Why does my dad always torture me for math?!?
ima 13 year old girl, and in 7th grade. each time i get one tiny little bit of mistake in math? my dad yells at me like he was crazy, and he makes me do math problems that i did not even learn yet, and when i tried to answer them, i kno i got it wrong, and he just yelled at me agian until i cry. i hate this! its probrably because all my family members were good at math, and he kept toruting me..and i hate it. i kno i maybe wrong for thinking this way, but i tried to become better..i really did..but he just kept makin me cry and making me feel stupid for not knowing them..i really want to tell him that everyone has their thoughts, and i am not the one for math. but im just to scared..hes a very scary man..wut do i do..? do i keep taking this hell-like lecture forever? please help! =,(
My dad always thinks that I'm lying :/ ?
Dads don't distrust their girls for no reason. I know, I'm a dad of five girls. There must be something that you have done to make him suspicious. Just invite him to drop by unannounced at ANY of your practices. Other than him catching you in a TRUTH, there's nothing more you can do to make him believe you. In short, you have to prove your trustworthiness to him. I don't know why he distrusts you, but that's another issue that you need to get to the root of. Good luck. ")
Why does my dad always stare at me?
The computer is in my dad's room, so im in here alot on the pc cause im bored as heck and have nothing to do but surf the net. Anyway, i've noticed that lots of time he'll be sitting behind me just looking at me. Or i'll show him a funny video on youtube, but I notice he's not looking at the screen.. he's just sitting there starring at me =/ He doesnt look at me in a bad way, just looks at me.. but it makes me feel uncomfortable. Why does he do this? Does anyone else have this problem?
My dad always thinks he's right and I'm SICK of it?
Well, i just want to say something about the people i see in Walmart before i answer anything else -- i see girls in walmart in the pajama pants, and old ratty clothes, messed up hair, and I really doubt anyone pays attention anyway. So, if you'd have just brushed your hair, wiped off your face, and worn what you had on, you'd have been just as "ready" as the rest of the population who go to Walmart. Walmart is a department store, not a fashion show. thank god. Hon, you don't have to explain things to your dad. Somehow, i think he continues to annoy you by saying things because you have to rationalize and explain everything. Ignore him.. and smile and just say something crazy when he gets weird, like "i love you anyway!". that ought to shut him up.. he might even faint!
Why does my dad always touch himself down there when we are talking ?
you are turning him on
Why does my dad always swear at me and insult me?
Unfortunately, I can't answer this and I don't think that anyone else can without knowing your dad or the situation.If you feel you need to, you should talk to an adult you trust. Your mother, an aunt or uncle, cousin, school counselor or teacher. Someone who is closer to the situation who can offer you more help than someone like myself, who not only doesn't know anything about the situation but also is not a trained counselor or therapist.I will say this though. In most cases, it's got nothing to do with you. This is most often a problem within him that he's taking out on you. Or maybe even taking out on everyone he meets. I'll tell you a little something from my childhood that may be a bit different, but also may help.My dad had a terrible life growing up. He had a horrible, abusive step father and spent his teenage years living with that at home while living in some of the worst parts of LA California. He had a lot of anger as an adult. A lot.Growing up with my dad was scary. Fortunately, he did love me and I knew that and he was never physically violent towards me or my mom. But it was not out of the ordinary to hear him yelling and screaming and throwing stuff and breaking stuff like a very powerful and scary 2 year old throwing a tantrum with some colorful language. And sometimes that anger would be directed at me. He couldn't understand why people didn't want to be around him. Anyways, the good part!If you were to meet my dad today, you would probably not believe some of the stories or memories I have of him. He's kind. He's loving. He doesn't freak out over tiny little things. He laughs and jokes and is the center of every social gathering!My point is, he finally saw that he was the common denominator in all those problems. All the people who had left his life. And at one point, I was leaving too. i don't know if these situations are similar. But, I hope you don't lose hope. And I hope you don't blame yourself.Get help. Stay safe! Take care!
My dad thinks he's always right and never wrong, how to deal?
My dad always has an opinion about something, be it, politics, movies, celebrities, music, issues, etc. Sometimes his opinion is goes against mine and I'll jump in and tell him MY opinion. As soon as I start talking he gets really angry and starts talking about how I don't know what I'm talking about, I have no idea, my opinion is stupid, teenagers are brain washed by TV and the Internet and therefore have stupid and pointless opinions, I'm stupid, etc. When this happens sometimes I'll argue my side but this only makes him angrier and then he goes on about how kids don't respect their parents anymore and blah blah blah... I'm SO sick and tired of not being able to have any "wrong" opinions in my house and not being able to stand up for what I believe at home. I literally can't say anything that goes against his beliefs! Sometimes I don't even argue with him! Example: Me: "One of my favorite actors is Tom Hanks. I like him because he played Robert Langdon very well in The Da Vinci Code." Dad: "Ew I hate him, he's annoying and he can't act all. Why do you think he is good? He sucks, you're stupid." (Spoken in Chinese...) This type of stuff happens all the time, and it's 10X worse if we're talking about politics or world issues like poverty or AIDS or something. My Mom won't do anything about it because she's too scared to stand up to him and so I have no idea what to do! Please help me! How can I help my situation? Thank you!
My dad is always thinking of my grandmother, what should I do?
Well, your grandmother has not chosen to have Parkinson's disease, has she? Given a choice, she would readily choose to be hale and healthy. But she can't.Empathise with her. Empathise with her disease. Life is very difficult for people who have these degenerative diseases.You will probably not relate to what your father is going through, since she's not your mother. Only your father will understand this.Suppose, in your future, if you face a similar situation and your kid asks you to go on a trip, would you abandon your mother? Would you forget all the sacrifices she made to raise you, to see you grow up into a healthy individual? Would you forget all the unconditional love she gave you, when you shouted at her when you didn't get what you want? I bet you wouldn't.My own grand mother passed away about 5 months ago. She had Alzheimer's dementia. She wouldn't remember anyone. She would keep her money some where and then end up searching for hours and would accuse her family of stealing the money. Her condition worsened in the later years. She was under medications which made her condition somewhat better.Every time I used to meet her, I would weep internally looking at her condition. She was living a meaningless existence. She was solely dependent on her son for all her needs, she became like a new born baby in her last days, where she needed constant attention and care. She used to take about five minutes to walk from one room to another.She suffered from a severe stroke one day and was hospitalized. Three days later, she passed away due to multiple organ failure. I still can't take the scene out of my head, when I saw her lying on the bed was breathing heavily. She couldn't hear a word since she was brain dead. People used to come to the hospital, sit there and cry for sometime and just walk away. I think the best thing for you to do now, would be, to comfort your father and just be there for him. As far as your grand mother is concerned, think that you are lucky that you have a grand mother rather than treating her as a burden.