Why does a friend (girl) hate me?
Girls are confusing, moody creatures at best and complete monsters at worst. I am one so I have every right to say this.I have no clue why your friend hates you.It could be something you said. Sometimes someone’ll say something to me that I don’t really appreciate and I’ll get annoyed at them. It depends on what they said, but I’ve done anything from ignoring them from a bit to full-out screaming at them. Although I’ve only had to resort the latter one a few times. I don’t like telling people off like that.Anyway, the only way you’ll get an answer is if you ask her yourself.If she’s doesn’t want to talk, please respect that and give her a week or so to cool down. Then maybe you could try texting her to see what happened.If she continues to ignore you, she might not be the best friend you could have. It may be best to let a friendship like that go before it becomes toxic. Or see if something else is going on. It might not even be you at all.
Why do my friends hate me?
Before giving answers to ur this question I want to ask u that WHY in thy great universe do u think that ur friends do hate u.Is it because they ignored u somday or did they talked to u rudely or is it that they did they hurt u physical or ur emotionsThe alternate answer to all these scenarios other than FRIENDS HATING U can also be ,that their day isn't going on too well and that they r upset at that moment,or u misunderstood what they r really trying to say to u ,or if it's a group it may be also possible that they had planned a prank on u which had gone wrong due to mismanagement and wrong timings and many of these type of countless cases .But if u r sure and genuinely believe from the bottom of your heart that ur friends hate u , THINK.THINK and deeply think of the times u have spent with ur friends .Have u spoken some serious shit abt them ,their family members , people thee are close too.Itcan be knowingly or unknowingly .Do u have any habits that they don't like it may be substance related or just when ur showing off.If yes did it happen to be doing some ill to your friends,like damaging their reputation or their studies or relationship.It may also happen that u and ur friends may have miscommunication between ur selves.But non of the above mentioned assumptions are even worth an \U0001f41c (ant).If u are calling them ur FRIENDS then there is just no problem if it is a misunderstanding ,BUTBUTBut even if it is ur mistake a FRIEND would understand if u just approach him/ her .Talk ur mind off ,but done forget to listen and keep a blasted open mind ready to take in anything and give it a chance to analyze .Hate is nothing my dear friend ,it is a relative term off degree loving wrt degree upto which u know that person .No person in this world world can be hated if he / she has been explored and their reasons for actions are noted.
My Friend's Friend Hates Me?
Okay, so my best friend, Luna has a friend named Savant. When I first heard of her, she seemed like a great person. All my friends love Anime and Manga, art and stuff, and so does Savant so I thought we'd get along. The first time I got to meet her was at Luna's slumber party which she had near her birthday. I got to meet lots of her friends and we were all laughing and having fun. But Luna was complaining about how Savant said she might not be there. She came eventually, though. I'm not a very social person but with that many happy people around, I'm a really crazy, humorous lunatic. And from the first time she saw me, she hated me. I tried giving her friendly gestures and stuff so she would know I was cool, but all she would ever do was roll her eyes at me and give me dirty looks. She would never laugh when I made my other friends laugh...One time I tripped and fell flat on my *** and she made a rude, sarcastic remark. I kind of vaguely pointed out that she was being kind of mean but she said she wasn't... I saw her the other night at my school play, she was there to see Luna in stage crew and some other of my friends who got leads. I was like "Hi!" And she was like "Mhhh..." She's completely normal and loving and giggly with my other friends. I thought she's scared of me or something because I'm like... a lunatic, but I've tried being normal around her (which is NOT easy for me to do) and she acts pretty much the same. I can't stand when people I want to become friends with hate me! I felt like crying last night. I talked to Luna about it and she's like "Ohhhhh, she doesn't hate you!" What should I do?
Why does my friend hate me all of a sudden?
Okay so this has been really bothering me for the past summer. So I had this friend and we've known each other since like Sophomore year (We are both now freshmen in college btw). Anyways I noticed that at the end of the year she wasn't as nice anymore. She says she's being honest but she's not like that with anyone else. And then she completely started leaving me out of her life like I remember she would tell me everything. One time she was talking with a mutual friend of ours and she showed her a text and i asked if I could see and she was like it's none of your business. Then after that incident we had this Senior awards night at our school and she completely ignored me. Like she would talk to this other mutual friend of ours and taking pictures with her and I was only 1 seat away from her. Then I found out that she had been saying that I am a slut supposedly. I believe she thought this because I had a couple of admirers who would shower me with gifts every now and then and because I got along better with the guys at our table. Also because I would wear shirts that would show a little of my belly but not a lot. And another thing is that we are both in choir so w e both naturally compete to be the best. Also she started telling everyone that I was jealous of her because she was getting all the attention in the drama class she was in. But we were both in chamber singers and I got all the recognition. But yeah on the last days of school she completely completely ignored me! like she made every single senior sign her yearbook except me. I have never done anything to her! I would always support her and compliment her and help her with her problems! I would even help her in Choir at times when the sopranos and altos would rehearse together! I don't know why she hates me I just want to know. Sorry if it's all mixed up but I didn't know how to sort it out. Anyways I hope you guys can help me! Thanks a lot for talking your time :)
My "Friend" hates me?
Iv been there. Ik it's hard but u need to get out of that clique. Meet new friends. Maybe u think those people r ur friends but u need to open ur eyes and meet true friends. Ull be alot happier! I didn't and it was the biggest mistake of my life. Plz don't stick with them! U don't have to say " I'm not gonna b ur friend anymore" just slowly drift away from that group and ur true friends will drift with u :) as for the mean girl, the worst thing to do is confront her. Trust me their are alot of people I rlly just want to go up and ***** slap but I don't. If I cussed them out or did anything like that it would make me just as bad as them. The only way to deal with a mean girl is to ignore her and get away from her! Dont be enemy but don't be friends either. Be the type of people that pass eachother in the hallway and just wave and say hi! That's the best position to be in with someone like that. If she does something rlly bitchy to u, just walk away. If she starts saying "f u ur such a ***** blah blah blah" and stuff like that just agree and say yep. It's also a rly good way to push someones buttons and technically not do anything, just agree with what she says about u! The only opinions that should matter to u r from the people that u care about, and since u obviously don't care about her just ignore her! Let her do her own thing while u do urs. Trust me she's not worth it. good luck!
Why does my boyfriends friend hate me?
I was in similar boat when I got together with current boyfriend. I knew a lot of his friends longer than the boyfriend and one guy and I just never saw eye to eye. With that being said, the boyfriend told his friends flat out “ I don’t care if you don’t like her, I don’t want to hear you talking shit about her though” that was five years ago. The one guy who doesnt like me keeps his mouth shut but yet helps us if it’s needed. One day the boyfriend and his buddy were at work and I ended up in the hospital and that friend drove my boyfriend to the hospital and drove us home.Honesyly dont worry about his friend. You’re dating your boyfriend not the friend. Just don’t talk shit
How can I know if my friend hates me?
So this is a bit difficult I know. It just feels like when mutual friends of both of us do certain things like, making jokes about him which we all do about each other. They are always lighthearted and especially I always emphasise that I’m only joking. When they do it he’s okay with it but when I do it he get’s really angry with me even though my joke wasn’t even that bad. Also for example when i recommend something to try to him like anything really a TV show, food I think he might like and all sorts of stuff he just doesn’t trust me. Generally I’m always getting the feeling that he doesn’t trust me. Also I haven’t been friends with him since only yesterday it’s at least 4 years. 4 years of talking everyday and playing video games together. It wasn’t always this way. It started like what maybe early 2016-ish. I just really don’t know whats going on if I have done something that hurt him or he’s just angry with me. I even asked him about that and he said nothing was wrong. I just really don’t know what to do because I like him. We share many great memorys of before this all happened. And I even asked some of our other mutual friends and they also said that the have been noticing this. He has never acknowledged that he is treating me weirdly. I just want to know what might be going on so I can do what I have to in order of us being friends again.Thank you.
My Mom's Friend Hates Me!!?
you can find out why she seems to hate you then you have three options... 1) don't mind her 2) don't give her a reason to hate you 3) tell your mom to find a new friend who will love you
My best friend hates me now? what should I do?
In school about 2 days ago, I told on my friend, Kelsey. I told the teacher that she was down at the lockers when she wasn't supposed to be. After that, I felt bad, and I told my best friend, Alex. (he's a dude) Alex is in LOVE with Kelsey, but they can't be together, long story. Anyways, he got mad, and told me that he was going to tell her. Well, I decided to make up a lie and say, "If you tell her, I'll tell her what you said about her and her boyfriend." He got mad, knowing it was a lie, and stormed off. I told Kelsey about how I told on her. She was completely fine with it. She didn't even care. Alex, on the other hand, ignores me and refuses to talk to me. He finally texted me today, after I kept calling him over the past day and a half. He said, "Hey, I like you, but I don't want to be friends with you anymore. You cause too much drama and you lie all the time. Maybe we can be friends someday, but I'm not promising anything." I got frantic, and texted back asking him to let me fix this, that it is fixable and he said, "Idk..." and never texted back after that. I don't know what my problem is I can't leave him alone. Monday is the next day I see him, and I have 2 classes with him, one I sit right next to him in the same 2 seated desk. My friend Kelsey told me that he will probably get over it. I don't know if he will... I love that kid to death, and I would do anything for him. I would change my whole personality for that kid, if I could. Should I wait it out and leave him alone, to let him get over it by himself? Should I talk to him on monday? Should I go to his house tomorrow and beg for forgiveness, or a second chance? What should I do? I can't even think straight right now, I'm just so upset. Please help. Thank you in advance.
What do I do if all my friends hate me?
First thing. Respect yourself don't devalue. Don't trade respect for attention.Try to communicate and try to find where is the problem.Clarify misunderstanding if any.Try to improve your 'personality'. Hit the gym.Be sensible with dressing.Develop Army officer like qualities.Focus on the way you walk, talk, sit.Just remember don't devalue yourself, keep your dignity. Dont change for her. Be natural. Be the deserving.Don't run behind her. The more you go back to her more you will loose respect.Take a break. Make her your absence felt.