How should a guy respond when his girlfriend gets a bad haircut?
My friend's girlfriend just cut her long hair very short and it looks awful. He doesn't know how to respond because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings, but he also doesn't want to say it looks nice, which would encourage her to keep her hair short. It really looks hideous, and she's uncertain of the haircut herself. Her friends say they love the short hair, but if they really loved short hair they would cut their hair short too. Is there any way my friend can respond honestly but not hurtfully to his girlfriend's new haircut?
Should I let my friend cut my hair?
for sure, let her try, you might love it, and have fun doing it. Like you said you can always get it fixed after. She might do an amazing job and you'll use from from now on. If she's artistic, then let her do what she thinks
What does it mean if I dreamt someone cut my hair?
Hair is often a libido symbol. When the hair is cut it could mean that libido, your psychic energy, is cut down. It can no longer sprawl in all directions, like the uninhibited immature thoughts of youth. Many young people have thrown away their lives by "running wild", or not maintaining focus. So it could mean self-control and responsibility, becoming more like an adult male. When nuns enter a convent, their hair is cut. They can no longer follow their own libidinous drive but must now follow the rules of the convent. This is what it means to grow up; it means to cut your hair, figuratively speaking. Most women never do that. They remain infantile all their lives. Luckily, they have in history always relied on the judgment of a man. Today, many women prefer to live alone. This is bad, because they have a hard time shouldering moral responsibility, and tend to remain in an illusory world. It may also have a bearing on spiritual life, as borne out by Gospel of Thomas, logion 114.M. Winther, Depth psychology and spiritual tradition
I want my long hair cut off soooo bad, but I just can't do it!?
Ok, long story, but it's kinda complicated... I'm 16. I have very long, black hair that goes just past my butt. I've had it this long for years. I love it, but lately I've gotten sick of it, and I just want it chopped off! It looks good, the boys at school love it and I get many compliments from girls too, but I also get people telling me I need it cut short, and I'm starting to agree with them! I'm tired of brushing it and combing it and washing it and drying it and straightening and curling and braiding it and everything! It would just be so much easier if it was cut short! I want something really short too, like a bob, if not that, then shoulder length. So, I asked this question already, and the best answer said to make a salon appointment and stick to it, so I did. It was this past weekend. I went it, expecting to get it all cut off, getting really excited. My stylist called my name, and I sat in the chair. This was when I started to get scared. I didn't want to lose my hair. I thought of how much I used to love it and how the guys swooned over it. I spent forever brushing it that morning, thinking about how much I was gonna miss it. There were MANY people in the salon, and I didn't want to attract attention, with all my long hair falling down to the floor. Then, she put the cape on, and that's when I REALLY started to fear my hair being cut, as if the cape was some kind of military uniform (No disrespect to them, I just couldn't think of a better analogy.), ready to make me a new, short haired person. She asked me what I wanted, and I heard the voice in my head say "Come on, tell her to just cut it off. You don't like it long anymore. You want it short. You know you'll like it better. Tell her!' But I chickened out, and I said "Just a trim like usual." Now that that's over with, I regret not cutting my hair short. (You can't even really tell I got a haircut.) I'm really sick of it now. It's really getting on my nerves, I want it all cut off. How can I get the courage to do it? I know I want short hair, but I can't let go of my long hair? How can I get it cut?!?!? Please help!