How or where did you meet your spouse/partner?
We had an arranged marriage. My aunt and my MIL were best friends. I met my husband when when he came to India from Canada. My parents had met him when he visited India at age 18.My husband was only 21, his mom wanted him to marry me. She had already made up her mind, first time she saw me. My husband on the other hand wanted to see more girls. He had never seen me but he was rebelling against his parents. He was mad at his parents and told them, he didn’t want to see me. He would marry me if they wanted to. I was worried when I found out that he didn’t want to see me. I asked my cousin in law, who was the middle person, if there is anything wrong with him? She said, no, he’s really nice and you would make a nice couple.I didn’t want to marry a man who didn’t want to marry me for him but for his parents. Then we met, agreed and got married. I was 19, he was 21. My mother in law wanted me to wear those kaliyan (flowers in my hair) She thought I was Rekha. :) Rekha is her favorite actor.This picture was taken at my husband’s uncle’s home.I was painfully shy…This is our family..Edit: I wanted to share with those who are wondering about people in an arranged marriage.We were driving home from Costco today. My husband said, I am so grateful I married you. I know it was meant to be. I was such an ass when I was younger. I am glad you stuck around. :) This wasn’t the first time he has told me. He has been telling me this for 30 years.
What does "It's going down in the DM" mean?
On Twitter, DM is short for direct message, and it is used to send a private message to a person you are following and who is also following you. On Twitter, tweets are public messages but you can send DM to send a message privately.You can view DMs from the Messages tab of your Twitter profile. Click on “Messages” to read all your DM’s.DM is now also used to reffer to any private message which is sent from any social media platform like Instagram or Facebook."Down in the Dm" is a song by Yo Gotti released in September 2015. The phrase refers to direct messaging people on social media for purposes of filtering and hooking up. Or simply just being nosy, scandalous , ratchet, and thirsty.Hope this helps!
Why is my ex asking me to come see his new house?
The answer is: re-sparking sexual activities! *ding ding ding*Understand that being humans interact for multitudes of reasons. The most common type of interaction, especially that which is laced with the seasoning of intimacy is rekindling connections or at least, creating one. With that in mind, let's play detectives and let's take it systematically:Why would your ex text you? "oh maybe because he wants things to go back to the way they were!""Probably... not! A guy, giving him the benefit of the doubt that he is a decent one, will tend to go straight to the point of again lighting up the fire of love. Since he's telling you about his new house, might as well see his new bed."Why would he want to sleep with you again?"because it is sexual pleasure and again using Freud's psychoanalytic theory... We're all about the sex and aggression."Does he want the relationship back or will he just hurt me again?"that on the other hand is a risk that you have to take yourself. Sometimes it does; sometimes you're again shredded with your heart that's already broken. No matter what happens, you have to understand that it's a risk you took and always remember that it's worth it."