with my friends I'm basically the "cool kid" of the group. I don't talk much, because it's just how I am. So when I'm at home I goof around and be silly with my family, but my mother hates it. She wants me to act "serious", and "mature". It's not just that, but I'm only 14. I have whole life ahead of me to develop and change as a person. But she doesn't see that. You see, my mother's a war immigrant. She had a tough life, so she doesn't understand most things from this generation. So I can't explain it to her, that I'm still a child. And it hurts. A lot.
Why does my dad scold me for not having a girlfriend?
Here’s what you do, if you’re a heterosexual male. Show him this. Population of the World as of Wednesday, August 8, 2018 at 1:13:30 AM. Ask him whether or not he thinks it’s a crisis that there’s too many people on the planet. Three meals a day at an average of 7 dollars per meal (low estimate). That’s $147 billion dollars to feed everyone on the planet ONE DAY! Annually, that comes to $5.36550000000000000. That’s 5 quadrillion, I believe. For one YEAR. Not a lifetime. If everyone lives to 100, then that’s $500 quadrillion dollars. So, if his intent is to ask you to have a girlfriend for the sake of just popping out babies and giving him a grandson, present him with these facts.
My dad always argues with my mom over little things (she remains silent), and I always felt it was unfair for her. I can't control myself from being upset and crying when my dad scolded my mom. What should I do?
First, remember that you are not your mom. She may not be upset by your dad’s arguing and may see it as just his personality, not a personal attack or means to control her. So, your upset may be for no reason.Second, if she is upset, it’s her job as an adult to deal with the issue with your dad or with a counselor. You can’t do that for her and you being upset doesn’t help her at all. You can ask her why she says nothing and whether it bothers her. She may admit that it does or she may reveal that it doesn’t. But, it’s her issue to deal with, not yours.The best way for you to support your mom is to be respectful, kind, helpful, and understanding.If you feel she’s open to it, you can tell her that it upsets you to see that and she may make some kind of a change, or she may not. She may have decided that it’s not worth bothering about or that it doesn’t actually bother her and she’d rather not rock the boat because other parts of her situation make it worth overlooking.Just remember that while you can show compassion to your mother, you need to let her be the one who deals with it for herself. You can, on the other hand, tell your dad that it upsets you to the point of tears when he does that. He should know how his behavior affects you. He may or may not change it.Sometimes, when confronted with such facts, people do change. My grandmother stopped smoking after I as a child asked her to. She knew she should so having her young granddaughter ask her to was enough. The love she had for me motivated her even though she didn’t do it for herself.If nothing changes, don’t take it personally. It may still be upsetting, but you have to let your parents own their own relationship. You can also leave the room politely when it starts and if asked why you’re leaving, just say, “I feel uncomfortable when you talk that way to mom. Sorry.” Don’t say this if your dad will take it out on your mom or you, though. Be safe.