Why do I HATE my family so much?
Like I said.. I don't really like people in general.. but these responses comfort me.. I am no way suicidal so don't worry about me harming myself as I'm too scared to do so.. :p And as I type this my mom yells at me to go to sleep.... I really appreciate the time you guys put into reading this drawn out description and for replying. I just hate having that lonely feeling and I'm not much of a religious person or would feel comfortable going to a therapist and paying... I'd rather stay anonymous.. but Really. You guys made me feel better.. It's satisfying to know that there are some caring people in this world... but I have to go to bed.. thanks again all.
Why does my family piss me off so much?
I hate my family. Everything they say or do makes me cringe and I don't know why. I am always picking fights with my Mom and my Grandmother. I just find them to be such insecure, gossiping, and annoying people. For example: Tonight I sat down with them to eat dinner and told them I wanted to go to the University of California to study phsycyatry and they basically did everything they could to try turning me off the idea. It then leaded into them trash talking my old phsycyatrist (who my Grandma has never even met) and she goes "oh he's such a mental case" and I said "YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM". I got so aggravated that I had to leave the room. And my little brother is such a fatass and sits in front of his computer all day. I hate him and everything about him. He's so repulsive and rude. I just hate being around people who are SO negative all the time and trashtalk people just because of their own insecurities.
Why does my family put so much pressure on me?
There are different kinds of parental pressure. There are reasonable pressures, and unreasonable ones. It's hard to know which kind to address, as your question is very vague.Some reasonable pressures might be rules and disciplinary measures meant to teach you to become a responsible adult; these would include a bedtime curfew, rules about homework (such as you must do it before play, for example), rules about the kinds of foods you can and cannot eat, etc. Schoolwork might be an area you are finding difficult. If your parents are pressuring you to get good grades, well, that's kind of what parents do. And ultimately (and they've probably told you this already) those pressures will help you become a self-disciplined, mature adult. If your pressures are outside of these scopes, that may be a different story. If, for example, they are insisting and expecting that you make straight A's on tests and report cards, well, that might be considered unreasonable if they know you are not capable of those grades. (If, however, they are certain you can attain those, then they're really just asking you to achieve what they know you're capable of.) My mantra to my kids has always been, try your hardest, and we'll be proud of whatever grades you get, because we'll know it's the best you're capable of. If they are pressuring you in other areas, like extra-curricular activities, it might be because they have excelled in those areas and would like to see their kids do the same. Sometimes, it's the opposite -- they weren't successful at extra-curricular activities -- and want to see their kids do what they were not able to achieve.All this is beside the point, however. The real answer to your question is, if you are feeling pressured by your parents, the way to solve this is to go have a conversation with them. Ask them for a block of time to sit down together and talk about the issues you are bothered by. Explain why you feel they aren't being fair, and what specific areas you think they are being too harsh in. There's no problem between two parties in any relationship that cannot be solved if everyone involved is willing to sit down, hear each other out and try to find solutions that are realistic.
Why does my family give my brother a hard time for having a lot of kids?
My brother recently converted to Catholicism about six years ago before he married his wife (who was Catholic). From what my brother has told me, he says he's a traditional Catholic who belongs to a traditional Catholic organization called the 'SSPX' that opposes the modern changes in the Catholic Church. Both my brother and his wife do not practice birth control at all, believing that they'll have as many kids as God wills. Right now my brothers wife is pregnant with kid number six ... and my family is giving him a lot of grief for having another kid. Yeah my brother and his family are struggling ... but I do have to say, his family always look so happy and loving every time I see them. They really are the happiest family I've ever seen. Though why do my parents give my brother a really hard time about the number of children they have?
What should you do when you realize that your family doesn't care for you and don't love you?
I came to this realization when I was older and reflecting on my younger years. My family provided financially but had nothing to give emotionally. There were deliberately abusive even in later years. When I confronted them, they were defensive, and I realized they didn’t care. They did care about the image to others though. Something was missing and wrong and always was. I grieved for the family I wish I had. I accepted that I had to play the cards that were dealt.What should you do? This is what I did. I started to make myself a top priority and loved me. I know that I touched other lives in a positive way through my work and was successful. Even though my family would try to diminish my accomplishments. I became grateful for the gifts that my family did give me (health, beauty, an education, a way to make a decent living, and even through the negatives I became stronger). I didn’t need to retaliate anymore as I saw them as sad people in a way, especially when some of them aged and became sickly. I was OK with me and who I was inside.I learned to cut people from my life immediately that didn’t show me respect and genuine concern through their actions, not words-which are hot air in many cases.Even though it may mean being alone at times; it’s OK. I have self-respect and peace. Both are wonderful and priceless.
I hate my family?????
Being the middle child, you're going to feel the most awkward about your siblings. You're older sister isn't succeeding well in life (and your parents might give up hope on her) and your brother is too young to understand anything. I think the reason why your dad is doing this is because of your older sister. You said that your older sister has flunked college twice. She might have ruined her life possibly because she was acting inappropriate by hanging out with friends who had a bad influence on herself. Your dad might reflect on this and try to protect you from ruining your life like your older sister because I think he has had enough of her (and your mom too). The one thing you need to do is prove that you're independent and since you're grown up, you should be capable of making mature decisions. Your sister is an example of what would happen if you ruined your life, and you already know it's a bad thing. You need to have a talk with your parents...alone. I am the oldest child (15) and I have a sister (who just turned 12) and a brother (3 and a half). My sister talks to me a lot about how she gets the less attention from my parents, which is probably because she's the youngest. Well, that's all I can say that the moment. I hope everything goes well for you!!!! Best of luck!!
Why do my family and I have been suffering so much, mentally as well as physically? I was born on Oct 4, 1967, at 5:50 am in Jaipur, Rajasthan. Can anyone who knows astrology give me some remedies?
You will attain success only after very high pressures and at someone else’s losses or sacrifices, this is a fact you have to accept and live with according to your horoscope.You have enjoyed life with comforts and you have had no issues on essentials due to Ubayachara yoga, Duradhara yoga and Rajasambandha yogas you have in your horoscope.Your bad talks and cunning thoughts would put you into very great trouble, be very careful with your communication. Keep it to only please others, else avoid talking. You have a very weak Sun, hence you would have persistent trouble from higher officials, older men, office administrators, government workers, banking departments and government offices.Your bad time increased from 2011 and would continue to cause one or the other issues in finance, body health, self respect till 2030, this is a fact you have to accept, delays and hurdles will be part of your ventures till 2030.Remedies:Do Suryanamaskar at 6:05 to 6:10, offer water to Suryadeva with a copper vessel.Worship Banyan tree, offer unboiled milk to it daily, before sunrise.Feed crow, cow, dog at early morning before you have your breakfast.Don’t deceit or be treacherous, this is a period of being happy with truth and justice, follow a life of honesty.Propitiate your kuladevata on Sundays, there is some issues here since you and your family have not shown enough interest here. Conduct pooja with appropriate decoration(alankara) of your kuladevatha with archana or naamavali.Keep the priest who is maintaining your kuladevatha happy by offering wheat, jaggery and money. Offer Roti + Potato sabji to older men on Sundays. If not atleast offer wheat bread or biscuits for elderly people.Go to Shanishwara temple on Saturdays at evening, offer Til oil to temple, help laborers with food, donate very poor people black colored blankets, shoes or chappals, umbrellas etc. Participate in Shanishanti homa, recite neelanjanam samabhaasam stotra.Go to any government hospitals on Saturdays and Sundays, offer fruits or medicines to poor patients, this will take care of your Sun and Saturn issues quite fast.