Etiquette when meeting someone at a restaurant?
If you are meeting someone at a restaurant for a date, do you expect the first person to arrive to get a table and wait inside? Or wait in their vehicle for you to arrive before going in? I am just wondering this because a few guys I've gone on dates with recently have gone inside and got a table before I arrived. I find it annoying because then you look silly roaming/looking around the place to find them and I feel it is just easier to walk in together.
Can the tip of the foreskin completely close up?
It's rare for the tip of the foreskin to get really narrow but it'll never completely close up, per se. It is possible for the foreskin to get so narrow that the opening is like a small pinhole. The first thing to do is not freak out. You didn't do anything inherently wrong. Your son was once able to retract his foreskin fine and now, for whatever reason, he isn't. Your other son is fine, but every boy's body is different. That's just how things are. Now it sounds like a lot of things that could be going on here. The foreskin rarely just narrows on its own like that, so most likely something's irritating it. For the moment, ask him to not retract his foreskin, don't use any soaps around his penis when you bathe him, and avoid baths (showers are better). Soap residues under the foreskin can cause irritation. It's fine that your son can't retract his foreskin right now, just let it be. Yes, it's important to clean under there, but first it has to work properly! If his foreskin balloons out when he pees, that's okay; as long as he can pee without pain/discomfort, then leave it alone (for now). To help his body along, you could give him cranberry juice in case it's some kind of mild infection. Eating yogurt can help too. The most important thing right now is to leave his penis alone and do what you can to help it heal faster so it doesn't hurt. Once it's healed, then you can deal with the "next steps." Now, obviously do go to the pediatric urologist and see what he/she says. If the peds urologist recommends circumcision, be adamant that you want to try any other option(s) first. The doctor might give a steroid cream to loosen his foreskin like last time (see link 1), or suggest leaving it alone for now until he's older, when he can try stretching/loosening it after all this has healed up. There's also a surgical alternative to circumcision, called a preputioplasty (see link 2). It's generally cheaper, quicker, less painful, and heals faster. It will "shorten" his foreskin a little, but he'll definitely still have a working foreskin. See links 3 & 4 for more useful info. Remember, even when all things seem lost, there are alternatives to circumcision. And kids have the wonderful ability of healing really fast.
Why do girls play games with men, and enjoy being chased around?
Women like attention, and some of them will do just about anything to get it.
My Younger Siblings Torture My Cats, What should I do?
what your siblings are doing are really truamatic to the cats. you have'nt mentioned the age of your siblings so i can't really point on what kind of story you need to make up to convince them. But seeing the way they behave i guess they are really young. a) you gotto make them look after the cat, like give it a bath, or brush it, or feed it and reward them with their most favourite candy...or toy or something you know they will fall for. and make sure you are around when they are doing these things. b) you can sit the cats n the kids in the same room and read a story to all of them, tell the kids you can understand cat language and ask the kats and kids questions as you read the book and answer for the cat c) to continue with the above idea, you have to tell the kids that you suddenly got the power to communicate with animals and you got this cos you were extra nice to the cats. i know they might ask you to make the cat do things, but you have to come up with excuses to come out of proving your ability. If you can create a bond between your cats and the kids. they will not hurt them anymore. just as they would not hurt you, cos you mean something to them. try it. be the mediator between the cats and the kids. When the cat gets locked in the closest, pick the cat out n tell the child that kitty said it's really sad that you did that to it, cos it loves you very much and would rather sleep in your lap. so go ahead n get that bond building. good luck.