Why Does My Mom Treat Me Like Crap?
She Always says everything is my fault my brothers are like her little Kings and im just a item she can throw and pick up whenever she wants to I was studying to be a Jehovah's Witness and now she says im stupid and i can now longer go to church or have bible studies i really don't see the point in going on anymore my dad doest really help much Im a straight A student athlete and everything and my brother is a D average student but she buys him clothes and gives him love and attention a plus my bro also treats me like crap plez help me out I REALLY NEED SOME HELP!!!!!
Why does my Afghan mom treat me like slave but I’m not her slave?
I don’t like my Afghan mom behavior it makes me mad she expect me to take care of her but I don’t want to I’m only staying at my parents house but I don’t have money to take care of myself I can’t take of my mom forever I have future and I need money for my future.
Why does my mom treat my cousin better than me?
My cousin came out to visit over the summer... and my cousin LOVED my perfume... its a pretty expensive perfume... my mom went out and bought it for her... the bottle broke not too long ago and my mom is talking about buying her a new bottle... and while she was here she took her shopping and bought her new clothes... but never buys me new clothes... i just celebrated my 18th birthday 2 months ago and my parents were on vacation for it and said we would celebrate it when they got back... we never did and i brought it up... but they ignore it... also... my car got broken into and my stereo stolen... my mom said she would buy me a new one but i had to pay her back... she put it off for a really long time until finally today we did it... but she had excuses like "I have to fix the lawn mower tonight" "im tired... lets do it tomorrow" then the last one was "well i dont even know if im going to pay for it... its pretty expensive" my parents make so much money... and i know they do! they throw their money out on random things like on my dads hobbie... and they arent stupid with money... so i know they have a lot left over... its mostly my mom... not my dad really...but... why is my mom acting like this?
My mother treats me very bad. I can't do anything about it. How should I bear it?
If you are right in your assessment that your mother treats you badly, then send Love to her being. She must be hurt within and is acting out of anger. Be loving to her, unconditionally. Try to understand her pain. Become a mother to her and treat her outbursts like you would of a child. Heal her and the situation will get healed.Mothers are like Goddesses. This a test of your real self. The existence is testing you through your mother.Grow and develop in to a person who can unconditionally love. Her bad treatment ( as you claim) is for a higher purpose. Think in this direction. You will grow in to a beautiful being.I lost my mom three years back. She was very unreasonable but i loved her tremendously. After loosing her i understood that she also used to love me a lot. I miss her tremendously. i know that moms can be sometimes angry and other times unreasonable with kids. But deep down they love us.God gives a mum once in a lifetime. Take her anger as a blessing too. Love her. Or you will miss her anger one day, when she is gone.I am reminded of a story which i heard as a kid. Its an ancient parable i am sure.A boy used to love his mother a lot. His girlfriend became jealous and told him that i will marry you only if you get me your mother's heart.The boy went and killed his mother. Took her heart and was running back to his girlfriend when he stumbled and fell. The heart said, “ Beta tujhe lagi toh nahin?” ( Son i hope you didnt hurt yourself)Such is a mother's heart.In everyday life we do not express love. But the mother's heart is always full of love for her children. We only need to discover it.Avail of the Christmas offer :https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077TQ9...
Why does my mom keep treating me like a child? I am 43 years old.
There are 2 reasons why your mom is treating you like a child, despite your age.She birth you- when she looks at you, she will forever see…a child.Compared to her, you are a child.Example of 1. My mom works at the same job as me. Every morning she makes me coffee and delivers it to my desk (so I don’t get a coffee head ache because I was too busy to get my own). If she thinks I skipped breakfast, she will bring me breakfast too. If I’m at work sick then (oh my) then I get an entire care package (orange juice, soup, everything)! She gets mad on my behalf when management overlooks me. She brags ridiculously when I get promoted or praised. I am 5 years old in her mind at our workplace, and everyone is jealous of me.Example 2. I’m 30. I take karate. One of the head instructors is 70-something. My studio host people from young teens-to seniors.We were taking a whole studio picture, and the head instructor (mr. 70 something) yells, “all the kids, get on the floor to the front”. Immediately all the teenagers (basically high school and college kids ) jump on the ground. I didn’t think to move. He prods me, and goes, “I said all the kids on the floor!”I laughed and jumped on the floor. To him, anyone under 35 was a child. I did not take it personal.My mother, and older individuals will always treat me like a child, because they are my mom, and are much older than meThe nice thing about being an adult is that I get to CHOOSE how much I am around anyone who treats me like a child. I can visit my mother OR I can call her on the phone. If i’m busy at work, I can ask her not to disturb me. I can quit my studio, or choose only to practice under younger instructors. The nice thing about being an adult, who is sometimes treated like a child, is that you are an adult, and are only “being treated like a child.” If you don’t like it, remove yourself.
My mom treats me like a maid... What should I do?
First of all... I m 32 weeks pregnant with my second child. I m staying at my mom s for a while until my husband and I get our own place soon. My mom makes me do everything around the house. She has me do the laundry, do the dishes, clean the mirrors, etc. Today she wanted me to clean the cat s cage, which the cat is dying and very sick. The cat basically poops and pees everywhere in the house but my mom tells me to clean it up. My doctor says that I should NOT do that with the toxoplasmosis in their system. I don t want my unborn baby to die or get sick or any of that from cleaning up after my mom s cat. FYI, the cat was a stray and she just had to let him in the house. So my mom won t get rid of the cat since she wants to keep him but I won t let that happen when my son comes in November and crawls around and gets sick from the cat still being there. I ve convinced my mom to get rid of the cat before my son comes in November but she gets pissed at me about it and says that the cat will stay no matter what. Basically saying that she don t care if my son gets sick or whatever. Also today, she wanted me to sweep the floors. Her sweeper weighs 30 lbs or maybe more. So I have to lift it over furniture and stairs but she don t seem to care and yells at me if I don t do anything right the way SHE wants it. Anyone experiencing or have experienced this during their pregnancy or non pregnancy? What should I do?
What should I do if my mother-in-law treats me disrespectfully (and my husband doesn't believe me)?
No one can disrespect you unless you allow them to. This applies to your mother-in-law also.Mother in law - Why is she the most feared?Your mother-in-law dislikes you because she feels emotionally insecure after your marriage. Her kid son has become your husband. Her so far clinging son no longer clings to her.She becomes green with envy at the power you hold over her son. So she instigates him against you. She wants to unnerve you by being dominating and disrespectful. You meekly allow her to do things that destroy your relationship with your husband.Never ever do that. Your mother- in -law owes your respect and not your life. Believe me if you act confidently she will feel confused about her dominance.Deal the problems you have with your mother in law directly.Don’t allow her to dominate you.Set clear boundaries.Don’t allow her to interfere into your relationship with your husband.Never ever cry before her.Don’t fight with your husband in her presence.Don’t abuse her.But don’t mince your words when she tries her tricks to make you unhappy.Don’t pick up fights with your husband regarding your mother in law.Your mother-in-law is to be respected and not feared.