Is my ex just calling me for an ego boost or does he genuinely miss me. What do you all think?
I went through the same thing as you and it broke my heart, till this day I love her but what you need to understand its not about what you can do, it's about what both f you can change to contribute to a healthy relationship and if one is not there then chances are it won't work.Read here https://tr.im/t8rxg She didn't tell you she had a bf because you were going on a date what she was telling you is about a guy that had already been there which is why she most likely gave you the run around. This goes for all people in general when you really care for someone you fight for them and when one person decides that their life and likes are beyond you then that person is not worth the fight anymore. I never wanted to hear it and I know you don't either but break ups happen and it will happen again. She most likely cares for you and the little annoying habits you have might bug her but there's nothing about a good person that can change true love and she my friend does not harvest those feelings for you. I have learned all of these things the hard way and I could go on in detail to every aspect but point blank move on an better your self and continue to do it for yourself not only will you set good examples for others but you will empower yourself with all positive things. Because of my break up I have changed in a positive and negative way. I have become more understanding of true love and how to treat a woman, I have obtained new hobbies in which I would have never done before, but negatively I view women at a young age in a different perspective then before not necessarliy in a horrible way but I believe the majority of women are emotionally mature at a young age. I do not think that anyone at a young age should be into a committed relationship until they are at their best meaning maturely stable in handling someone else's feelings let alone their own. My advice to you is date around learn what it is you like in women learn about your self and what it is that you have different to offer then the guy next to you and don't wait for your ex to make a decision if it happens it happens if it doesn't you'll be much happier improving on your life and expanding your social circle and possibilities.
Is it necessary? NoIs it a good gesture? YesI like and comment on every post personally, most of the time with the name of the person who posted. I do not copy and paste my reply.Why? Birthdays have never meant much to me. I treat them as fairly regular days. However, if someone has spent ten seconds of their day, in wishing me, I like to at least give them the acknowledgement. What about people you haven't talked to or do not know, who wish you on Facebook?Its like a stranger on the road wishing you 'Good Morning.' You do reply 'Good Morning,' don't you?Just because its Facebook, it shouldn't make a difference.
Maybe your boyfriend is busy. Maybe he just checks his Facebook and not his messenger. Maybe he's with friends and it would be rude to start texting. Maybe he doesn't like instant messaging - girls like messaging much more than men in my experience.Personally, I don't always reply to messages straightaway. Not because I'm ignoring the person but because I don't have time or energy to reply at that second. I really dislike it when the person brings up when I was last active. To me it's creepy and stalker-ish.The fact that you're checking when he's active seems overly needy. Presumably he does reply eventually… And presumably you spend time together. Just get on with your with your life. Let him get on with his. Stop checking up on him. Make your life enjoyable enough that you don't mind if he's slow to reply.Finally, talk to him about it. Just tell him that you would appreciate it if he sent even a small reply straightaway. Don't criticise him or bring up the fact that you check when he's active.
Well I would get rid of her. Its obvious shes not 100% into you if she texting another guy. Eventually the lack of trust will come into play making you question her where abouts, cyber stalking her social media pages looking for hints and clues.This is not the way a relationship that has true meaning works. When two people are together they don't have friends of the opposite sex that are not friends with both of you.My ex boyfriend would always talk to a girl that was friends with him before we met. It angered me, he cherished her more than he did me. One day she complained to my boy friend about how her boyfriend was not happy about her talking to my boyfriend on a daily basis. I felt the same way as her boyfriend did but neither her or my boyfriend saw any problems with it. I'm sure if the tables were turned they would.I eventually told him to tell her “Im all yours now my girlfriend left me” her relashionship had headed south and her boyfriend left her, not sure if my ex got together with her after I was out of the picture or not and I really didn't care. I'm sure the fun was taken out after they both got dumbed.None the less I was reading what they were doing as “having their cake and eating it to”. In the end myself and her ex boyfriend walked away being the more mature ones.So you see nothing good comes out of staying with someone who has no respect for you and has the audasity to sit and text another guy pretty much right under your nose. If she hasn't cheated on you already I'm pretty sure she will eventually. Get rid of her before she does and while your dignity is still intact.
I did something evil. I created a fake profile on Camgirl and few other dating websites with an attractive porn star's face and posted his number. Probably would've scared the shit out of him when he received horny phone calls in the middle of night. XD
Does my friend with benefits "like" me, but just won't admit it? (guys, help me out)?
So, I met this guy. We hung out quite a bit, and I noticed he's one of those guys that doesn't text a girl every second of the day. He is a total ladies man. Well, we decided to have sex and (neither of us have said it) but I guess we're friends with benefits. We've had sex two times now. And I am TOTALLY falling for him, just like I was afraid I would. Well, my question basically is, do these signs sound like he's falling for me, too? Cuz sometimes it seems like he's liking me more than just "friends with benefits". Yet, the next day he won't even talk to me. Here are some things he does.. *He'll text me randomly after a couple days if I don't text him *He texted me the other day and said "you never text me, I have to text you :/"...but I'm afraid to text him cuz I'm afraid I'm bothering him! *he cuddles with me after sex and we just lay around and talk *he hangs out with me other than just when we have sex *he doesn't really acknowledge girls on facebook since he met me *if a girl happens to leave something flirty or something on facebook, he'll delete it off his page *he works fulltime (which I know shows he doesn't have much time for a relationship) but still tries to hang with me on off-days I know this was really long, but can anyone give me their opinion? Do you think this guy is "falling for me" but just won't admit it to me? When he doesn't text me, is he wanting ME to initiate it? If not, I suppose I better stop it, because I don't want to fall for him, because I know where that leads... So, is does this guy like me, and just isn't sure if I like HIM (cuz I only text him if he texts first. haha)? Does he want me to initiate the texting and show I'm interested? Or does he just want to have sex? Thanks :)
From the additional details you’ve provided, seems like he’s not being a good boyfriend. They say that FB is the reason that about 40% of relationships don’t work out. I’m thinking it’s time to join this group.If he’s openly complimenting other women on FB it’s time for you to take responsibility for your life. Just because somebody agrees to be in a relationship with you doesn’t mean that they’re going to act right and only you can decide to stay in a relationship when they’re not acting right.Unless he was confused that he was in a monogamous relationship and thought he was in a open relationship there’s really no conversation worth having. if he doesn’t know he’s not supposed to try and get with other girls while in a relationship then he’s just not ready for relationships.Take some responsibility for your life and break up with your boyfriend and go find somebody who will respect you.
My boyfriend posted his number to his FB. Do I have a right to be annoyed?
My boyfriend of a few months went overseas a few weeks ago for work. He finally got a new number out there & gave it to me so we could text/talk. He had a few of his Facebook friends also asking him for his number on his wall. So instead of replying to them individually with his number, he puts his number as his status update for everyone to see. I kinda hinted to him before he did it that I didn't like the idea, but he did it anyway. I said that random girls will be calling him now but he blew it off and said random people would not call/text him at an international number. I honesly don't even believe that because it's easy to add international text to a phone plan. Two random chicks already posted to the status update with his number by joking that they would prank call him, and that made me even more pissed off. I should add that we're from a conservative culture so we're dating on the down low. Therefore we don't have our relationship status on our FB, so it seems to others that we are single, which makes things even more complicated now that he posted his number. Anyway, I'm upset by this. Am I over-reacting? Or do any others agree that it's a bit inappropriate to post your number for all of the girls you know to see even tho u have a girlfriend? What do u think? Btw, no rude answers please!