How did you feel when you saw your mother cry for the first time? And why did she cry?
I saw my mother crying when I was probably in my second standard. She was weeping and I did not understand why she was crying. I didn't know what was going on. I went to my brother to know what was happening. He was crying too, holding my mother. He was in 5th standard then. Both are weeping, mom took me and hugged me crying. I didn't understand anything. I asked my mom about all this . What's going on ? Something's really wrong at home, that's what I understood. I sat with her waiting for her answer in a confused state. A little later, she told me that my father's no more.That's the first time I saw her weeping in such a manner. I don't remember my father but I can still see her sometimes in my dreams crying when my father passed away. She worked so hard to grew us up. She got my dad's job at bank. Yet, it was the darkest time of our lives. That's the reason why I couldn't see my mother cry for any other reason. She went through the toughest times . Sometimes, I'll be mad at her, but I just can't imagine my life without her. I don't say that I love her because I know that I do love her.Sorry for the long answer. But I just wanted to say. Thanks for reading this answer.
My brother is bawling his eyes out. How to comfort him?
Okay I'm a 17 year old guy and my twin brother came in are shared room teary eyed and he just sat down on his bed with his head in his hands. I walked over to him and put a hand on his back and asked if he was okay. He looked up at me and a tear rolled down his face. I asked wha happened and he chocked out mom hates me and then started bawling. I sat down next to him rubbing his back and telling him to calm down. It took about 15 minutes for him to calm down. After a few minutes I asked him what happened and he said that she told him she hated him and that he should die and she would replace him if he could. My mom abused him when he was little and there relationship is terrible. I know it bothers him but I didn't think it would get that bad. What should I do?
I physically and emotionally hurt my sister? I am a bad person? Will I go to hell?
(sorry it's so long, but I'd really appreciate any help, thank you) I'm 17 and she's 20. My whole life she's made fun of me for not having any friends and being unpopular, and says stuff like I'll never get a GF. I am very socially awkward and she's the opposite and has like a million boyfriends. She also always hits me and stuff like whenever I'm watching on the computer, she just violently pushes me off the chair and be like "move loser, I actually have friends to talk to online." She's been doing stuff like this to me my whole life. Recently though, I was just really mad like never before and my sister was being a little more mean than usual, saying I have no life. I'm so sorry for what I am about to say, but I grabbed her and pushed her and she hit the wall really hard. Then I saw her eyes started to get watery, and she just ran away. That's when I realized I'm stronger than her. I didn't know she could cry, I feel like an extreme A$$hole now. She doesn't push me around anymore though. But she doesn't talk to me at all now, at least she interacted with me when she bullies me. It's just awkard having a person living with you that never talk to you anymore or interacts. I don't know what to do? Should I apologize, just right when I saw her eyes get watery, after I hurt her, I just felt really evil, I want to take it back so bad, I wish I never done that. I feel really bad. I might be moving out to college next year and will never see her again. PS. IM a guy and I know guys aren't supposed to hit girls Im so sorry I swear I'll never do it again, I just wasn't thinking
Did you cry while dropping your kid off for his/her first day of school?
I remember as a little girl, my mother dropping off me and my brother for our first day of school. I cried pretty continuously and my mom did, too. She kept trying to get me to walk into the school with my new teacher and I just could not stop sobbing. I kinda thought I wasn't going to see her again for some reason. My brother didn't cry at all, look a little confused at our display...